| It's 9pm and I am toasted. A lot of your are going to think I am full of shit since I just posted another f-close yesterday. The thing is, I'm here in Japan and the Japanese have over reacted to the swine flu. For that reason all my work was cancelled this week and I have had a lot of free time.
Okay, so I picked up HB9.5 last week when I was in the city. I pretended I was lost and started a simple conversation from there and easily number closed and sent her a quick text just to make sure I had gotten her contact info right. At that time I was pretty busy texting back and forth with other girls, so even though I had HB9.5's contact info I never sent out a text to her. Three days later I get a text from her and from there we texted back and forth for the next week which brings us up to today.
But before meeting, I gave her a choice. I said, "If you want to meet for a short time then we can hang out someplace and talk for a bit, but if you think you want to chill with me for the day I'll invite you to my place at some point during the day." She replies that she wants to spend the day with me, which already inherently involves us going back to my place (from the choice I gave her).
We meet at the train station. Daaaamn this girl looked fine. The only reason I don't give her a 10 is because she was about 36 (never told me her actual age). This girl was no doubt a 10 when she was in her 20's.
She was wearing tight jeans and a tight little pink shirt. Slim waist, wide hips, tight body, ugggghhhh, I just wanted to go caveman on it right there.
We walk over to the port where there is some grass and shade and laid down a mat to chill and talk. Right off the bat I said, "Okay, we need to break the ice, give me a kiss." She was shy (or played shy) and then kissed me. We talk, play frisbee, talk some more, make out a little, talk, fluff, fluff, fluff.
Three hours later we start walking back. I buy her an ice cream and we sit and talk some more. Then we head back to the train station. I ask her if she wants to spend some more time together. She says she doesn't want to go home yet so I say, "Well, I'm going to go back to my house and chill. Do you want to come?" She says yes.
Of course, I never bring girls back to my house because I live with my girlfriend. So I did the usual bait and switch tactic. I told her my roomate had come home early and that we couldn't go to my place so I suggested a hotel. This is wear I hit LMR hard. You see, here in Japan, there are places called love hotels which are specifically for fucking. They have them all over the place because most unmarried people live with their parents and they can't fuck at home. They are not seedy places with prostitution or anything, but quite well kept hotels with a cheap rate for a short time in the afternoon.
So when you bring a girl to one of these places she pretty much knows what's going to go down. So HB9.5 stalls, resists....she's confused. I put no pressure on her. She is, after all a 9.5, so I am willing to wrap it up as a good date and continue on from next time. We end up walking around the block 3 frickin' times and passing the love hotel 3 times while she hums and haws about what to do. Finally she says, as per my suggestion, that we can go and just "talk". I say, "Right. And that's all I can promise you--interesting conversation. I cannot promise you anything more than that."
The rest is history my friends. I fucked, got blown and ate pussy for the next 3 hours. It turned out to be a fucking awesome day.
Here's some things that I believe helped me build up attraction and close the deal:
1. She said the first reason she was interested in me is because after I had gotten her number I never texted her. She said that EVERY guy that had ever picked her up always sent her a text afterwards.
2. Even though this girl was fine as shit and didn't have an ounce of fat on her I made a comment that she was a little chubby and could stand to lose a few pounds. You could tell by her reactions that AFC's had licked this girls ass with compliments all her life and now that she actually getting a neg she couldn't believe it. It put me in a whole new zone. I pushed this theme a few time throughout the date and it worked like a magic spell.
3. Whenever we made out or kissed I always made sure to pull away first
4. I moved venues a couple times: trains station, walk on the pier, picnic in the park (at the port), ice cream shop....love hotel.
5. I convinced her (or she convinced herself) that it was okay to go to the hotel under the premise that we were just going to "talk". So, my theory is, if you're going to bring a girl back to your place, she has to believe that it's for a reason anything other than for the reason that she is going to be a slut. You can make tons of reasons: talk, watch a movie, have dinner, pet my dog, etc.
6. When we got into the hotel room and started making out I made a comment, "Wow, slow down there girl, you're being a little aggressive aren't you." And then I moved away from her on the couch. This was fucking magic. She literally threw herself at me after I said that.
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