Hey guys,

I’d like to ask you all a question but first I feel I have to set the scene.
I went sarging a few weeks back with Chad_Chadwick (his name has a personal meaning), he’s a relative newbie and he’s got a great attitude. I think he’s gonna become a great PUA.

I wanted to show him that this stuff really works and demonstrate what I had gotten out of the community.
Chad winged perfectly and despite not closing the friend of a 2 set we had open in a another bar I eventually ended up with this HB6, a teacher from London with a really lovely personality (and a big pair jugs ) She was the marrying type.

To cut a long story short I F-closed on the day 2 and then stayed at her flat the next weekend down in London. We went into London and rode the London Eye and afterwards she rode me

Throughout the whole seduction ritual from meet to F-close I didn’t feel that magic spark or butterflies in my stomach.

The Monday afterwards I called her and told her that despite the fact that I thought she was one of the most sensual girls I’d ever met, I didn’t think we had that special something. She didn’t see it coming and became really upset. However, she didn’t protest too much which I took to mean that she too couldn’t feel a spark.

Before learning about Game I would not have normally gone beyond the phone number if I didn’t think I felt a connection. I’ve tried to rationalise it by saying that what I was doing was allowing enough time to pass for a connection to grow should there ever have be one.

My questions are these:
Do you guys who have become good at the game find it emotionally difficult to let a girl go? I guess this is character building.

What would you have done in my position?

All comments welcome.

Mint

Ok, now I'm new not only to the forum, but to the PU world in general, so I could be horribly wrong. However, it sounds to me that you missed a step. Managing expectations. Don't f-close a girl unless you're sure she understands that you may not want an actual relationship with her (unless you DO, but that's a different story).
There's no use crying over spilt milk though, and besides, I'm sure her encounter with you was thrilling and enjoyable, or she wouldn't be sad that it's over. So at the worst, you gave her a hell of a good time and then took it away.
Just the $0.02 of a new guy.

I never understood the whole "we cant be together cause there's no connection" thing other than a polite way of letting someone down. Even if your like a die hard anime fan and she's a rocket scientist you two should find common ground somewhere. Ehh but it must be cause I'm not the sensative type.

I personally don't find it that hard to let girls go because I know I'll eventually replace them with someone else. If I were in your shoes I woulda kept her around as a fuck buddy atleast. Large jugs is all the connection I need to feel

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Thanks for the comments guys,

Petahpie; I slept with her because she met my high standards but I take your point about not committing if it doesn't feel right. Also, she told me that I was "really good at that" *Giving her head - So, yes, I guess I showed her a good time while it lasted.

Mithos; I understand where you're coming from about dropping her 'cos there's another girl around the corner but I'd like to think that I retain some sensitivity despite my AFC days being long gone.

The ethics of the game are very interesting and spark the most amount of debate. See my latest post.

Mint