| Since my separation and divorce about a year ago, I have relied on the internet to meet and have sex with women. But my goal has always been to take my place in the PUA community. I spent many nights alone trying to get up the nerve to go out, alone, and sarge.
Tonight I did it! I have a sexual thing going with someone, but she canceled for tonight. So I decided to put on my Banana Republic clothes, a couple rings, bracelet, do up my excellent hair, and hit a local club. Just to be out. Just to get used to the environment. Just to see what happened.
No expectations of pick up. Just go out for an hour or two, hang out, look around, absorb and get used to the SPAM. Mission accomplished, and then some.
I hadn't been to this bar more than 5 minutes when some guy started shaking my hand and introducing himself. I was wondering if he was gay and trying to pick me up, but shortly thereafter he introduced me to his girlfriend, and other friends, etc.
Within a half hour this guy had taken me into his group, and I was high fiving and shaking hands with his buddies. An HB7.5 who turned out to be his girlfriend was fairly wasted. She couldn't keep her hands off me, and he didn't care.
She gave me some of her drink, wanted me to loosen up, and wanted to dance with me, during which we hugged hard. Basically, she wanted me. So that was cool. Just for kicks I asked her how old she was, 29. How old she think I was? 32. Try 44, lol. That freaked her out, which was okay, I wasn't try to bang the guys girlfriend.
After that set was played out, I wandered around a bit and accidentally got into a dead end aisle of the bar. Just as I noticed I couldn't get through, I noticed some really bored looking HB7s looking up at me, seemingly desperate for me to open them. I just smiled and turned around.
Not in the mood tonight. I had accomplished my mission of going out to a hopping club, talking to strangers, even attracting someone's drunk gf, and getting validation on my looks and dress.
Next time I'll start opening sets. No need tonight. I had sex last night and this morning, and need my rest. I think I can do this, just have to find my style consistent with PUA teachings.
I did notice that it's better to remain something of a mystery to women. Every time I revealed something true about myself, there seemed to be an immediate decrease in attraction. The concept of "mystery" is very important at first. Obviously revealing my age to an HB who has her hands all over me and is 15 years younger is not the proper play, but tonight it didn't matter, and I won't do it again.
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