Through this post I hope to show the importance of DHV and kino escalation. These both hold a lot of power. These two things combined with confidence can lead to any successful lay.

This story begins on Friday night. I invited a girl from one of my classes over to my place to watch 007. I didn't really know her but she was a good HB9 (she just got back from studying abroad in Italy so she was looking fine and trying to act "European") so I figured, why not? When she arrived, I was a little worried. My roommate had a few people over and they were doing there usual thing of pounding back shots. I meet HB9 outside and ask her if she'd rather go somewhere else because my roommate was busy drinking with some buds (I was trying to make it seem like I stay away from the whole partying thing).

HB9: What are they drinking?
Me: Tequila.
HB9: I love tequila! I can take a shot or two.

So we end up going inside. We each have a few shots and the HB9, being the shyer type, sits by my computer and doesn't really talk to anyone.

Me: Hey everyone can I have your attention! (The ten or so people turn around to face me) I want everyone here to meet HB9.
HB9: (Taken aback that I just pointed her out to everyone) Hi guys...

Everyone starts to talk to her and she begins to open up. Here is the first point where I did DHV. I became the center of attention and by becoming the center of attention I passed the attention on to her making her feel important. Anyway, after about 30 minutes everyone leaves except for HB9 and I. We start watching 007.

HB9: I want to let you know that I'm totally fine with cuddling.
Me: Okay, so are you trying to hint at something?
HB9: No, I'm just saying...
Me: (Playfully) So you want me to hold you during the movie?
HB9: (Playfully) Well I guess I kind of do.

We watch the movie and we snuggle, doing all the typical lovey dovey stuff. Throughout the movie though I kept rubbing my hands on her legs, which she seemed to really enjoy (light kino). The night ends with a kiss close but the story doesn't end here.

The next night is my university's homecoming. Once there, I open to the crowd. I start chatting with a group of friends that had about four or five attractive girls in it. The HB9 sees this (DHV again) and comes over and asks me to dance. I agree and we start grinding on each other. This entire time I'm establishing heavy kino. I'm rubbing her legs, waist, and ass. I even stroked between her legs a few times, just for good measure. Time does fly when you're having fun though, and now there's about an hour left at the dance and I've just spent the whole time with this one girl. Anyway I didn't mind, however she does ask.....

HB9: I promised this guy that has a thing for me that I would dance with him. Is that cool? (She was asking my permission, I was obviously set)
Me: (Playfully) Go ahead, but you might have to fight off some girl when you get back.

She leaves and I approach a past lay who I was still on good terms with. We dance for a little bit until I get a text from HB9 asking where I was. I politely leave the past lay and meet up with HB9. We catch a ride back to my place with a few friends. We get back to my place and we lay down in my bed. We start making out, I was escalating things slowly because I knew I had time. However, girls have a way of surprising you. I have no idea how it happened but we ended up talking. We just kept talking and we were enjoying each others company so much that time just flew by. We eventually fell asleep but woke up early the next morning. No words were said. We started kissing and it escalated from there. Women are hornier in the morning, it's a scientific fact.

DHV + Heavy Kino = Good Mornings

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<Jac>

Dude,
I love this report because I'm in college as well and i could relate to it.
Plus, a lot of chicks in my college are coming back from study abroad next semester.

Anyway, dude, you need to give me tips on dancing in college. I feel that its in an essential DHVing skill but I can't dance. I miss out on so much fun because of this.

Please help me out,
thanks a lot.

Boom

" I even stroked between her legs a few times, just for good measure" legend!!

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diversify your women

Boomshankar,

Honestly, it may sound kind of lame, but if your university's rec hall offers any dance classes I would take them. Firstly, you'd improve your dancing ability. Secondly, it would be a great place to meet women since you'd most likely be the only guy in the class. And lastly, this may introduce you to potential dance partners that you can take out on the weekends and DHV by using what you've learned with them.

I would personally recommend a salsa class because it's sexy and it can help with all types of dancing. I would also recommend a hip-hop class since that's probably the type of music you would be dancing to.

I am by no means an expert at dance. I can't just type on this forum how to dance. The only thing you can do is practice and put yourself out there and just have fun with it.

Hope this helps.

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<Jac>

Thanks a lot Jac,

I'm not sure i have the balls to join a dance class ( I'm way to inexperienced for it)

I could check out some hip hop dance videos online, however.

Firstly, Jac Cecil - well done, that was played very smooth. Not that you need my qualification - but non the less - very well played.

and now, Boomshankar;

its easy learning to pick up women by reading about it or by watching videos on the internet.. but harnessing the courage and technique is something you have to do and practice - its the only way to get results.

its the same with dance classes. By addmitting you have not got the balls to join a dance session - or even go there a few times is only going to reflect on you and your game. All of this, this forum, these poeple; its all techniques to harness confidence.

I've tried Salsa dancing before in a class, sure - being younger, i had hangups about being judged by other people, but there are going to be a few novices there and the more expirienced people will be happy to teach you.. its all in your head...

Learning to dance might seem daunting.. but you'll soon get the moves, it'll boost your confidence and besides...the women relate a good dancer to a good lover.

_Illusionist_
x x x

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"They were right when they said "just be yourself" they just never told you what "self" to be.." - Gunwitch