I met a 38 year old Japanese Cougar on ok cupid. In a nutshell she winked me, we chated, met for drinks, I kiss closed on that meeting. She came over tonight. foreplay, kiss, massaged her, and got to the business. The downhill part was I kept losing wood, and it kept goign away when I put on a condom to go to town. I wanted to leave a good impression, and have her back to play with more. So I played her yatch like a Violin, and she came. She wants to come over this weekend.

I blame doing legs/shoulder/20 minutes of cardio before seeing her. Squats, Lunges, Lying Leg Curls, Shrugs, and Shoulder press. Emberassing....any advice? Do you think it was nerves, or just the workout that made me lose wood.

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"Life is a game of inches. In life the margin for error is so small. The inches we need are everywhere around us. When we add up all the inches, that makes up difference between winning and losing. Between living and dying." -Al Pacino

Doing legs and shoulders is a very long workout. It is also extremely hard on your Central Nervous System(CNS). So it is likely the combination of your exhausted glycogen stores, and the extreme strain on your CNS (within 20 minutes), hampered your stamina and ability to maintain an erection. You generally need to give the CNS 1-2 hours to recover after a very taxing workout like that. Additionally, when you workout large muscle groups like that, more blood is sent to that area to provide oxygen to the muscle which is working at its maximum capacity. 20 minutes after a workout like that a significant amount of blood would still be in that area because of vasodilation. Therefore you had a taxed CNS and blood was being diverted to the legs and shoulders which the body viewed as more essential than sending blood to your penis at the time. Lol, next time make sure you get your workout in earlier or later, but not in such close proximity to having sex.

I had the girl come over again tonight. I only masturbate once every 7 days (to harnass my libido for the gym, and to make myself sarge better). So this time I went straight home from work, because traffic made by 30 minute commute 2 hrs. She came over, we did foreplay for much longer. I relaxed, and it went awesome. she came, then it was my turn, and I came. I still hate condoms.

Tex Out.

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"Life is a game of inches. In life the margin for error is so small. The inches we need are everywhere around us. When we add up all the inches, that makes up difference between winning and losing. Between living and dying." -Al Pacino