Hello all. Just wanted to share my second f-close since I got back into this whole pickup thing back in March.

I ran into an old friend online who I knew from high school. She is one of those really artsy, free spirit kind of girls who sings and loves animals. She's tall (about 5'6), with piercing blue eyes and blonde hair. She is a little on the chubby side but still has a nice hourglass figure and huge tits.

So, as I mentioned, I met her online on two different dating sites about 6 months apart. I sent her a message. Something to the effect of "Hey, we keep running into eachother online. What's up with that?" She responded promptly and we exchanged a few texts. I called her up a few times over the next week or so and had short, 10 minute, conversations with her that I always ended. They were usually late at night. I used a few specific DHVs. I indicated that my job involved some travel and I usually ended the calls with something like "Gotta go, I have a big presentation that I am giving to a client tomorrow. I need my beauty sleep. Later."

Eventually I asked her to have a few drinks with me and we met at a local bar, kind of an avant-garde place where a bunch of hippies and goths gather. I wore a T-Shirt http://www.google.com/products?rlz=1T4W ... CDoQzAMwAg with Jeff Bridges on it from The Big Lebowski that says "Abide," Easily my best peacocking item as it always gets compliments. Random guys were coming up to me to tell me how awesome it was. I was also wearing a newsboy cap with a pair of tattered jeans and some nice leather sandals. Totally congruent for the setting, I was going for that laid back, cool hippy look.

So we are sitting there with her roommate, a nice little HB 8 with a darker mediterrenian look. She and I are just reminiscing about high school and I am engaging her roommate in natural conversation. I noticed that her roommate is kind of bratty so I neg her a bit and they both seem to appreciate my C&F sense of humor. At one point her cute friend says something like "Do you really think I am mean?" To which I reply "No, geez I am so in your head. Just realx I like you just fine."

Later that night I get into a conversation with them about stalkers:

Me: So, Ill bet you girls have had stalkers huh?
Them: Oh yeah...this one guy....throwing rocks at my window...showed up at my office...etc.
Me: I think you're lying. You know I think most girls, you included, just convince themselves that guys are stalking them to make themselves feel special. I'll bet if I talked to every girl in this bar not one would say that they have never had a stalker.
Them: Blah, blah, blah. I really did have a stalker. It was fun to listen to their stalker stories and I got the impression that they were trying to impress me.

So I just kept on with this routine for a bit and they seemed to enjoy the banter as we had a philosophical conversation about what a stalker is. Later in the night after they had a few drinks I showed them a simple magic trick where I use a piece of papaer to make it appear that I put a coin through the table. We have half a pitcher of beer left when we are ready to leave so I offer it to the guys at the table next to me and one says "Awesome shirt, but the man inside is even better." Love that shirt.

I end up back at her place that night and we make out for awhile. We hang at her place for a bit and end up making out in her bedroom. I tell her that if we want to go farther I need to run to my car and grab a condom. She replies that she would rather I just stay and cuddle so I acquiesce and spend the night. From now on I will always carry the condoms in my wallet. Rookie mistake.

So last Saturday I invite her out to a karaoke bar. She brings her roommate again and we all have a good time singing and drinking. I am wearing a crisp white button down shirt with a thick white-gold chain, a nice pair of blue-jeans and a different newsboy cap. I really love that style hat and I am totally Irish so it works for me.

We are engaging in some standard courtship kino. I am putting my hand on the small of her back and touching the nape of her neck while I talk to her When I did it I could feel her squirm a little and she came closer to me, she was definitely digging it. While we are chatting I engage her in a little role-play.

Me: I would love to own a place like this. Why dont we go down to Florida and open a little Karaoke bar, what do you think.
Her: I dont know. It might be a lot of work, and it might not be as much fun as you think.
Me: I'm not afraid of a little work...Hey! I just had a great idea! Lets make it a naked karaoke bar. Everyone would have to get up and sing totally naked!
Her: Ha ha! Sounds like a plan!
Me: Hell yeah (ding her beer bottle with mine). We can go down to the coast and get super rich off of naked karaoke and then we'll buy a hot car and cruise along the coast. What kind of car do you want?
Her: Hmmm...how about a Mercedes.
Me: Pffft! You can have your Mercedes. I want a classic Jag, like from the 60s like James Bond!
Her: Ha ha! I was just about to say that!

We sing a few songs. She is an excellent singer and she has a really sexy smooth voice. My selection was "Lawyers, Guns, and Money." "Centerfold," and "Rainbow in the Dark." I chose songs that made me look cool and kind of goofy at the same time. There was a loud table of guys to our right that became a cheering section for me and stood up and started playing air-guitar during "Rainbow,"

Later that night her roommate splits and I drive her home. She grabs me seconds after we get in the door and we are naked in 5 minutes. No LMR to speak of and this time I have a condom in my wallet! The day after we had a frank discussion about what it meant to us and we both agreed that it was just for fun and that there were no expectations so I walked away guilt free. In retrospect this is indeed a conversation that I should have had with her before we got it on and I think I will take that approach in the future.

Thoughts:

1) I have only F-Closed a couple of 7s but I am doing pretty good in my bracket. Physically I am not much of a specimen (if I had to rate myself I would say I am a 6 at best). I am chubby (5'8" and about 230) and otherwise unremarkable with the exception of my blue eyes and an awesome speaking voice. I think if I got myself down to 180 and put on some muscle I could start gaming the 8s and 9s and maybe even work in the occasional 10. I know it is not all about looks, but why pass up an edge when it is just a few trips to the gym a week away especially when there is a nice little gym right across the street from where I work. Geez, If I can F-Close two women every six months then I would be having sex with four women a year. In two years I would have sept with as many women as I have in my whole life.

2) Both closes happened within 7 hours and I had to spend very little money. Less than $100 total. My failures probably totaled about $100 as well which would break down to about $100 a lay which aint bad for new vag. Plus, I am textbook on Mystery's timeline. I also got one close online and one close from the field so there is some balance there. The only caveat to that is that it took two months in the first scenario and one month in the second. I ended up having to deal with a lot of freeze outs and I cant shake the feeling that there was some luck involved in both scenarios.

3) I am having a hell of a lot of fun doing this and I cant wait to get even better. I hope that in a couple of years I have a nice collection of lovely ladies in my phonebook. I am even more psyched to start teaching people what I know. I feel for any man out there who is frustrated with women. It totally doesn't have to be that way. My younger bro is a good looking kid who cant get laid because he is super shy. It will be nice to give back to the community when I am ready. APB to guys in the Pittsburgh area! Future Guru here!

4) I think every aspiring PUA should pickup a little sleight of hand. Not only is it impressive to women but you can see how modern pickup evolved from magic since so much of it involves misdirection and discipline. I think that women find it naturally attractive when you can show that you hands are nimble and precise.

5) I had a thought about the guru's that I chose to study. About 5 years ago I picked up David DeAngelo's stuff. I realize that I said I was only at this for 6 months but shortly after I read "Double Your Dating," I ran into a HB 10 and boom! relationship for 2 years and 2 years recovering from her bitchy attitude..long story but I digress... About 6 months ago I picked up MM. I was chilling with my friend MJ just now and reading some David D. and I realized that I felt all happy, and entertained; warm and fuzzy. I thought back to MM and I realized that when I was reading it I was learning a lot of useful tricks but, even though it was fun it was a more studious process. I felt like I had to try harder, it was not an easy book to read. Then the revelation hit me. Mr. Rodgers & Sesame Street. Dont know if that is helpful to anyone, just a mental association that I wanted to share.

6) My Lebowski Tee

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Thanks for the help that I have received so far from the community.

Later,

Phaz