So I was at this house party, and was doing a whole bunch of social proofing - basically I went around and introduced myself to lots of people, it also helped that there were some really random faces in the crowd that I knew. I also had my wingman who was DHVing for me, and I was doing the same for him.

I was building attraction with Kate, and doing some Kino, but wasn't really getting all that many IOIs back - she was laughing, but wasn't returning the Kino, or seeming all that open, so I left her, she couldn't remember my name so I negged her on that and then left (she seemed like a lost cause & was sober + had hayfever)

I'd been chatting to a girl previously - probably about HB6.5 - I guess I was flirting with her - there was a jelly pit, and I said that I'd get in and wrestle her, but that I was afraid that she'd hurt me because I'm fragile. So I went back and was chatting with her again, there was another guy following, so I isolated by asking if she wanted to go dance in the shed (there was a dj in there, with lots of lighting etc, pretty cool). So we go to dance, and then we get closer, and I go in for the kiss, and she totally pashes me.

After a few songs dancing, I ask if she'd like to go into town (bump), and I get my friend and wing to agree to go in. We get into town, I meet up with more friends (more social proof), she meets up with hers - I happen to know some of them (more social proof), we pash some more on the dance floor, then we go upstairs for some pool.

We then hop in the car to head off home, I have my arm around her, but not doing anything in the car, I ask if she wants to come back to mine, she says yes.

We get home, we use the bathroom, then we just start pashing, and I take her, lay her on the bed, kiss her all over, take off our clothes and do the business

No LMR or anything - I put it down to loads of social proof, which built up trust levels.

After the deed was done she tells me that she's never gone home with a guy she just met before (I've never brought home a girl I just met either). In the morning we did it again, I made her breakfast, then dropped her off home. She asked me for my number when i dropped her off

Hoorah! 3 weeks into the game, and I score - I'm very happy

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Hey bud, nice work and everything. But you may wanna be a bit more specific than just "social proof". Did you run any routines and scenarios, or did the social proof just work the entire thing?

Also, what does "Pash" or "Pashes" mean? lol i couldnt figure if it was a good thing or bad.

haha! Karizmatic,
"pash" is Aussie / Kiwi for "passionate kissing".. or as to the rest of the world it's - french kissing..

and very nice PureStrategy.. well done.

-Illusionist-

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Sorry, maybe it's the New Zealand jargon going.

Pash = French Kiss

What i mean by social proof, is just showing that I am friends with lots of people, and that I'm well connected.

For example, I might go and introduce myself to someone, then I'll come back later, remembering their name, and say "Hey Elizabeth, how's your night going?". I'll do this when they're speaking to others, so then the others let their shields down because they think I know the person - but really I've just remembered their name. I'll then get "Elizabeth" to introduce me to her friends, which I can then use to extend my connections even more.

I might then introduce a "great friend of mine, one of the smartest guys I know, and a musical genius", and then I bring in my friend I'm winging for into the conversation.

I had two friends at the party as well, and basically we all wandered off and started to chat to people. This meant that if I was left alone at any point, I could find one of my friends, and start chatting to the people that they are chatting to.

BTW I wasn't drunk when I was doing all of this - I'm sure that if I was drunk that I'd have a much harder time remembering names etc. it also helped that I could remember some other people from various meetings over time. My two friends (one who is my wing) also know that we are all playing the game.

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