| Hello Gentlemen,
It was 9:00 Tuesday evening and I was just sitting on the couch at home on my laptop taking care of some business. My roommate came downstairs and says he's heading out to a local Pub to meet a girl, Erin, and have some drinks. He invites me along, so I throw on some clothes and just go to hang out.
Upon walking into the bar I had a cute little girl jump into my arms excited to see me. It was just an old friend that I wasn’t attracted to but this had the very few people in the bar at the time looking at me. (Social Proof.) My friend and I, lets call him, Talon, sat at the bar and proceeded to order drinks and I got a sandwich. Then Erin showed up and sat on the opposite side of Talon. She was pretty cold and unconversational at first so I just let Talon work his game and I enjoyed my sandwich and talked to the bartender. After having a second to talk to Talon he was like "WRONG fucking Erin!" Ha Ha, I laughed. He was totally expecting to meet a totally different girl.
We decided to head over to another bar for some pool and air hockey. While playing pool, I realized Erin was becoming attracted to me. I was like "Oh Fuck, why is she attracted to me? I'm not doing ANYTHING....(at least consciously.) This is Talon's girl and I don’t want to do anything." Of course I'm a man so even though I kept giving Talon tips and pointers throughout the night, I also kept saying, "If you're not going to take her can I have her?"
He ended up inviting her back to our place so we came back, met a couple other friends, and had a little party going on. I purposely sat as far from Erin as I could so she didn’t get any ideas and kept motioning and yelling random words (Escalate, Kino, Cube, Questions Game) to Talon, to get his game going. Good ole anxiety eh. I have a philosophy, "Just Frickin Do It!" ---- (or your roommate will fuck her for you. lol.) (with your permission of course).
Talon ended up not escalating and not creating attraction...so once he went up to bed and his friend Erin stayed on the couch, The first thing I did, was go upstairs, knock on the door, and ask "Can I Fuck her?"
He said "Yeah sure man go ahead."
Game On!
I go back downstairs to see just Erin and Dan left in the living room. I go sit by Erin and put her legs over mine, and starting talking with Dan. We talk for a bit, then I retreat to the opposite side of the couch and motion for Dan to "Get the fuck outta here." LOL. He wraps up the conversation and also heads to bed. This is around 1:30am. Then it really begins.
We're on opposite ends of the couch and we chat for a couple minutes then I move closer and ask
ME:"Do you want to kiss me?"
HER:"What kind of question is that?"
ME:"Yeah you're right"
and I just start making out with her. She is holding back in the beginning, no tongue or anything and not too involved. More like just accepting the kisses. Then I start some crazy neck grabbing and kissing and finding her hot spots on her back and getting her really going. I switch her around so I am sitting and she's on top of me. We continue kissing and then I start to take her shirt off....She stops me....So I leave it, I keep revving her up and she's getting really wet. She tells me...
HER: "I can't have sex with you tonight"
ME "Who said we were having sex tonight? What gave you that idea, we're just having some fun!"
More making out and then go for the pants. STOPPED again. Fuck.
Keep moving around. Her jeans are wet now. She's shaking. She's loving it. But she's still saying. "You're making this so hard for me," "I cant believe I'm doing this" "We're cant do this tonight."
Because of this I take control of her frame and start saying things like "I know! We're so Naughty...but it's so much fun. It FEELS so awesome." And continually excited her with my hands, my words, and my rock solid cock. It's working. I go for the pants again...I get the button undone and the zipper down ....then......STOPPED...
FREEZE OUT. I retract to the other side of the couch and just lie there pretending to go to sleep. After a couple minutes she says, "well I guess I should be going"
I open my eyes slowly. "Yeah you're probably right" Then I sit up and grab her and start making out again. She starts vibrating and going crazy. Tongue in the mouth, soaking her jeans and loving every second of it. She starts telling me about her favorite position....."Anything from behind" I get her into doggy, start grinding some more and really turning her on. I get my fingers down her pants and start rubbing her pussy, and take her hand and get her to hold my cock.
Then...FINALLY...We take our pants off...Put on a condom...and penetrate.
THEN........I go SOFT!
Are you Fucking Kidding me? Four Freakin hours with a rock hard cock and then down it goes in the moment of truth! I joked that it was as if I had taken Viagra and it just ran out!
Last minute resistance. It can be broken, it just takes a little time, and some techniques. Push/Pull, Freeze outs, stuff like that. It can be avoided if you build enough comfort and make the women want it bad enough before you go for it. I failed to do this so I had a hard on for 4 hours and then didn't get to do anything really fun with it! OH WELL!
Next time...
#1. Be a better coach. Hold my friends more accountable to achieving their goals.
#2. Build more Comfort with a woman before moving into seduction.
#3. Fill in the blank ______________Any tips guys?
Thanks in Advance. _________________ Khan
Joshua Hayward
Joshayward@hotmail.com
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