I figured out what's truly necessary to become a PUA last night.

I met up with this one guy (let's say his name is Kevin) for the first time last night, who I met through this forum. He brought along his friend (let's say his name is Steve). To be honest, these guys looked like everyone else; average people just doing their own thing. Boy was I fucking wrong. I did not expect them to be great PUAs that knew how to game girls with ease.

The first bar we went to was pretty dead when we got there (around 9 o'clock). Since I didn't really know these guys, we got to know each other while we waited for girls to start showing up. It took about an hour for it to start filling up, and when it did, I saw what they were made of. Kevin was a charismatic guy, that had no AA what so ever; he actually had an itch to go up to groups of girls and start speaking with them. And Steve was this chill dude who knew how to fucking dance. Mind you, only Kevin knew about this forum and did read some stuff on methods people use, but he did not apply any of them. These two just did their own shit and fucking got the girls.

As the bar filled up, Kevin went and talked to a set of 5-6 girls alone. Steve, as the wing man, just watched him and told me step by step what a wing man should do. He was telling me how you should pay close attention to each girl's reaction at all times and make sure you go in once the guy you're winging gives you a signal. Fortunately, Kevin was so good that he actually flirted with all of them and kept them all interested in him, so he didn't need the back up. These girls were not that great looking though, and in the end, Kevin just came back without any numbers, but it was obvious that he could have gotten them from all of the girls.

Afterward, I don't really remember how it got to it, but Steve and Kevin started teaching me how to dance. This bar was very spacious and it was definitely made so people could dance. Funny to say, us 3 were the only ones dancing. Steve and Kevin did simple moves so I can try and imitate them, but they looked like pro dance moves from where I was standing; of course, I wasn't that great, but just knowing that they were trying their best to teach me helped me forget everyone else who were watching. There was no circle around us, but all the girls in the bar took note of us and seemed more interested in us than the guys who were probably using MM and crap to flirt with them. Kevin and Steve told me to remember this; that guys who know how to dance and can dance when no else is dancing puts you ahead of every other guy in the area. A little later, after we danced for a while, we were just talking near the bar, and some girl nearby, out of the blue, stuck her head in and told Kevin it was her birthday. He did flirt with her and 4 other girls she was with, but we just left.

We moved to another bar, which was actually popping, but wasn't what Kevin and Steve wanted (Asians girls lol). We did go to the bar and get a drink. While we drinking, I kept on bumping into this black girl sitting right next to me. I actually don't know if it was me or her at the beginning, but I purposely did it after the first few times. Steve realized that I had an opportunity to flirt with her and told me I should do it. I'm not really interested in black girls, but I thought "eh, fuck it." According to Kevin and Steve, I did really well. I did 60's method, which she got sort of uncomfortable with, but I could tell she was enjoying the flirting. She told me she had a fiance, but I told her some lemon candy on the side won't hurt anyone (lol I fucking don't know what the fuck I'm saying sometimes). We kept flirting, but it didn't go anywhere so me and the guys left. Now, I didn't know this, but apparently black girls love Asian guys as much as white guys love Asian girls. This new found information got me thinking I should be open to the possibility.

Later, we went to this club. I was anxious to try and put what I was taught into play. We saw this set of 5 and we went in to dance. Kevin and Steve took two girls, who seemed easily interested in dancing with them, while I went through all 3 to get one interested lol. The last one, which I'm not too proud of, was this cute, but fat chick. I knew her self-esteem was low; I could tell by how she was dancing and the surprise when I started dancing with her. Now, this is going to sound like a "what the fucking shit were you thinking?" moment, but I made out her. Like crazy at that. I'm not proud that I did it, but I did not regret it; I thought "meh, what the fuck could I possibly lose?" Dignity? That shit went out the window long ass time ago. Lol jkjk. But seriously, I probably got more action than half the guys in that club, or at least I'd like to think of it that way. Much later on, I actually found out that Kevin and Steve stopped her 4 friends from interrupting us making out; they thought that I was taking advantage of her (lol, good read ladies).

Afterward, Kevin, Steve, and I ditched those girls and we went around looking for other girls to dance with. We approached some girls (I don't remember how many were in the group), and again Kevin and Steve easily got the girls to dance with them, although Steve didn't get who he wanted. I was stuck with this one Asian girl that was "eh" on looks, who surprisingly didn't know how to dance. I went ape shit on this lol. I acted like I knew how to dance, and used Kevin and Steve's teachings, dance moves learned from videos, and various dance moves from movies and tv shows that I had no fucking idea how to do but tried them anyway, and actually impressed her; she thought I knew how to dance for years (pshh). I got extremely lucky finding her actually; I think the best way to learn something is by trying to teach it. I did whatever I can and tried to teach her what to do. I felt like the shit lol.

In the end, I told her that there was a kissing fee for this, and she had no problem making out with me. After the make out session, she asked me for my name. I told her to tell me her name first, and when she did, I chose not to tell her my name. I said "just think of me as a friendly ghost that only came to teach you how to dance and you'll never see again." Lol I had no fucking idea why I said it like that, but I knew I didn't like her so I wanted to leave.

We did go to a couple of other places, but it wasn't that great. We ended up eating at some restaurant to assess how we did. Kevin and Steve both got numbers from some attractive girls, while I just had some make out sessions with a fat girl and some "eh" girl who didn't know how to dance. Lol people would probably say I barely did anything, but it felt like I accomplished a lot.

But this night made me realize what's actually needed for those looking to be PUAs. Aside from all the obvious stuff like making yourself look more attractive, confidence, mentality, etc., you need 2 things:

1) Learn how to dance. Sure, you can be a PUA that doesn't go to clubs. But why not aim for all the girls instead of half of them going to bars or outside? If you're making an effort to be a PUA, you should also learn how to dance. Girls love 3 things: fucking, shopping, and dancing. Fucking - you can do once you get her. Shopping - she loves to do alone or with her friends. Dancing - she would love to dance with another guy, who will probably do the other 2 things she loves with her if the guy knows how to dance. What percent of guys in the club do you think actually sleep with a girl there? If you're ever at a club, just look the fuck around. 50%-60% of the guys are just standing/looking around/trying to talk to some girl who wants to fucking dance. 30-40% of the guys are dancing with a girl, but doesn't know how to dance correctly. 10% of guys are dancing with a girl, and knows how to dance. Pretty sure that 10% gets pussy, give or take a few percent from the other guys.

2) Mentors. Watching these guys do what they do amazed me up the ass; it was like art (so the name pick up artist). It inspired and pushed me to do what they were doing, and what they taught me and seeing it in action was more valuable than anything I have read or videos I have watched. Even if they're not that great and skills are similar to yours, you guys can push and help each other to become better. I found these guys, who don't ask for money or anything in return, through this forum. Not only do you meet great PUAs that are happy to teach you, they can become really good friends. They can just be connections, if anything. You get no loss from meeting other people on this forum who actually live near you. If you can't even talk to random guys, how are you going to talk to random girls?

Lol #2 sounds like I'm selling something.