Well, I'm happy to say I've finally reached my big 100! It happened on Saturday night (Halloween) with an Australian girl who also happens to be the PA to the director of my department (four levels of management above me!). Now this isn't completely uncharted territory as I went out with the same director's PMO earlier this year for about three months and that ended sour (she was bipolar!). However, this Australian girl only started a couple of months ago and she was the new hot blonde in the office that every guy had spotted... this report is how I gamed her and made her my girlfriend in just three weeks.

I approached her during a work "townhall" meeting where drinks and food were provided afterwards. Everyone was networking, and I spotted her talking with a girl I know in the office who is extremely large. It was effectively a two-set and I went over and spoke to the large girl I know who naturally introduced me to the new blonde hottie. She told me her name and I couldn't quite make it out because of her Australian accent. She was saying "Manda" (short for Amanda), but it sounded like "Medha". I said, "Medha? Are you Polish?" This was a kind of neg, but she immediately validated herself by saying she's Australian and said she normally drops the 'A', hence why it sounded funny.

We chatted for a while, but I tried to avoid work talk, and demonstrated better value than boring work colleagues by talking about how I'd been smashing it at the weekend and had barely much sleep as a result (yet could clearly still hold a conversation). This line of conversation was actually initiated by the large girl when she spotted a fleck of glitter in my hair, so I used that to start talking about the crazy weekend I'd had involving being peppered with glitter at a birthday party. I asked Amanda about her weekend and she said she couldn't really remember it. Awesome! I liked this girl already - she'd only just started working for the company too. She has since told me she regretted saying that as soon as she said it, but it only really endeared me towards her.

I then chatted to her again in the office a few days later (key was not to leave it too long so that she would recall me from the work meeting easily) and talked about socialising at the weekend again, avoiding boring work smalltalk, which is a common mistake I think guys make when chatting to girls in the office - they talk about work and this leaves them firmly in the work colleague zone, not the social outside-of-work zone. She mentioned she'd been to a rock music gig so I immediately established some common ground by mentioning my love for festivals such as Glastonbury and showed her the two bands I still have on my right wrist from Glastonbury 2007 and 2008! (Seriously!)

A little later, she initiated a work instant messenger conversation mentioning the glitter. So, I used this in a similar way as described in a recent Love Systems e-mail about heightening the value of something and using callback humour. From a single fleck of glitter, I turned this into a whole alter ego called GlitterBoy! I said I had a glitter cape and would come into work with it on the next day (which she dared me to do) and all of our subsequent few conversations involved jokes referring to this GlitterBoy alter ego. This is callback humour - using something she found funny in the past to remind her of those moments and create a pattern. As the Love Systems e-mail said though, this shouldn't be overdone as it can seem like trying too hard, and I noticed this eventually and stopped making references to GlitterBoy just in time I think!

She mentioned that her housemates were weird and not really into partying the way she is, and she said she'd heard Fabric nightclub is a great place, so I immediately suggested she come with me and my friends to Fabric on Saturday night! This was a bit of a misdirection as I hadn't arranged with my friends for this at all, and I would have to subsequently try and get my friends to go to Fabric to back up my plan. However, it was a starting point, and if I failed to get people to go, I could always make up an excuse and take her elsewhere with my friends to another place - not Fabric, but still somewhere cool - but at least she was committed to me on Saturday night.

Saturday night came, and she joined me with a load of guys from the community including several PUA instructors (including an instructor from Love Systems), and some of their students for a workshop. I'd basically brought her into the centre of our very own pick-up community with guys who are expert in their game! We ended up in a couple of exclusive bars (Player and Maya in Soho, London) where we had a rockin' time and I had demonstrated very high value and lots of social proof. That night, she stayed at my London place where I tried to lay her using every trick in the book (push-pull, cavemanning, etc.), but her ASD was well and truly up!

However, we spent the whole next day in bed and lots of cuddles, stroking of hair, etc. which she liked a lot. No lay, but I was definitely setting up for a possible round two.

Next day in work, we chatted lots again on the instant messenger and met after work for drinks. So, she obviously felt comfortable and still keen to want to spend all Monday eve with me drinking. And then Tuesday night it was my birthday which was held at Lord Edward Davenport's mansion at 33 Portland Place (www.33portlandplace.com). I invited her along to that where I went with a friend from the community and a couple of girls he'd met at Maya the previous Saturday night. And this was social proof to the max!!! It was a joint birthday with a model, 420 people turned up, free champagne, buffet, jacuzzi, magician, West End DJs, strippers, all in a huge Playboy mansion and she saw me chatting with Lord Davenport himself.

By now, she was hooked. However, I'd been completely honest with her all along. I'd introduced her to my PUA friends and told her they were dating instructors. She knew about my relationship with another girl in work who sits near her and she actually works quite closely with! And I told her that this bothered me a little in the sense that I don't want her to feel like I'm just trying to shag all the director's staff like it's some sort of challenge and that I appreciated it could look that way from the outside. She appreciated this sincerity from the outset, and nothing seems to faze her now because of it.

So, things have been going really well - we meet up most lunchtimes for a coffee or walk around Canary Wharf, and evenings after work for a drink or four, and we just get on really well. Then Halloween weekend, I took her to Thorpe Park theme park for Fright Night. The plan was to take her to my Surrey country pad and seduce her there in my porno palace - a bachelor pad I designed specifically for seducing women - cinema screen for watching films, mood lighting in the floor, sheepskin rug in front of a blue-flame fire, etc. etc. She very quickly got in the mood. I made advances and was still met with some LMR and I couldn't quite figure out why. Everything seemed perfect. She eventually told me her heart and head tell her different things - part of her wants to be sensible because we work together, the other part wants to take me upstairs and make mad passionate love to me. This is the only IOI I needed! By giving me an inkling that part of her wanted to be seduced, she had no hope! LOL... And that's the key here - get a girl to open up to you if you can't get past that LMR. Be sincere with her, let her know you like her, but say she's hard to read and it confuses you a little - if done correctly, a girl that is willing will slowly open up to you, you just need to be patient. So, before she knew it, we were engaged in foreplay.

But then I was still met with some more LMR. Again, I backed off, and she revealed something further to me!... She'd had an operation down there a few months ago for girly reasons and she was still a little uncomfortable about it. I respected this and backed off a little, not as part of a technique, but truly genuinely backed off. Before we knew it, we were heading upstairs to the bedroom and we had mad passionate sex!

I had finally hit my number 100. And what's stranger is that not only is it a significant milestone, but I really like this girl and we are getting on better than ever. She's hot, she's cool, we have a lot in common, we enjoy spending all our spare time together, and we even work together! The big 100 - this could be it!

So, in summary, this report is about a girl whom I saw in the office and gamed her using social proof rather than trying to impress her with work shit. And more importantly, I have been completely honest and open with her about everything, including the community, female friends I have regular contact with, my past life as a stripper, my criminal history, and even the other girl in the office I used to go out with. It may not work with everyone, but honesty is very often the best policy.

Thanks for reading, and as usual, any comments or feedback are welcome...