Day One:
“The good, the bad, and the ugly” (under Field Reports)

Day Two:
“pro tunning needed – recovering from a bad day two” (under day2’s and closing)

Day Three:
Disclaimer: This is a long read. If any moderators think this post should be in “closing and day 2’s”, feel free to change it; no hard feelings.

Earlier on in the day there was an exchange of texts (as follows):
I told her I had a surprise for her (Do this as early as possible so she has even more time to build the sexual tension. Do not however do it the night before, because she could be going out for all you know, and you have loaded her sexual tension which another guy can take advantage of)
She replied wanting to know about it, saying they make her anxious (Hurray, job well done)
I maintained my frame, and se gave up saying “ill wait in suspense, lol”

11:30pm
Arrived at her dorm and put my bag on the floor. Smiled and told her I had to blow my nose. When I came back, went straight to the kiss close.

I tackled this encounter using the guidelines of “Sex Secrets: How To Turn A Woman On, Satisfy Her In A Big Way, And Get Her To Do The Things You've Always Wanted”

Good Read.
Anyhow, first step: Stimulate her senses.

Taste: There was a bunch of fruit in her table, so I helped myself to some and got her to eat some as well.
Touch: A lot of kissing. Meanwhile my hands gently brushed her arms, head and neck. No erogenous zones (yet). Said stuff like, “your lips are gentle”
Smell: Twice I stopped kissing her, and simply smelled her neck and upper cleavage. “You smell good”, etc…
Hear: Constantly talking in a slow voice, and being as descriptive as possible of anything.

After about an hour (at least) of stimulating she still hadn’t given me any signs to go to foreplay. I decided to go for it anyway, and started the “taking clothes off escalation”.
Got her topless, and she said, “I feel underdressed.” To which I got topless as well and it solved the problem.
Then I got her naked, and gave her head. Got her a little wet once, and wet for about half a minute afterwards. Afterwards I kind of expected her to return the favour. She didn’t offer, so we went back to make out.
Her not taking the initiative to give me head back kind of confused me a little, so the next hour or so was just making out.
At this point we were cuddling and smelling, each other etc… a lot, so it was more of the sensual nature, and not so much roughly sexual.
I made my move (grinded her with my boxers on, then naked) and full closed. In the midst, she said se liked doggy style.
(I find it a bit odd, because all my life I’ve been told women don’t like doggy style because they find it deteriorating. Yet this is my second lay in a row that the girl has suggested doggy style, because its her favourite position. Hurray to the women of today!)
Anyways, the lay went well. I was expecting to have sex, but ended up making love instead. Good experience. Towards the last 10 minutes she said “Oh, this is pleasurable”
A note on ejaculation:
This is my fourth lay, and have not ejaculated during sex yet. I read up on the forum about anxiety and breathing. So this time round, I noticed that I stop breathing every once in a while. So I improved that. The end line is that I didn’t cum once again, but felt confident its getting there. And yes, I’m relaxing more.

Since I couldn’t finish, she said (understandingly) “Lets just take a break”.
So we then cuddled and talked spiritual stuff till 3:30am.
Time to go to sleep…
In the morning, we made out and cuddled for an hour or so, then I left.
Any comments and suggestions are welcome.

PS: the “nice butt” is the comment she said when I got up to get the condom

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