| Hmm, where to begin? I've been dating this girl for a while now and we've been on three dates, up till now the best I could get was her straddling me and grinding me with our shirts off. If I tried to get any further she just told me no flat out. It really didn't matter what I did, all the physical escalation, the freeze outs, she'd only let me get so far no matter how much she was enjoying it.
So anyway, this last date, which was last week, we're lying there on my bed and I'm once again trying to escalate and she again stops me. I was just getting a little bit frustrated at this point. but she says
HB: No.
TD: Why not?
HB: I don't do that with guys I'm not in a relationship with.
TD: [really didn't know what to say, as much as I like the girl I didn't want to be her bf, well not yet anyway, besides I'm currently seeing multiple girls and I didn't want to end the other ones for one girl]
Well I'll tell you what, it's a good thing I didn't say anything about "well let's be together then" because moments later she tells me that she was technically still with her ex when we started seeing each other and that she's not looking for a serious relationship with any guy right now.
She told me that she expected me to be upset and tell her to leave, but I wasn't upset, and in fact the first thoughts I had were, "well damn," and "you're making this incredibly easy on me." So I say:
TD: That's alright, I understand. You're at a place in your life where you need to figure things out on your own and be on your own. But nothing between us has to change, I mean, I enjoy your company and I think you enjoy mine. This can be good, we can just hang out and have fun.
Then I pulled her in and kissed her, she kissed back. I pulled her shirt off, she let me, I kissed her neck, she started moaning, I started to unhook her bra, she showed me a trick to do it one handed (I just wish I could remember how to do it), took my shirt off. Then I used my reach behind her ass and rub her pussy that way, which worked well again and then started to undo her belt and unbutton her shorts at which point she said:
HB: If I let you do that I think I better get something in return
I said I could give her something and took off her shorts. I rolled her over and started kissing her neck again and slid a finger in her, then took her panties off and went back to fingering her. After a few minutes I literally had her begging me to fuck her.
HB: (grabbing my hand and pulling it out of her and away) No, I think you should just fuck me.
I was surprised because she's such a sweet girl I didn't think she'd talk that way, I liked it though. I would have loved to give her what she wanted in that moment, but for some reason I couldn't get hard. I mean I was hard all the way up until I got her shorts off and then for the life of me - nothin'.
I was actually just about to give up and tell her, "sorry, can't get hard, maybe next time" but when I lied down next to her she straddled me and started grinding me till I got hard. So I put a condom on and we went started to go to town.
It was great, my first lay in a long time and I didn't last as long as I would've liked but still it was great. She was awesome and a hell of a lot better than my last couple girls.
Today's lessons:
I suppose that there's not much I can say or point out in this one. I guess that sometimes the best response is nothing at all and that every girl will have her exception to the rule. And it's good to be that exception.
-TD out
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Send me a brunette,
Send a blonde to me.
When I unwind, I'm colorblind,
They're all the same to me."
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