Alright this happened to me the other weekend and I thought I'd share it because it was a wicked night and I want to see what you others think of it...

So, its Friday night at this bar Che in my city (Hamilton, ON) and I'm out with probably 6 of my buddies, only one of which I considered my wing that night. So we roll in this place and the minute I walk in it’s on; I'm a pretty regular at this bar so I have a larger social circle there than a lot of other bars. The main reason I go there is pre-selection- with many of my close girl-friends there dancing with me and hanging off my arms while they have the time of their lives defiantly doesn't go unnoticed.

We were there for maybe half an hour before my wing for the night Kyle had a 4 set of about HB6.5-8 around him, mostly of which was just him talking to this girl he knew in high school. I see this and bust on in, picking my target (obv HB8) and play textbook MM. Other than a few snappy remarks to her, she didn't exist. I did my approach, I went on to the other 2 and ran this in a super serious tone (no credit taken),
- "if you could....would you sleep with Jesus?"
--blah blah
-"seriously, before I have to leave you in a minute, let’s just say it’s the year 23 and Jesus is next to you and a bar... orders you a water and turns that shit to wine. Would you bring him home?"
--noo, yaya blah..
-"if threes one guy to have a one night stand with, its Jesus hahah, if he can cure a leper with a flick of a finger imagine what else he can do...” be somewhat suggestive. If she makes a remark about being a pig, neg her for having a dirty mind.

I later manage to reach a hook with the group and my target is now asking me to buy her a drink. I tell her, "oh I though you were going to get me one though?!" and try to play it off. She was kind of persistent so on the 3-4th time I told her, "I'm a gentleman, but chump isn't written on my forehead". Just by the look on her face you could tell she was eating that shit up and love the way it tastes to have someone talk back to her like that. I make a note of her shoes to her, somewhat negging saying they look "comfy" and ask her if those are her dancing shoes. I ask the group why aren't they dancing out there which the HB8 said "yea why aren't we?!"

-long story shorter I would really get her into it by pulling her close, and pushing her so far away and turn my back completely and wait for her to come back... Not to say I'm such an amazing dancer, but I hear from nearly every one of my girlfriends how much of a FUN dancer I am, and I use that to my full advantage. It comes a few songs in, and she’s having a blast- I'm picking her right up and really throwing her around. I finally get to the point where I want to ask her, "do you want to kiss me?" as she had her face leaned in real close. She came back with a "maybe". Perrrfect. I say, "Well, let’s find out". And we did certainly find out. This went on a few more times over a few more songs, when finally we just went back to the group and I got another beer. I didn't go for the number close just yet, I thought I would have more time with her throughout the night, but it was her friends bday, (the one Kyle was gaming) and were dipping to another bar. This is where I made the mistake of not going, only because I was there with a lot of my buddies. Before I could get the number close, the one I was gaming was off.

God damn. God fucking damn it.

I didn't understand... but as it later turns out my buddy got one of the girl’s numbers and she says the girl I was with left to meet her BOYFRIEND at another bar- and broke up with him because she felt soo guilty. I guess she had a good heart... just not enough beers hah. So fucking relieved tho; I needed to know why she would leave so suddenly.

I got Kyle to forward a text to her friend 2 days later; then to hopefully Shannon (was her name). The friend says she’s pretty broken up about it and probably didn’t want to hear from me. So I just cut my losses and had a laugh on the funny night.

But what I must ask you readers is- why do you think she would make out with me, like she wanted it, then break up with her boyfriend, but not want to talk to me after? It’s almost as if she wanted to break up with him already and just needed a reason to do it... no idea! haha

give me your feedback.

Thanks,

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