Not sure where this thread is going, I havent read through. I simply came on to put my contribution in for the original question.

Firstly buddy, prepare to be disapointed. Generally, people tend to be let down the first time they have sex. Expectations surpas reality, this is the same with women as well.

It takes time to get used to it, get your groove, and start enjoying a happy fruitful sex life. Again, it wont actually change you as a person, nor would it give you a "glow"! But it will make you comfortable and familiar with women. Mentally, physically and now sexually. Again, this is similar for women, as it takes them a while to gain confidence and explore their sexual desires.

There is very little you can learn about an industry without having the work experience in that field. The same applies with women. Reading and packing your brain with information wont do you any justice or make any changes.

Stop putting pressure on yourself, and just go out there and learn as much as you can about women. The more clients a sales executive has, the more sales they make. Hence, the more women in your life you have, the higher the chances of having sex. Once the dirty deed has been done, you will find interracting with women so much easier.

Closer is pretty accurate, but his conclusion can be somewhat relative, at least in my experience.

Sex is a confidence builder, if it was good. It can make you ask more questions, it can make you clingy to the girl (definately DO NOT go that route). It can make you bolder and you feel like 'YOU ARE THE MAN'. It can also just be that, sex..nothing more..just a nut job.

You should date and date alot. Don't start a relationship with a girl until you are a MAN...meaning, that you go into the relationship with NO insecurities that can damage the relationship. Hit a lot of puss..get experience...know then what you want in a woman...what you like and dislike, etc.

Also, if you do decided to go into a relationship, REMEMBER WHY the girl decided to be in a relationship with you in the first place, and be that man...otherwise six months down the road she will drop you like hot potatos for the man she was once in 'love' with.

Being a MAN is contant work... You have to remind yourself that YOU ARE THE MAN and stick to it...I have seen lots of guys put up fronts and get the girls of their dreams only later to be dumped by the same girl because the girl said 'They changed' ...or 'Was no longer the guy they met with the first time around.'

Don't settle for the first puss you hit, if you do, then you are needy....DON'T DO IT...date more girls and get some experience...and then if you and your first feel the same, then start dating again...

Hope this helps.

J-Dub

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J-Dub in DC

Its better to be the predator than the prey.

You need to be a good player if your gonna be successful at the game.

If thats the case then jacking off works just fine then...seeing as its just a pointless orgasm anyway.

You know? That may work for some people, but some of us want something real if we're gonna have sex with someone... and sleeping around just doesn't sound that appealing.

Thats my life planned out now thanks!

Put it in short, sex makes you feel good.

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I'm not run of the mill, because it's from the mill I'm running...

dude once u have sex, the easier it will seem for u to get it...i lost my virginity two months ago, and already ive had sex with 3 different girls, about to make it 4. so yes, i think it will change u and by change u, i mean ur confidence about it. right now u must think its kind of a hard thing to get, like its a lil outta ur reach..once u get it, the more of it will come i promise u bruh.

take care man

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Vic Vega