Ok gentleman, first post so be gentle.Actually, the reason why im typing this at all is not for ego or validation, but because for the first time in my life Im actually starting to fully understand the hows and whys of people getting it on, and its so fascinating and amazingly simple I cant believe I was so clueless for so long! And like a kid on christmas day, my shiny new toy is all I want to talk about.

OK briefly a bit of background to give you an idea of where im coming from. Im 29 and always done reasonably well with women. Hell, im closing in on 100 'lays' at this stage, be these one night stands, short-term or long term relationships. But in all honestly I never knew how the fuck I pulled most of them off. And of course if I didnt know what I was doing when things went right, I was sure as shit fumbling around in the dark when things went wrong.

But then a friend turned me onto PUA while I was travelling through South America and I started to get into it, moreso when I finally got down to Oz. So when im out one night and meet a HB8 (spitting image of Rebecca de Mournay from Hand that rocks the cradle) I DHV, move location, escalate kino etc etc. And things are going great, im getting IOI left right and centre but then when I try to kiss close BAM! No joy. 'What did I do wrong?' I think to myself...So I fall back on PUA theory, freeze out, DHV etc. We meet again a few days later and continue this, while throwing in some IOIs.

Then the next day a few of us (including her) go to the beach. Im hungover to fuck. I mean really, I just want to build a time machine so I can go back and stop my parents from meeting and having me...just so I dont have to endure this hangover. Were sitting on the beach and im fluctuating between admiring her fantastic body and wanting to die. We get the bus back and I rest my head on her shoulder, and kino escalates until we start kissing. She had to go back to her hotel but one of the others wouldnt leave, so it built in this conspiracy thing into it, so that when we were finally alone we were practically ripping each others clothes off and well, one thing let to another in her hotel room.

Point is, ive had things like this start to happen before but ive always fucked it up cause I didnt understand the subcontext of what was happening. Wheres thanks to PUA I do, and im getting texts like this from her while shes away travelling:

"ive never been with anyone that wasnt already my boyfriend though ive had lots of opportunities...just never felt tempted before now....just something about you- really like you - youre just so delicious, sweet, sexy,cute and funny. youre exactly like i want you to be- if i could decide...you just really turn me on!. And really like that you have the same sense of humour as me - thought it was quite funny taht you wouldnt give me your phone number if i was gonna stalk you... ) just made me like you even more. Really looking forward to coming back to you in Sydney again - but probably gonna be quite horny by the time i get back, so is probably not gonna let you get out of bed for a couple of weeks : o)

I know, it was a long text, but very, very sweet.

So gentlemen, keep teaching, learning and expanding this most fantastic of arts, and more importantly, enjoying the company of fantastic, entoxicating women.