Okay so one saturday night my roomate was having a dinner at our place and he invited a bunch of his friends. As soon as they walked in they started talking in vietnamese so I thought I would break the ice by saying: "can you guys speak english? I feel like a foreigner in my own house". So for the rest of the night I was pretty much the centre of conversation at the dinner table, teasing the girls and just cracking alot of jokes.

After the dinner one of the girls (who I hardly talked to) asked me to go clubbing with them. I didn't really want to go (I told her I hate clubbing) and I wasn't really attracted to her initially so I said "only if you do the dishes". Next thing I see is the girls are doing the dishes. I kinda assumed she liked me at that point.

At the club she started dancing and was fine with dancing with her girl/guy friends but never approached me (even though she's the one who invited me). So I changed my body language and she eventually came up to dance with me. Anyways essentially we were grinding etc. I always walked away when I thought it would start becoming boring for her/giving her too much attention.

In the Taxi home we somehow started holding hands and I kissed her goodbye on the lips as I got out. At this point I didn't even have her name/number. I haven't really talked to her at all tbh. When I asked her for her number she said "next time".


Next saturday

I'll make this one shorter. We got to the club and eventually we started grinding again, she was abit shy at first like the first time. Then eventually we kissed abit and she just came and hugged me while we were dancing.


Right now I'm pretty confused because nothing like this has ever happened to me. I STILL HAVEN'T HAD A CONVERSATION WITH HER. I know she's into me and I'm into her but it's all physical so far. What I want is to establish some dialog between us and I don't know how to do that. I don't really want to go clubbing again because I think that it would get too boring if we went clubbing 3 times in a row and didn't talk yet. I find it so difficult to talk in a club.

So on the wednesday I texted her this: "Hey it's taz, when do you finish work on friday? Dinner my place?"

she hasn't responded so I tried calling her today. I'm getting the feeling she's either no longer interested...how do I reignite the interest without going clubbing again this saturday? (Even if I wanted to go I have an assignment due monday so it wouldn't be a good idea). Should I send her another text saying I want to know her on more than a physical level?