First of all here is my long term goal using this website:
I WANT TO LEARN (EVERYTHING), APPLY, AND REVOLUTIONISE IT

A little background: I used to be a chubby teenager, went through adolescence without kissing many girls and I always had a bit of social anxiety. I think its mostly due to my adhd which heightened my perception of my surroundings.

Either way, I lost a lot of weight, achieve top top grades and lost a lot of weight. I went from an HD5 to and HD 9. (hot dude) or at least I am told. Confidence shot up and people started looking up to me for advice with girls and relationships.
I am currently 18, I have had one girlfriend for 18 months and I have only had sex with her. I called it off with her 10 days ago because she was holding me back too much and the opportunities around me (girls and academic) were just flying by. As soon as i closed the door with her, new ones opened and there are plenty of girls excitedly coming up to me and being wayy over-friend (flirty friendly).

Anyway let's start with my very first field report.

By the way, it would be great to have some of the more experienced guys giving me some input and helping me reach my goals. I promise to become a very devoted member, who will recurrently contribute to the forum.

Entry 1 (Tuesday 19th april 2011)

Yesterday night was my first kiss close (outside of my ex-girlfriend) in a long time.

Background: I met the girl in Le You and we hit it off straight away when I said “hey you look like a sexy secretary!”. Then we spoke for most of the night. After that we texted each other good night and didn t see each other for about 4 days. We met again in the club (arranged) and we spoke for a good hour before I kc’d her.

Good:
- My kc line worked amazing “hey I have to ask you something. How would youreact if I kissed you?” She was like “I don ‘t know” then I said “Let’s find out” .
- I played her well. I was VERY friendly and I was cocky smart. As people say.. I was the life of the party.
Bad:
- I was tipsy so I don t think I could have been as open if I weren t.
- There was something weird after we kissed. She was acting freakishly weird.
- She left very abruptly and I don’t know whether it is because of me.
- I said things like “this is amazing…” and this is very bad. I should have been cooler about kissing her.
- I feel like I took too long to KC, and also I felt like I talked too much after I KCd

Overall it was a good night. I could have gotten with a few more girls but at the end I could not be bothered. EXPENSIVE WOO

What I know so far about PUA:

- Push a pull
- Escalate
- Be confident and have STRONG inner game.
- They like cocky funny.
- Tease a bit (tease openers)
- Be honest
- If a girl is negative, match her negativity.
- Establish kino as soon as possible.
- Techniques to close: “Hey, would you like to kiss me?” “How would you react if I kissed you?”


ps. a fuck-close where I live is practically impossible. There needs to be a lot of instigation, provoking and perhaps a second/ third "date"

I will read and follow your journal as I seem to be in the same situation and living in the same area

Enrey 23 April 2011

Alright guys here are a few things that have been going on lately. I've been back home for spring break (down from uni) and it feels kind of lonely, especially because I've just broken up and I am not used to have this much time by myself.

With the girl I kiss close the other night, I sensed some tension because she had loads of luggage so I chose to drop it. After I saw she was not going to react to Push and pull, I went all in asked asked her (casually) if she would buy me a coffee in town. But that first she had to deserve the right to do that.

Things were still ok but then she started giving me the cold shoulder and I am not trying to date this girl. So I just put a stop to it. Next time I am home i ll give her a shout so I can get a booty call.

Anyway here is my plan for the night:

Plan
My friend and wing ditched me for the third time in a row cause he is skint. I am meeting two friends in town and I will drive up in order to save taxi money. It is a nice car so it is definitely gonna get some of the more superficial girl's IOI's.

Either way, my friends will drive out pretty early and I plan on sarging alone in order to build game, inner game and get rid of AA.

The Routine

I want to open girls with the tattoo opener. I will tell them that there has been some issue in my family and one of the few women that will always be loved by me unconditionally are about to die (grandma). I will ask her what she would thinking of getting something like: "Believe in the unknown" on my left shoulder and I will explain my tendency to be atheist. This can go on for ages...

Anyway, after I got her interest and showed her I am a man of worth and principles etc, I will continue to escalate making jokes, a little kino her and there. If I have managed to isolate her I will pop the cube out. Cube will always come at c1 for me.

If it is a group of 2-3 girls I will use the cube to emotionally neg my target and then isolate her as soon as i have built rapport and won the set over.

When she is alone with me, I will start looking for a DHV and try to make her prove herself to me. I have always done this and it has always worked wonders, hence my status as a natural. I'm going to tell her to talk a little bit about kisses. I will say things like "Kissing nowadays is an art taken for granted" I have only met a few people who mater it, yet everyone claims to be "the best" at it. Then I will make a few jokes or maybe tell a past experience (this will be the pull out moment after I have told her all this whilst keeping strong and uninterrupted eye contact).

After a while I will glare at her till she is uncomfortable and asks me "whats wrong?" Then I will ask her if she thinks she is a good kissed, then "how would you feel if I kissed you right now?". I am 95% sure that if things went well, the reply will be a little quizzical "i dont know" which will be met with me kissing her and saying "I kind of want to find out".

I live under the principle that if I am looking for a one night hook up, the I only number close after the kisses in case I feel lonely at one night.

I am doing this for sure regardless of negative feedback but PLEASE give some input, as I am only new at this entire school of thought towards women

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Your "wing" ditched you because he had zero money and said three times in one day that he can't go downtown today because of his dad.

April 28 Update

I have what I feared I could have had. I have a mild form of one-itis (i get with other girls but I still think a lot about the girl i broke up with 3 weeks ago after 18 months together).

It is more when I am alone and have loads of time to think by myself.

Anyway, i haven't been developing my in-field game lately because i've been a little down and I don't really have the right people around me to lift me up. I went to Amsterdam for a little get-away a few days ago and it was nice seeing some good old friends.

I m back home from uni for easter break and I feel kind of deserted. Blurkk.. I sound like a depressed piece of shit. I want to go out, but don t know if it is possible tonight.

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