Some of you may already know my first day of pickup because I already posted in my other thread, but Ive been inspired to make a journal of my journey with becoming a PUA.

My name is Gabi , and i am 17 years old, I never kissed a girl in my life , never got a girlfriend , and I want some females in my life man.So i figured out that all I have to do is practice and socialize with them in order to become confindent and be able to pick,in other words Im practicing the pick up art.I love art , and I love music,so in a way , I love the relation that they made between art and pickup.

So here I am rewriting my 1st day of pickup , which I kind of remember quite easily.

The name of the topic comes from my nickname , which is GaBITzu,and I like the bit part , since Im a computer geek , and I like how it sounds.

DAY 1 : Asking girls for directions

Notes:Im a bit ripping off , the titles from AFC Daniel (props to him for inspiration)

At home like always

So here I was sitting at home , reading some PUA material in the morning,singing with my MIDI keyboard , and I just decided to try picking up that day(12 August)

I live in a village close to a city , so it is kind of hard to connect to people ,but I can go to the city , just fine to , try the art.My objective was to go to the city , at the mall , to eat KFC (Yeah im a fast food junkie ), and try pickup along the way.

The time it takes for me to prepare , and go to the city takes a while , as I had a cold fast shower, I took care of my looks ( I began looking great ) , and went out fast with a neighboor , that wanted to go to the city too , and car lifted me (a friend of my dad) (the city is named Bacau , by the way)

In the street (daygame begins)

I told him to leave at some street , and I went along the way straight to the mall.
When I was in the street though , AA hit my like a train , and I found my self unable , to engange in a direct approach , as I wanted to try direct approach , so it would make me confindent.Yet I found out it was very embarising for me to even attempt doing so , so I walked almost a half a kilometer (it takes a very long time to get to the mall by foot) , and have tried enganging in conversation,but man I just couldn't bring myself.It was like when you are playing basketball for the first time when you watched so many matches,and found out , you can't even score one point.That's how I felt.

Oh well , it didn't last too long,before I made my first approach on the first girl at the street/opener.

As i was a bit confunsed and scared the dialogue went like this (i wasn't paying attention to BL,and my voice was shacking,though I kept eye contact,which I was good at )

She was a black haired girl ready to cross the street , though she had to wait for green light.I approached her from behind.

"Hello do you know where can i find the north district?"she turned arround very surprised when she saw me, and found out she was really good looking,damn a HB 8.5 AT LEAST!!!
"She asked me to repeat because she wasn't paying very much attention " (I learned from this that , I have to say hello , and continue after , she pays me attention the first time"
"Well if you walk this road straight you will find yourself there"
I actually been in north before so I kinda knew where it was, but I didn't knew the exact location.
I said
" Oh really, I didn't knew"
she said
"Where do you exactly want to go
I wanted to eject quickly but she insisted on asking me (damn biotch lol )
" I said , a friend is waiting for me at his home"
"Do you know the street he live "
I knew no street of the north district so that was quite embarising
"No i don't know"
She looked weird at me and said " How couldn't you "
I ejected by saying
"Thank you" and left

It was even more embarising that she could have seen that I was not going to the North district,but to the mall (it was really close to that place)

In the mall ( the desired field )

Oh well so I entered to mall,ate first , and afterwards I did 3 appproaches (an HB 7 at first,she was cute , though with her little brother , a two set: HB 6 HB 7, another set : HB 6 HB with the same opener : Do you know where I can find Hand watches?

I wanted to progress more than just asking directions, so I kinda asked them if they would show me .

It went well and not as embarising as the first time , with the black haired chick.

I left the mall afterwards.

Street part 2 ( daygame ends)

I put myself with the objective to approach every cute girl until I went to my sister (who was at market at the time ) and go to the beer festival in the city.

I did 2 approaches asking where the festival takes place ( I like situation openers )
: ( first A two set , one HB 8 that I can remember , and another 2 set that were street skating, a cute little young blone 14 years old hahaha , I like girls that young , though but don't take me for pedo ) and I pushed myself asking the last set If they were coming (i didn't say with me though )

Now here is where the daygame ended.I saw a couple more of HBs , but I didn't take the courage to go up to them ask the same thing.Next Ill note to not hesitate to a single HB , for a direction ( how bad can it be ? )

So i quit picking up for that day, my heart was very tired from all that anxiety shit.

I went to my sister, and went alone to festival , and met some ex classmates (it was boring but they asked me out to go to the swimming pool with them , I guess that's nice ,but nothing of interes )

Day 1 ENDS

Conclusion : It was a good/bad day.I liked that I approached girls asking for directions, but I couldn't go in for a conversation, I always ejected. AA is a big obstacle,but it can be of help too,depending on whether Im embared of what I am doing or not.

Questions for you : I am really really really sorry for my bad grammar, and bad narrative.I am good at understanding english , but bad with its grammar.And my narrative is bad.So i will appreciate some advices in the future , and I hope I won't ask to much by saying this : CHEER ME ON!!!!!!!!

Quick question.Is it a big problem if I couldn't have sarged regularly? I have some issues since I live in the village , and couldn't leave in the city.

Should I sarge daily?

Day 2 : Being too direct

This is the 2nd day I went for a sarge, and tried my game.

Home

I went to the church this morning and because I woke up early,when I got home , I gone to bed , and woke up late , so I had to hurry up , and I didn't gone the way I wanted.

City


Anyway , I went to sarge , in the streets, and the mall.I gone and sarged the same way as before ,but the thing is I had quite bigger AA for asking girls for directions , than I thought.Especially that , I had negative thought , and limiting beliefs,as asking directions for me depended on where I was , and that was a bit limiting factor

I went up first time to a set of 2 and the dialogue was like this :

Me : Hello do you know where can I find fastfood "name of fastfood"
HB : At the center of the city
Me : Ok

I ejected.Man what a bitch, it was that hard to explain.If it was an honest question,that wouldn't have helped me at all.And that gave me even bigger AA(damn !!!)

I went through a park , on the way to the mall , and I approached another set of 2
which were sitting

Me: Do you know where can I find the station etc
HB: Explained blabla

I was worried a bit about the situation , cuz it's only the second approach,but she was cute , when she talked,and I learned to let them talk because I wanted to get used to their voices.

I began approaching more sets , and did the same,and I realised that listening to them helps me get in the place,and I could continue the conversation,though I didn't do it , because I had no fucking courage (strangers are hard)

Village/Home

I went the most direct in my life today.
There was a festival in the village today , and there were many people that came from other locations,I saw 2 HBs and I went more direct than ever saying something like

Me:Are you guys from "name of my city"?
HB:No.
Me: Where are you guys from anyway?I haven't seen you arround here before
they were quiet for a few second and told me that they were from a village nearby, they told me that , they had relatives blablabla

The thing is , I went direct because I gave a vibe like I was someone and wanted to see what some chicks like them were doing in his village.I don't know how well it went with them , but the thing is that I went to 2 chicks ,and asked them out of the blue where are they from , is kinda direct for me,and I NEVER DO THAT MAN.I like my progress.


Oh well I went home after the little approach,and I met a very old hb friend.A girl who was my playmate(not the playboy notion) when I was very little (like 8-10 years old lol),and even though I knew from my parents that she became pretty , I never met her since a lot of years.

Anyway , I had a long walk with her through the whole village with my sister , and another guy friend that's the same age as her (she'S 20)

Anyway , the HB i met at my cousin's home (yeah she was there), has became from a childhood friend (I really had girl as childhood friends? really lol )
to an HB8.Honestly I was a bit disappointed , as through my mom's description she would have been an HB9-HB10 damn it!!! Anyway,I talked with her , and to keep it short , the dialogue happens throughout from cousin's home , through the whole village and back again.

Me: Hello how are you ?( i couldn't had kino with her,since she was sitting ,and she looked quite bored,and not surprised when she seen me)
HB8 : Hello , well Im fine
blablabla talk
Me: How many years has been since we met (I wanted to try her to think of the 2 of us , it quite works)
HB: I don't know ... 9 , 10 ?
Me: What? No , it has been 5 at most I think,I must have seen you through that.(I knew the exact date when I saw for the last time,but I wanted to be interesting and approximate )
HB : Oh really
Sis , and the guy friend blablabla talk,highschool talk , we went outside, we talked a little , I tried to teased her a little and it went something like this, when she talked about her cousing ( a girl) ,that went to spain , got married to a guy blablabla

Me:Speaking of that , do you have a boyfriend?
she was surprised when I asked her that , and repeated the question,and the first time I though I heard no and I went like (afc style)
Me:Oh really? A girl like you with no boyfriend?
HB: But I said I had a boyfriend (I could have sweared she said no )
Me: Oh really,on a scale to 1 to 10 , how is your relationship (loool I tried sasha pua style , but I liked how I asked her )
HB : What?
Me: Are you in an open relationship or somthing
HB: Open relationship like what?

My sis heard, though we were 4 of us,and apparently they didn't knew the notion of an open relationship,and I made the mistake of asking her about that,because it was kind of huge DLV.

Anyway the dialogue went more friendly afterwards,but then I began playing with her,she clearly gave me IOIs,because we were 4 of us, and she wanted to talk to me , I let her speak more,and ask me more questions,I only commented,and we weren't close to my sis and the guy with us.
It was a friendly talk,though I tried to make jokes blablabla.
I tried to gave her signs,and tried to be C&F,and It kindo worked.She bought a toy from the village festival (yes there was a festival in the village today),and I took her toy ,and began hitting her playfully with it(man I loved this part,she began laughing and smiling cutely,and I knew before that playing with girls,creates HUUUGE attraction)

Though I knew she had a boyfriend, I tried practicing attraction with her , dialogue (C&F) , though I didn't try to kino her ( Im bad at kino , especially because a girl like her knows my parents,my relatives,I couldn't risk tooo much ), I realised , that I could socialise with a girl being a bit direct ( and I liked that),and took too much abuse of that.But the result of my hard work (trying to create attraction ) she kinoed me , when we got back home , she Kinoed me , clearly giving me a bit of IOI , (though she kinoed her cousin friend the same , yes the guy friend was her cousing , but I wasnt )

Well when we got back home , things have been a little cold, I began socialising with the other people ( which was fine by me , but other people said it wasn't good sitting next to her blablabla, I didn't wanted to be too needy ) so soon she was going home , and I wanted to go for a number close.

Our last dialogue was something like this

ME:So you know when I said that you should come to me ,when you come back here,give me your number so I know you will come.

HB : (Saying with a playful tone) No

ME : Oh come on...

Here has been the mistake of my day , along with the open relationship one , because here I seeemed like an extreme AFC needy guy , but damn I ASKED FOR HER FUCKING NUMBER , IT TAKES BALLS, BUT I SEEMED NEEDY ARGHH (I was a happy/sad guy , because I realised a mistake , and I learned that being like that was very need)

Conclusion

So what I realised from this , is that I can deal with pretty girls like her pretty well , though I really have to work a loooooooot with the kino part , but socialising , I have to watch for lame mistakes that give me DLV (though it doesn't permanently hurt , but it doesn't do good ), and witt these kinds of girls I have to be a little more indirect with the speech but not kino.

So I didn't number close , because of 2 variants:

-She had a boyfriend
-I have been a little too direct ( supposing she didn't have any ) and scared away.If I was older , and we weren't caught up on relationship commitment thing , I might had a thing with her.

Sadly my game , was a bit poor , but still..........BETTER THAN EXPECTED MAN!!!!

I learned this :


- Being too direct may scare some girls , but I may as well be like that .
- I need to let the girl speak, I like when they speak with their soft voices, and when I enjoy it , I emit a good vibe, and not say things like yeah, ok while her speaking.I let her speak until she shuts up
-I can be direct in a good way , but I don't know too much C&F , gotta work on this, but I do make some good jokes,but some things I say are lame
-My openers suck , (yes I didn't tell you,but I asked for direction , to really close places , like right in front of me , and I made fun of myself asking them , but I ) didn't care though, all that matter is me approaching and killing a bit of my AA)
-My body languange needs some refining(it didn't killed my game, but I definatly didn't controld BL all the time.)
-I can create attraction with girls that have boyfriends, and here is to my other learning point
-Learning to pickup , and to be good at the game , is all about learning to create attraction.It doesn't matter if the girls has a boyfriend,or how many girls you have laid.Creating attraction is a skill , and PUA training resolves arround making us better at creating attraction.
-CREATING ATTRACTION IS CRUCIAL(kino , C&F,negs,DHV,peacocking and sometimes even looks, all are part of creating attraction
-Creating attraction is the skill.And a skill like that is a skill like playing piano.Naturals are good at creating attraction.And we have to learn to be good at creating attraction