Social proof.... I'm loving it.
It's getting frustrating: altough I know I've improved my game, results are just not there. Fuck it I need to close in order to be happy and I don't like that circuit in my head saying that it's useless to attract and not to close afterwards.
Back to last night, like almost every Friday I go to the same club. I literally know every fucking employee they have. I like it, my value is really high there. Anyways, I called to get on the guest list (do it everytime, first you get to know people there and then you can get it for free). I arrive there, with two of my friends warming up by asking a lighter and getting into a conversation, I usually neg to warm up. I don't know why, it just boosts my confidence. Once in, we lean back to the bar and start analyzing the room. A two set, with an HB8 and HB6, I opened with the picture opener (it's genius, it's smooth, under the radar, and I've improved it making them take the picture where they're sitting in order to directly lock in). As the opener is pretty low risk, you need a good transition: thanks to style best friend test is perfect for it. Afterwards, I usually FTC, disqualify and usually reach the hook point. But this time, an external interrupt came in (HB9), she ignored me, I negged her (shotgun, no need to say I changed target). Then she introduced herself, I leant back on the bar and ran U/C smile, ESP, 5 liers
and on the 4th question, she fuckin said "I don't know" and I was like "WTF is wrong with this chick". Anyway I changed topic, she had to go back to her friends as I've been ignoring them like a retard. I went out for a smoke, opened a 4 girl set with a lighter opener (lol), I don't really remember the interaction. But at some point my target and I were negging each other, I should have stopped it with a hug but for some (probably drunk) reason I just wanted to cross the line (I told her that she was boring like 5 times), she went inside being sad and all that shit but I was truly sorry (in my head). My buds were talking to some guys outside, I joined them, they were cool and one of them knew almost every girl in the club. Once inside, I went on some dancefloor game, and decided that I wanted a bottle. I get some nice discounts on them, plus I get it in the VIP, what's a better DHV. My guys invited the 2 dudes we've had met outside, he brought shitloads of girls literally going from 4 to 10. The 4 was hitting on me and it pissed me off. Of course I'm going for the 10. At some point I told the ten that I could read her palm, I told her this is the retard line, you're a retard. Her answer? I'M NOT A BLONDE, I'M JUST DRUNK. I seriously laughted my ass out, I hugged her this time, it's a 10 ffs. We started dancing she was grinding on me, and of course, yes you got it, the cockblock. Even though, I befriended her before. I asked her why she was doing it, she had a boyfriend. The HB10 was now dancing with some fat dude (probably an orbiter) and ECing me. I told the obstacle, your friend and I like each other and I'm going to dance with her now, please don't intervene. She said ok. I went directly to her and AMOGed the shit out of the orbiter, he kept holding her hand for 5 seconds but then he finally went away. I was about to launch a kiss routine, I swear to god 2 seconds of dirty dancing and the bitch cockblocked me, again. I was like fuck it, if I continue I'll have to slap her. I just started drinking, I was pissed, but then I saw this HB 8.5 when smoking, she was part of the 20set I was in. I DHVed just by saying that I'm a poker player, I negged her a little bit. At some point she was sending so much IOIs with her hair, it was a blast, she told me that she wanted to marry me (lol). It was a perfect time to tease her about it. I was like, yea but then I'll have to divorce cuz you'll bore me. BUT, I'm gonna keep the DVD collection. AND WE'RE NOT HAVING SEX TONIGHT (credit Matador). Everyone around was laughing hard. I then qualified her, she AMOGed my buddy when he tried to talk (I was like lol I'm cool) but couldnt build comfort, it was the end of the night and we were surrounded by our friends. It's no excuse but I don't know, sometimes I feel like I'm just afraid of success. The dude added me on facebook he assisted to the whole interaction, we'll probably see each other sometime. There are also some sets that I opened for the sake of improving my game but the interaction wasn't that relevant.
So, thanks for reading me. I hope you enjoyed the trip.
See ya guys later, and don't forget to enjoy yourselves !
Frixion.

Dude I know exactly what you mean. The other night I was at a bar I go to every week out of the 4 or 5 nights I go out. I came with a friend. & opened a 2 set after talking to some other guys I knew from before. I neged, DHVed then locked in by doing the spin maneuver and stole the one girls seat. Then my buddy came in, left. I AI him. I qualified my target (HB dark blonde, AN AMAZING BODY, & and a fairly pretty face) then buddy came back in, then we moved the girls.

At the end of the night I escalated kino 2 steps forward one step back. Slaps Game, Hugs, (She let me touch her piercing) The girl was smiling BUT SHE NEVER TOUCHED ME BACK. it confused me. Then I kissed her on each cheek and I didn't think she wanted to kiss me so just as I was letting go & turned to walk away ( I wasn't even facing her) the girl closed her eyes and put her lips out as I was shifting my weight to walk away. I never had an experience like that. As I looked back at the corner of my eye I noticed what was going on. It really pissed me off that I didn't pull the trigger. and that moment was absolutely awkward.
Luckily, i've kissed, made out & fucked other girls before. & I also # closed that girl. Which relieves some bad memories.
Unfortunately after talking to her on the phone for 20 minutes running comfort routines, an anti-blur routine & making sure I hung up first she STILL canceled the day 2.. In the past now.
TIME IN FIELD WILL GIVE YOU THE CALIBRATION TO PULL THE TRIGGER.

Lol, it must have been so awkward. But if I were you I probably would have made her bite my neck as she wasnt touching you back. But I definitely know what you mean. Same shit happened yesterday, I opened an 8set of girls they were like 3 10s in the set. I couldnt set a target haha. Had a nice convesation with them, but some random dudes started chasing them and as I was gettin back inside they just associated it with me.
But the thing is I should have been kino escalating subtely since the beginning. Some times I'm just focusing too much on the conversation. I'm actually studying gambler's non verbal communication, it's really interesting.

Tonight was kinda weird.
I was really excited because I was going out for the first time to a strip club with the purpose of picking them up. I used sinn's advices from Magic Bullets which said that first you need to raise your value. I went there saying that I was going to organize a bachelor party next week end. Basically, the manager started to show me the entire room and how it could be organized. I bought him a drink and strippers started noticing I am having a drink with the manager whats a better DHV.
The place was pretty empty, AFCs at every corner. Anyways, I sat down afterwards, a cute asian girl opened me with her bullshit. I basically begin with "It must be hard". I was surprised with how they misinterpret what I mean.
Then I go like "I mean approaching men and make them think they have a chance with you". Then I DHV and start to explain their world. I cold read, qualify them and build comfort with the question game (ffs this is so powerful to start talking about sex). Anyways, I see real IOIs I could #close but I wanted to bounce her but at some point I just left saying that I was going to grab pizza, and she wasn't really my type so fuck it. I actually went to another strip club which was dead full of needy men. HB9 opens me with the same bullshit I dont care and go through the same routine (it's surprising to know where was the craziest place some strippers had sex in). She sends me real IOIs. I buy her a drink because she won 5 liers game (seriously). She has to leave to check something, she tells me to wait for her 2 minutes. I'm not waiting, I open a guy's set and start talking to them, she joins me later where I launch my #close routine (Do you like shopping.... I need to buy new shoes would you help me choosing them.... ### ### ####). Done deal.
She has to go again, I start talking to the guys again and at some point one of them which was working at wall street start buying me dances and drinks. I'm like fine let's go back to AFC mode for 2 hours). I swear he spent something like 200$ on me, considering each dance costs 15$. On the second dance, the girl is super hot I have fun pulling her hair and playing with bras, saying: you're like a horse now, and I'm riding you. She and I had fun but she got a boy friend and even though she knows I didnt pay for the dance, I kinda felt like a customer so w/e who cares. She likes tough sex by the way. Oh and yeah she negged me by telling me that I have a bellyfat and that I need to go to the gym. ADAM I LOVE YOU FOR THIS: yeah, it's my fuel, I'm a sex machine. At the end, she admitted I was the sexiest man she danced for this night. My answer? "Yeah I know".
Next thing I know,for some drunk reasons, I see the one that I closed I pull her back to a quiet place I wanted to kiss her there but I just failed, it was awkward.
Now I feel like I have a flake number because it's the last thing we've done and it's pissing me off.
By the way, any comment from an experienced hired guns PUA would be appreciated. I'm also from Montreal and seeking any highly experienced PUAs down here for some hired guns pick up/night game. PM