Woah!! i went out last night and I sucked!!! The club i was in wasn't really suitable to talk to girls at the bar as it was over crowded at the bar and way too loud!! So, I decided to see how it is dancing with a girl and experimented some methods of what i thought had some logic too them!! Although, I am new too the game and it helped me a little bit of over coming my fear of rejection.

So - The HB I saw looked at me and we held eye contact until she looked away. I moved up closer too her and started dancing with her a little bit, but I got the impression she was slightly stuck up her own a@?e!!! So I decided to just neg her straight off
ME - (whilst smiling) 'you should practice your dancing more'
HB - 'Who me?!'
ME - 'Yeah!'(whilst laughing)

Now she seemed quite taken back by this and before I could carry on the conversation her and her friend walked over to dance with a guy who I wouldn't say was that good looking and he just seemed very desperate. Now this girl and her friend wouldn't stop looking at me across the dance floor and if the HB wasn't looking at me her friend was and then her friend would whisper something in the HB's ear. Should I have gone over to her again? Say something like 'but i forgot to tell you how gorgeous you look tonight and you can practice your dancing with me!'? And this actually then went on to happen with 3 other girls and their friends.

HELP?!?!

I tried not too approach a girl from behind but then the girls that liked me looked, then turned their back to me and started dancing closer to me and then her friend would talk to them I'm guessing on how to act or what ever??

Any help would be really appreciated!!! x

This is a field report, not a lay report. Wrong section.

That was not a neg, it was an insult. You should definitely not open with a neg anyway; at least I don't. Remember "you should leave the woman better off than when you met her." Be more positive, and it seems like you got a bit nervous to think you had to give such a strong "neg" just from her bitchy attitude. Ask yourself, is she bitchy like that to everyone, no? So its just a facade.

And above all, post in the correct sections of the forum

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Thanks man - and yeah apologies for that! x

Don't worry about it, we all make mistakes, especially when we are new to the forum. To get your confidence up and stop this need to neg so strongly, ,I'd suggest looking at the "inner game" and "opening" sections. When you are out next, don't think too much about you are gaming the person you are talking to, but more about whether you two are having fun. Slow steps.
Good luck

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Again, really appreciate the advice! x