| Greetings and welcome to my first field report ever! (Warning, this FR has little learning value)
I was actually planning to write a post yesterday before I went out that today is the beginning, this is where my journey starts. Now I kinda wish I'd actually done that but whatever. Lets get to it!
I'm very new in the game although I'm not one of these guys who's totally uncalibrated socially. I've been with a few girls, done everything except actually sleeping with them which is pretty good results since I, for some reason, never put any effort at all to get girls.
Lets get to it. I was going out with 2 friends of mine who're not in the game, like semi-naturals, no problems getting girls, no massive results. We entered the club, met a few girls that I know a little, some introducing etc.
At some point I ended up at a table with maybe 5 girls who I've partied with before. I had trouble leading and keeping the conversation going with everyone. When I'm in a group I tend to get this laidback style and popin with some funny comments etc which probably is a sticking point because I should lead it. I'm not a big fan of routines but if someone has some tricks/topics or whatever to get the conversation going in a group I think it would be good to have as an ace in the sleeve.
The music was pumping at a very loud volume and the dancefloor was crowded so this is where I tried the hardest. I just used the "spin" opener on maybe 6-7 sets or something and like 2-3 of them reacted kinda badly which surprised me, maybe it was the way I did it. I didnt really just go in and physically took their arms and spinned em', is that what your supposed to do? I did a more like, stick my arm out with a retard smile and then grabbing them and spinning, some girls didnt even understand that they were supposed to spin and couldnt hear me because of the music either
Also, I'm a confident, I honestly think I'm the biggest f-ing catch inside that club but I guess I'm not great at subcommunicating it with my bodylanguage because my friend were telling me like, just look confident and have fuckeyes - which I already thought I did.
Anyway it was getting late and I see this girl next to me, HBstairs. Nice body, okey face. Fuck it, i'm drunk
We start grinding face to face, I think I do a spin on her and after like a minute we're exchanging saliva. After a while I bounce her to the couches, make out some more.. or alot more. Like no speaking at all so far. I take her hand and lead her through the people against the closet and ask her where the bathroom is. We go there although there's alot of girls in there so she dont want to enter, we make out some more outside waiting for them to get the fuck out although as soon as the gang leaves another one comes.
We fluff some and decide to get out of here. At this point I'm aware we cant go to her place for some reason and mine is out of question because I live at home wall to wall with my parents. I'm not sure what I had in mind but I tell her we'll meet outside, grab my coat and take a leak. We start walking maybe 500 meters, fluff a bit, then we get to this small parkinglot/community garden which is a bit off. She takes the initiative to look up the place. I push her against the wall and we start making out. I go for the pussy and pretty soon I have 2 fingers inside of her. We're standing next to some stairs which leads to a small platform like the door to the apartment basements or something. I start fucking her in the chilly sweden weather. Because of all the redbull and jägermeister not even the slightest though about using a condom goes through my head.
I have to take a cab to my place, HBstairs wants to go with me but.. seriously if that was possible I wouldnt have fucked her at some stairs outside. Also when we start walking I notice my hand is all covered in blood. Even though I told her she cant sleep at me she tries some tricks to get into the cab with me, I put my feet down and she gets pissed and leaves. I laugh with the cabdriver and enjoy my ride home.
I understand this probably have no teaching value, I'm writing this to - hopefully - be able to look back on. You will see a lot more of me.
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