So I work at this gas station/drugstore and we had the territory party yesterday. Everyone from all the gas stations from our sector were invited to party at a place that the bosses reserved for us. There were prizes, music, 3 tickets of free alcohol for everyone, great stuff.

I recently decided to concentrate on social proof and preselection. So I talked to as much people as I could from the beginning, women and men alike. I stopped a girl I've seen before at another gas station and, with humor, assigned her as being my hug-giver of the night. So everytime she passed by, we'd hug. All I did for more than an hour was talk to as many different people as possible and hug, kiss, have a good time with people. Lots of kino. And I made sure that I had to have real fun. If talking to someone felt tedious, I'd go somewhere else. I also implemented DHV stories, but very quickly. I wanted to see what pure social proof could do for me.

After a while, girls came to talk to me, because I was the life of the party. It reminded me of that PUA Analysis video of Robbie Williams: After a while I could do anything I wanted, so I implemented even more kino with girls, and became a flirt. The hug-girl, at one point, lingered on her hug and mentioned that she studied massages, so she gave me a neck massage while everyone in the room could see. More pre-selection. At one point, we wanted to make-out, but not in front of everyone, so I went to the bathroom and she followed after five minutes. We had sex in a cabin, which sounds bad, but it was so sexy, knowing that people came in from time to time. Unfortunately a guy noticed that there were four feet instead of two inside the cabin. Minutes later everyone knew what had happened. I got nervous, but I realized that, if the PUA stuff I learned was right, this would not make crap happen, but only throw my pre-selection off the roof.

A girl stopped me as I came out of the bathroom and said that she was disappointed. But she didn't give a reason. By the way she was a guy I know's new girlfriend, who I met earlier that night. All evening she was orbiting me, so I wondered what that comment really meant. I shrugged it off and went back to the main room. Everyone looked at me with smiles, it was pretty funny. After everyone knew what happened, girls started talking to me even more, but they were very close. At one point I was leaning on the bar and I felt almost caged there. The guy I know's girlfriend was the same way she was with me the whole evening, so I guessed that her comment didn't really mean anything after all.

Later on, at 1 am, we decide to go to a club called Nineez. Guy I know's girlfriend came with a bunch of other girls and two guys. We went on the dancefloor and I noticed that pretty much no other guy was dancing, so I decided to dance, and the girls loved that. One of the girls danced with me and kissed (kinda bit) my neck and threw her hands inside my shirt. Guy I know's girlfriend also danced with me and I knew that she really liked me. At the end of the night, minutes before we left, we hugged, but it was a sensual hug. She kissed my neck and we parted. I got phone numbers, facebooks, and one hell of a good time. Not just for the sex, but the rest was awesome too.

So here's what I think we can get out of this story:

Pre-Selection and Social Proof are awesomely powerful tools. I took that from Adam Lyons teachings. If you're a party kinda guy, this man is the key.

Even though I had sex with a girl in the bathroom, girls didn't run away. On the contrary, they were even more into me. I'm pretty sure I'm starting to realize something really cool here.

I had fun. Nothing during the night was a chore. That made all the difference, because I didn't just have sex in my mind. Being a methodical PUA makes your whole night a mission, and it's not all pleasure. You have to think hard about what to say, how to act, your body-language, etc. etc. I just went in there, used pre-selection and social proof, and even though I'd throw in some PUA-ish stuff in there from time to time, I made sure that everything was fun.

Also, about the girl who said that she was disappointed. She was even more into me after the sex. So don't let a girl's comments distabilize you. What they say doesn't always portray what they think.

Sounds like some good lessons there! Props!

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this is awesome

my goal is to do that now haha

cant wait for the next party

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Hiya, great job!

Can you go into more detail with what/how you talked to the girls and guys about at the party?

Sure!

It was all very casual and humorous. Again, lots of kino. I'd joke about stuff and play in some DHV, but conversations would never be long. One to three pieces of conversation and boom I was gone to another set. I noticed that you don't have to isolate your target so quickly in a party. Just get her curious about you, leave and let her see you talking to lots of other people. Good thing to do at first was to get into sets that included someone I knew. That way I'd hug/kiss that person then introduce myself. I added funny or clever comments to the conversation they were having, or if they weren't in a big conversation (which is usually the case in a party) I'd make a comment that could start one about me.

EXAMPLE: A customer started strangling me once, and another time, a customer actually started slashing at my face with his nails. I also got some threats and lots of funny stories along with that. All that because I'm a smartass and talk back when angry customers insult me. So I'd start the conversation by going like ''Hey, I'm Thomas, from the 433 store.'' ''Hey I'm Steph! This is Nico and that's Catherine. We're from 427.'' ''Awesome. You guys don't have gas at your store do you?'' ''no we just sell goods.'' ''Lucky you. You probably never had crazy customers like we do!'' ''Crazy customers?'' ''Yeah well I'm kind of a smartass and got in trouble a couple of times.'' ''Haha nice, big trouble?'' ''Yeah, I got strangled once. It wasn't nice then but now it's a funny story to tell '' ''NO WAY.'' then I explain.

Also, when in a set, if I saw someone I knew pass by, I'd temporarily stop the conversation and hug/kiss that person and bring him or her in the conversation, if possible. That way, everyone in the set and even people outside the set that were looking could see that I'm a magnet to people.

I got DHV stories that blended easily, because they call me the Don Juan at work because at the couche-tard party before that one I also slept with a girl when she gave me a ride back home. So they kinda joke about it, and when I'd get in a set, someone I know would be like ''be careful he's going to sleep with you!'' then I'd explain why he said that, and it always gave me good, funny reactions. But if you don't have easy DHVing going for you at the party, just bring out some canned stuff if you must. Just make sure not to emphasize too much on it and stale out the conversation. It's a party, people want to talk to other people, dance, have fun. If you drag out a conversation, it won't be as natural as it would be during day-time game. Be funny, intriguing, but brief.

That is, at the beginning. Later, when your social proof and pre-selection are on their highest note, you can talk to someone and get into comfort and rapport building.

Because Jesus wasn't playing; because he was serious. We have the Christian and moral responsibility to seek to discover the meaning of these words, and to discover how we can live out this command, and why we should live by this command.

Hey man, how do you pull girls into the bathroom? She just followed you in? Or did you ask her? I have no idea lol...

Well she wanted to kiss me, so I told her ''Not here.'' and went on saying that she should go to the bathroom and wait for me in a cabin, and I'd come like 30 seconds later. I told her that it was to kiss her. Obviously she must have known that it was just an excuse to have sex with her, but she still went along with it. I thought it was clumsy, but it sure worked. And I think it makes the transition from kissing to sex, in such a situation, much easier.

She wasn't really disappointed... she actually wanted you to feel bad because she's upset you didn't give her enough attention. Next time see this as a major fucking IOI (even though she just noticed you hooking up with someone) and you just focus on her again - she won't back away.

Nice going there, buddy.

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