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PostPosted: Wed Jun 08, 2011 4:48 pm 
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did my first approach ''with game'' today
it was raining and so i got out of the rain under a building, this HB9 (on her own) was doing the same, after about 2mins of AA i decided i'd just go for and opened with something straight out of 'The Game' with the jealous girlfriend routine (what can i say i was nervous dont judge me!)

anyway i started talking to her about it and it seemed to be going well, i had a hard time keeping decent eye contact, i asked her questions instead of making statements which i know im supposed to be doing but i dont know how and she kept texting someone and received a 2 calls during the interaction.
i negged her about a poor fake tan job she had on her hands (if you care i asked ''Do you wear gloves alot'' pretending i didnt know it was a crappy fake tan :P )

anyway i like to think i would have spoken to her more except for the fact that just before the 2nd phone call she told me she was 16, going on 17 (i am 21 going on 22 so although i would never have known as she seemed very mature i called it off right then) and left during her 2nd phone call without even saying bye...

didnt get her name/ didnt get her number/ didnt get shit

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PostPosted: Wed Jun 08, 2011 8:36 pm 
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The best advice I can give is........

Forget it ever happened!!!!

Seriously, if you think too much about each interaction then two things happen.
1. You waste time analyzing.
2. You may view it as a failure which can damage your mind frame. This may lead you to not make new approaches.

What you need to do is approach people a few times a day as it seems convenient. Say something funny at the checkout line. Talk to everyone at the bus stop. It doesn't matter who you talk to or what its about. It could be about the weather. Talking to guys is great. Its easy and you are likely to actually do it. This will do a few things:

1. You will lessen the fear of talking to strangers.
2. As you get more comfortable talking to people, women will pick up on your comfort and it will add to their attraction to you.

As you become comfortable most things will become automatic. Then you can analyze yourself mid-game because your attention is free. Or you can analyze afterwards too.

I think that women have a very strong sixth sense about us. I have noticed that as I become more used to talking to people, they can sense it before I have even approached them. It gets them ready to fully engage you with their attention because they know that it will be interesting and worth their time.

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