Okay – tell me what I did wrong please.

First, sorry that I am a little drunk right now. I am danish, and if you do not drink at a private party, you are really not socially accepted. But I want to share the story while it is still fresh in my memory. Besides I need to sit here and drink some water to avoid the hangover.

So here is what happend:

Once again I was introduced to this girl – in this case it started early and just after dinner. The HB8 was dressed out like a fat baywatch chick, but was really a rather slim and nice girl. So it was obviously a joke. Her friend was like this as well. So they were sitting there in their custume and she invited me to try and sit up against her after I negged her. I accepted the invitation, but left shortly after commenting that she was right, it was rather nice to sit like that, but I had to leave, because I had stuff to do as a co-arranger of the party.

So I sat down near her later on to talk with a friend of mine who were gaming her a little. But he games everyone, so I would just lean back and neg her once in a while. Being a little cocky-funny and such. It worked really well. Soon she had moved over to me and we were more or less alone. It was all going very well – then I tried to build up some comfort and after we had talked a little I did the cube on her. She did not take that well. She even told me, that she was not really comfortable that I now knew stuff about her, that she was not really ready to share. She didn't know me all that well. So I gave it to her, that she could ask me anything she would like, to level out. She asked me about how many girls I had been with and I answered that I've been with the 9 girls i have dated for a longer time over the years. I told her that I did not really do one-night stands in the past, but lately I have been changing myself to live life and was definitely open for a little more fun. I do not remember her reaction really. I think it was positive, but some tension was lost here. So on hind sight, may be it was not the answer she was looking for. I know that bodylanguage often tells the truth when the words speak what I want to hear.

I made an effort to make it fun and a little different. It was just a game and about having fun. So we talked a little about something else. Then I moved her outside to get some fresh air, and she was going along.
I met a few friends and so did she outside, and we didnt't really talk much. At the end I said I'm going inside again, and this is where I really lost all game. I am really in doubt on how I should have handled this situation? Can't just ignore friends, and same for her. We tried to stay near each other, that much was clear.

So I went in – met other friends, and talked with them. She came in, and it was all awkward from then on.

I honestly did not know what to do, so I refused to be the one who would come over to her. We met eventually and talked shortly, but she said she was in the middle of a conversation. I knew I had lost it there. However over the next hour or two, I caught her looking at me and pushing guys away from her whenever I looked her way. So I kind of knew it was still on.

Any advice for me so I don't end here again?
I know kino is the thing missing, but I had absolutely no transition when the cube failed so bad as it did. And the time was not right before the cube either....

- Glory