I was out with an old roommate of mine at a pub we regular and I was having a bit of a hard time really getting into the mood to be social, sometimes you just don't feel it but a night out playing some pool with a good friend is always good times. approaching the end of the night I found myself with my buddy and three very good looking girls (old friends of my buddy) and still not feeling it.
Time to shit or get off the pot...I walk up to the bar order a beer and open the first thing I see...she's ugly...I mean not make you yak ugly, but below my standards, what ever I need a warm up. I machine gun off some BS stock lines, old MM crap, kino, kino, she's loving me I give her a fake number and back to the cute ones.
walk back to the group with some swagger, now it's on time get something done, I walk up to the short playboy blond that was giving me the starry eye a little earlier, I walk up behind her and run my finger from the small of her back to the nape of her neck and set down next to her, she giggles "stooooooppppp" smiles and hits me on the shoulder in a playful manner....game on, CnF, CnF she fires back...oh, we have a witty one...nice....she gives me a you think you hot shit but I've heard it all before, the other two girls and my buddy all laugh "OOOooooo" I stand up, look at the blond, "now yer gonna get it, BRB guys it's spanking time" I stand up and pick her bar stool up with her still on it and start walking off with her...she loved this. by the end of the night I we were in a booth me sitting sideways and her leaning back in my arms, we exchange numbers a seal it with a kiss and the night is over.
Next day text game:
Me: Stop thinking about me
Her: yer so cocky
Me: I know, but tell me if you were in a mall had nothing to do what store would you end up at?
Her: Victoria secret
Me: That's original...
Her: U?
Me: a luggage store...
Her: WTF
Me: something about it, just makes me think, where I might take it, what I'll put in the pockets. what I'll have in it coming back, who I'll be with, there's something about luggage that draws me to it.
Me: so I guess I'm saying...what makes you my luggage, why am I drawn to you?
Her: My eye's?
Me: no
Her: my sense of humor?
Me: I don't think so, I mean yer cute and fun and all but that's really not that hard to find is it?
Her: :'( I guess we'll never know
Me: guess not.....
Me: but if I took you out friday I might be able to figure it out
Her: are you asking me out on a date
Me: your a quick one...
We made plans for that friday my normal first date spot healthy organic food, hookah and local wines and beers and really cool art to keep us talking. we hit it off well, she had never smoked hookah before so it was a treat for her. I continue running CnF just because it's natural for me and she was reacting well. We bounce to a new place, right across the street, play some pool talk about life philosophies lots of kinoing going on and it comes time to call it a night. This is a picture perfect night.
Now this is where my game differs from a lot of other guys....I can close right now, we're kissed lots of kino, she's got the "eye's" all signs are there, so what do I do...I walk her to her car, short kiss (not makeout) and say good night.
I do this for two reasons one I dont want to make the girl feel cheap and two what's going to be going through her head all day the next day....you...anticipation is one of the strongest and most over looked tools in seduction but a little will power and it's magic.
next day 7am I receive a text Her: good morning cutie
see what I mean, she woke up thinking about me, we make plans for the next day, lets go downtown Portland, parking sucks it's easier if we take one car, meet me at my place and we'll go from here (if you can end the date at your place, do it) we go out we meet up with a bunch of my friends, my buddies are all very alpha and seeing me in that environment was the biggest DHV ever and I never had to say a word. That night was total comfort building she was in 110% sexual tension was there, comfort was there everything was great.
We got back to my place (where her car was parked) and I let the awkward silence happen, the air grows thick and she waits for me to say something...so I say "well what are your plans for the rest of the night?" she looks defeated, I lean in and kiss, a good long kiss. Needless to say we hooked up that night and several nights after.
and we lived happily ever after...well for a few weeks until I moved on again...what can...
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