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| leebal | PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 5:06 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon May 02, 2011 4:41 pm Posts: 7 Location: Melbourne,Florida | | Yesterday I was at a mall and I opened a two set. Both of them were pretty hot. I was in a store and I saw them walk past me and they didn't see me. So I started walking and I walked past them and I kinda slowed down a little bit so they could catch me up.And I used this opener "Hey guys would you guys ever date a guy on a wheelchair?" .I was smiling a little bit and I talked to them over the shoulder as in mystery method. However, they were really creeped out. I saw a lot of discomfort building up. They looked at each other ( their heads slowly turned towards each other with their eyes widened and asked me in a really low tone "but wh...y?". I knew I wasn't gonna make it. So I just told them that I had a girlfriend who got into a car accident and was on a wheel chair and I was just thinking about the reverse situation where the guy is on a wheelchair.They gave me a little nodd and walked away. well...it didn't work out. Did I do anything wrong? or just the opener is just plain creepy.or the girls are just shy?Mystery method gives me a lot of frustration in day game. I just discovered Sasha's direct approach and it was just the way I rolled. I see a girl, I would walk up to her, stand right in front of her, tell her she cute and ask stuff abt her and I see her engage in the conversation.
Any ideas?
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| Anti-lover13 | PostPosted: Wed Jun 08, 2011 1:42 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Thu May 20, 2010 11:59 pm Posts: 85 Location: Earth | | Shit happens my friend. Not every set you open is going to be...well...open. You will be rejected, you will be blown ot and ignored. But dust that shit off and continue gaming. Some girls are more prone to talking to strangers, but some are often conservative and quiet. They perceive that when strangers walk up to them, it's weird.
You said they walked past you? And you followed them? That probably fucked up the entire situation right there. I suppose walking up behind them freaks them out. You should usually start when they are walking toward you. The 3 second rule can come in handy.
ut all in all, it depends on the clothes you weak and how you approached them. Did you feel confident or shaky? _________________ "If you don't succeed, destroy all evidence that you tried."
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| leebal | PostPosted: Wed Jun 08, 2011 7:02 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon May 02, 2011 4:41 pm Posts: 7 Location: Melbourne,Florida | | I was real confident. and I'm not really complaining abt the rejection.I don't have any more approach anxiety. I'm just trying to learn sth from that set. and that was the first time I creeped out a set.So, u know, I don't want that to happen again. was it the opener or the girls were just conservative? Does opening to a set walking towards you in opposite direction show low value or sth?
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| Influx | PostPosted: Wed Jun 08, 2011 7:29 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Sun May 15, 2011 1:53 pm Posts: 126 | | How did you approach them?
You approached from the front but at a slight angle so they would have to turn and invest in the conversation?
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| leebal | PostPosted: Thu Jun 09, 2011 12:22 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon May 02, 2011 4:41 pm Posts: 7 Location: Melbourne,Florida | | I saw them walking past me while I was in a shop.They didn't see me. So I walked fast past them and then when I was like 10 feet away from them, I slowed down so that they could catch me up.Then I talked to them over the shoulder.That's how I approached. I was just wondering if it is ok to open a set walking towards you in opposite direction.I'll try it on the next set.
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