Hey guy's just wanted to share this with you;

Gamed a girl online, HB8 (- face of a 7 but body of a 9) she seemed a bit frisky so I was really up for the meet up and bang...we've all been there right?

However when I finally speak to her; I'm being my usual cheeky chappy self, thinking she will respond the way she was doing over messages and txt but it was like lost in translation, the conversation felt awkward at times and she just didn't seem to get my jokes...she seemed shy and reserved but well spoken, I didn't hold it against her and gave her the benefit of the doubt so made arrangements to meet up next time I was in the area "hey I'm up your way on Friday we should meet up and have a coffee or something, I'll meet you in town at around 8...i'll be in touch with the location"

To be honest, at this point I'm not really enthusiastic about meeting her, but was genuinely in the area to move out of one of the houses I shared with my brother so thought I would see if I could turn this around and F-close the awkward HB8 with my newly found gaming skills, in the past I probs would have left it but relished the challenge these days.

Ok so I've gone to meet her, we meet up, still awkward...she's in her shell, body language all closed, she'd just come out of the gym so I was like "i bet you're hungry, we should get some food" to which she responded "I don't like eating out I can cook better myself", I convinced her she needed to eat so we made our way to a nice Caribbean restaurant that served cocktails...

"I'm really into books, I'm reading like 10 at the moment blah blah blah" everything she came out with just made me want to "i'm just going to the toilet" and climb out of a window, I could tell she was very argumentative, we had nothing in common and there was no spark...

At this point I realised heck it takes two to tango, or at least one of us to sexually escalate and create that spark - up until now; my lack of interest and my AFC body language was dowsing any possibility of turning this into a fuck fest...until I had this epiphany...

Eye contact...left, right, down to her lips...hold...back up to her eyes, hold, back to her lips - just long enough for her to notice

HB8: "what are you looking at me like that for"
ME: "I love your lips, you have really kissable lips"
HB8: *giggles*
ME: "infact your whole face, you have really strong features, that's a good thing"
HB8: "Thanks, i'm into photography and my friends have been trying to get me modelling"

At this point she is now holding eye contact with me, I look her all the way up and all the way down and give her a cheeky smile

ME: "I think you should, you definitely have the body to go with it"
HB8: *giggles again* "I was thinking about page 3 too, I have great tits...but don't look as I have a see through bra on, you can see my nipples if you look closely (with the tight white top she had one)"
ME: "HAHA!! I can see areola, nooo way, i'm going to stare at your tits all night now"
HB8: "They look bigger when they are covered up rather than on show, bet you didn't know that?"
ME: "No I didn't, with all the boobs I've seen I thought I would have known everything there is to know about them, so thanks" *cheekily grins"

At this stage she is completely open to me, I ask her to show me her muscles she's been working on, I'm kino'ing her, we are eye fucking each other, I'm starring at her tits a lot too and the conversation is now flowing to the point our waitress had to leave and come back 4 times because we were talking to much and hadn't decided on what we wanted to order, turns out we had a common love for travelling, exotic foods, being open minded, seeing and doing new things etc...

Anyways, we ate our food and I said we should go somewhere else or go back to mine, she said she didn't mind so I took that as a "let's go back to yours and fuck", I brought some wine and continued where we left off in the restaurant, we talked about POF and who she'd met, I said my brother was on there too and asked if she'd met him, turns out she hadn't but he had been pestering her for 3 months to meet up, we joked about it for a while, even suggested we'd take pictures of her on his bed - OK you're probably thinking I'm a cunt for pushing past this point but my brother knows nothing about game and is a complete natural, he often amazes us by number closing random girls, he has no AA and regularly takes girls off everyone in my social circle when we are out and about, plus how was I to know?!

I sat next to her close and put my arm around her and told her she wasn't as bad as what I first thought, as she went to protest I just kissed her to shut her up...she reciprocated and I immediately went in to brush the back of my hand against her nipple and around her breast, down past her impressively toned stomach and across her pelvic lines - repeat a few times while I kiss her neck...she confesses she has a sensitive neck and it really turns her on...repeat, repeat, repeat..parted her legs with my hand and rubbed and pressed it on her clit - at this point she pushed my hand away...fuck noooo!!! but I remembered something about the escalation ladder...start again, repeat..."no we can't" kiss her neck, run my tongue across her nipples, down her belly, pelvic lines..unbutton her jeans and pull her pants down as far as I can go with her jeans still on, I could get to just above her pussy...she was wriggling and arching her back by now - this is ONNNNNN!

I took her jeans down and proceeded to lick suck and tease her, she was a real moaner, hypersentive...i suggested we should go upstairs, she took me by the hand and walked me up.

Now this girl was in the top 10% of females in terms of sensitivity - she could multiple orgasm, we fucked for hours and I was her god of love, she now worships me to the point I'm getting random dirty pictures and sexual torrets style txt messages...she is crazy hot in bed, I'll see her again I think!

I learnt a lot from this experience, I'm new to the game but being game aware and taking what I had learned about body language, eye contact and sexual escalation turned this around for me...This is my first lay report on here so if I've missed important points, the content is wrong or you want to know more just let me know, i'll be posting some more soon!

Right mate, first off, congratulations. Good report and enjoyed reading it, and obviously, great work on getting the lay.

I think you took a massive step in your game here, by continuing and remembering, sometimes "no" just means push harder, make the girl want and need to fuck you there, because your just pressing all the right buttons. You did this, by re-escalating, and going back to what got her going.

You took lead of the situation, a situation that seemed dead and boring by making her feel good, opening up a little, and she pounced on it by telling you about her tits.

What did you learn from this? for future reference.

I think you learnt, no doesn't always mean NO get lost. I also believe you have learnt that you can take any situation with a woman by the scruff of the neck and lead the way, which is important, women like a man who says what your doing, or atleast gives good options, which you did.

Well done.

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Glad you got to the end of it, I can really waffle sometimes!!

I learnt that what you don't say is more important than what you say, if you get the eye contact and body language right then the rest will flow...

Also, the sooner you can Kino the more relaxed she will be in your company...I've done this for years without analysing my behaviour or it's impact, it's amazing how much these things stand out when you are looking for them.

Of course mate. Things stand out more and you now advance in different ways with kino because you know what to expect and generally the reaction you will get, and as you said how comfortable you can make someone feel when they're with you.

Look forward to lay report 2 with her haha.

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