OK,

So, Rainking opens a two set, whilst one of them has popped off to the toilet... He told me to come over after 1 minute - I had absolutely no idea what with, or what he was saying or anything! Nuclear counts down, and at the 60 second point, kicks me off my chair...

Over I go, Rainking introduces me, we all say hi, and we lock in.

We bantered back and forward, Rainking was trying to say something, and the girl he was chatting to kept interrupting, so we both ended up throwing in the "woo, sush! He is trying to talk! Is she always this lippy?!" I thought it had got us blown out, but she was just playing a bit of a "serious" frame... I think we recovered quite well!

I wanted to leave, but I had to stay... If I had been on my own, I would have ejected! I’m too worried about being blown out if I stay too long…

We naturally seemed to separate; again, credit Rainking for isolating his girl (who had an ex-Royal Marine boyfriend (I'd have been scared!)), so that mine naturally engaged in a conversation with me.

To be honest, I have very little idea what we actually talked about - it was really natural, I found out that she had spent a year in Japan, so I used AFC Adams thing about eliciting the values from that (being adventurous enough to move to a foreign county for a year etc.) We chatted about my job, which really creates an attraction spike, it was awesome... She was mainly asking questions, and we had an excellent 15-20 minute chat!

Her friend and Rainking even went outside for a cigarette, and she was happy staying with me, and her friend was more than happy to leave her.

She had to leave, so we kissed good-bye, twice per cheek (thanks Gambler!) "we kiss 4 times in the UK, you have been in Japan too long!"

We walk out, via my group of friends, and Rainking says:
"You two look great together, you have exchanged numbers right?!"
Us: "No"
Rainking: "I can't see this end like this!"

She gives me her number, I ring it... great!

Things to learn: ESCALATE!! As the guys said, I can build attraction, I need that Killer Instinct!!
I should of been happy to open the set...
Number close earlier, so we can keep chatting. There were some perfect opportunities during the interaction to do it as well...
ESCALATE again!!
Oh, and txt on the evening… She is going to get Sinn’s txt opener tomorrow, and we will see if there is a reply… I will let you know!