I am doing fine in the general Pick Up Game but still struggeling with closing anxiety.

So I am inviting anybody with closing anxitey to join me here to help and push each other to the next level.

I am talking about: Number Close, Kiss Close, Make Out Close, Sex Close

Pick Up is a closing game. What I did for a long time is just playing around and feel good by the attention and reaction of the girls. It´s a kind of "hiding beyond a player´s attitude". But if you play too much, feeling your self too smart and untouchable - it´s very simple: There is anxiety.

I am able to close. But I could do better. So that´s what I am here. Join me guys, let´s be honest and focus on our abilities to close the deal.

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*** I AM NOT AN ENGLISH NATIVE ***

My first step:

I need more courage to make number closes.

I have the wrong mindset. I always think and feel that women feel fear to give a man their number. That they want to feel ton´s of trust for this step.

It´s not true. They like it. It´s a social playground for them. If you ask them for their number, it´s s compliment: "You are special. You have social value."

I really need to focus my mindest on: I am flattering and complimenting the social value of a Lady if I am asking for her number to stay in touch with her.

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*** I AM NOT AN ENGLISH NATIVE ***

I want to share a little FR:

I was approaching a very pretty lady with a lot of style yesterday. I opened her up, build trust and then I took out my phone to ask her.

She was hesitating. "Well, I dont know... I am a little shy in general to give guys my number..."

I said: "Okay, no big deal. I was trying because I like you and I dont want to deal with the risk to lose you without connection to stay in touch. I am human. I want to be connected with persons I really appreciate for what and whom they are."
She liked my answer. "Oh, I really like what you saying."
My answer: "Well, but you have to live with that I will try again!".
She: "That´s okay..."

Later on I did it again and she gave me her number.

One important aspect: I really wanted her number. I am sure that honesty leads to better results. Anytime I am just playing around for fun with no real agenda - I have a lot more trouble to close and to deal with doubts and resistance.

So Lesson No 1: Be honest. Have a real agenda.

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*** I AM NOT AN ENGLISH NATIVE ***