Here's is the situation i am in right now.

I have been seeing this girl for a while now, i met here in September and just started flirting with this girl at my college gym and got her number from there. What she neglected to say was that she had a boyfriend. Later on she did admit to it even though we didn't mess around other than verbal and physical flirting, a lot. Eventually that flirting would turn into intimate conversation and cuddling. Eventually she broke up with her boyfriend (who she dated all of college up to that point (side note, shes a senior at 21, im a 20 year old sophomore)).

Well I kept on getting intimate with her while only cuddling and making out a lot at the time, without being her official boyfriend. Everything goes well up until she says a few days ago (both are now back from winter break) when she says she does not want a boyfriend for a while since she does not know what her future holds for her. I don't know if i totally believe her on it, but it breaks my heart that she said this.

Anyway, there's the basic of what happened. I really want a LTR with this girl, i haven't talked, texted or seen her in a full one day since this has occurred. I am thinking of using the Soulmate moment on her in order to make her rethink her decision when she decides to see me next.

I need advice since I am obviously new to this forum. Please go easy on me if im asking this in the wrong place or not, I really do connect with this girl, as some of you can relate.