Thought it would be a good idea to start a journal detailing my experiences with women...

Background

- 22 years old
- Magic number is 17
- Lost my virginity aged 17
- I have oneitis for a girl who is a good friend
- Read "The Game" in order to get over my oneitis
- Live with 2 other guys, 1 who's read the game, another who has it on order, so our flat is soon to be a PUA's paradise lol

Thurs 27 Sept

Housemate who's been reading The Game, tells me about catstring theory so I decide to try it out on Mandy (codename to protect the innocent), a girl who i'd been flirting with but would never even kiss-close. Details are a little hazy but was pulling off catstring theory all night to which she got massively frustrated and kissed me. I then fireman's lifted her and carried her home, she had no complaints, got her back to mine but then she started giving out some major LMR. Using a twist on a tip a mate gave me a couple of years ago where you masterbate in front of her, I told her I'd rather just spoon tonight. Obviously though, she could feel my erection pressed against her. I grabbed her hand and slowly put it down my boxers and u can guess the rest....

Then did a stupid thing afterwards, txt my oneitis Roxy (codename) letting her know i love her (it's ok, we say that to eachother all the time), although she probably saw me leave with this girl...

Friday 5th Oct

Started reading The Game on Monday, finished it today, thought I'd try a few things from the book out. Walked past a 4-set (3 guys, 1 girl about an HB8.5), overheard a conversation about how much the girl can drink, i joined the group and said "wow you're some sort of animal". 1st neg, instant rapport with the guys of the group, chatted with the guys introduced myself, whilst excluding my target then walked off, later that night, saw my target again with a girl mate, i walked upto them and gave her the mind-reading test, bad idea..."i've heard this one before" she said, so I was on the backfoot early on. Then went onto the cube, that won me some points, then blanked her for a bit while i spoke to her mate. I then asked my target her for her opinion on my mate's problem with his gf & his ex, got the doggy dinner bowl look, then my oneitis came to the table with her mates, so I decided it was tie to go meet up with my mates. She caught up with me later to carry on our chat, I #closed and walked off

used the same tactics on another girl, thank i kinda knew but not that well, # closed and kiss closed and that was enough for me.


so...things are going OK for me, don't really have a problem running game on girls I don't know, however, having massive issues with my oneitis, she's being pretty weird with me and I don't really know what to do to change that. Hopefully you guys will be able to help me out?

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fuck! forgot to mention, the HB8.5 from Friday showed me her pierced nipple

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Sat 13th Oct

Bar 1

Housemate's bday...me, my housemate and his mates went for a bit of a bar crawl to celebrate his birthday. Whilst watchin England beat France in the rugby (awesome!), I looked around to survey the bar...nothing. Then about a 9 set of HBs dressed as nurses came in, I was itching to sarge, PIC wasnt feeling it but said he would if we could split the group somehow. Was standing at the bar when 2 of them came up behind us, so thought it would be time to try out the Ricki Lake opener, but I needed to internalise it to the UK market so...

Slick (to my PIC): man I just really don't know what to do about it...
(turn around to 2 set)

Slick: excuse me girls, can I get an opinion on something, it won't take too long and were heading upstairs for the comedy soon anyways...

HB9 (target): umm...ok

Slick: Well, I got a phone call the other day, from the Jeremy Kyle show, saying theyre doing a show on secret admirers and my secret admire has decided to reveal themselves to me on TV, do you think I should go? i mean it could be the girl of my dreams, but then it could be a guy...and one of my good mates is gay

HB9: no

Slick: why not?

HB9: I hate that show, its the worst programme on tv and if you had a secret admirer they should just tell u

Slick (in cockyfunny mode and completely dismissing her comment): Oh yeah forgot, you look like a bit of a princess, I would imagine Jeremy Kyle is to common for you... what about your friend? do you think I should do it?

HB 8 (obstacle): yeah I think you should

Slick: yeah you look like the type of girl to watch Jeremy Kyle (cockyfunny)
HB8 : *giggles* it's entertaining!

(by this time I'm getting bored of these two but notice HB9 bartender making eyes at me)

Slick: well that hasn't really helped, 1 yes, 1 no. tell ya what, we need to return back to our group, think the comedy's starting in a bit, but ask your mates over there and if you're still about when I come back, lemme know what you think

girls walk off. (bit disappointed here, poor show on my part, didn't neg enough, didnt DHV) as they do so, the bartender says: hey I think you should do it...

Slick: been eavesdropping my conversation eh?so why do u think i should do it?

bartender: cos it would be fun!

Slick: yeah I'm not so sure anymore... hey i need to find my mates but, see u later no doubt

(i got bored of her, but will definitely return to try and pick her up another time)

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Bar 2 - Hooters

housemate's friends wanted to see Hooters (there's only 1 in the UK), I wanted to sarge

Walkin in, chest puffed out "so this is hooters lads"

Walk up to bar, notice HB9.5 called charlotte, great ass, great rack, cute as hell

Slick: can we get some beers in?
HB9: I dunno, i'm gonna have to ask my boss, we're closing in a bit
Slick: oh come on, please?! my mates really wanted to come to this place!
HB9: i'll see what I can do

she disappears into the back

HB9.5: sorry, no can do guys
Slick: meh, ok, there's plenty of other bars to go, my mates here just wanted to drink with some hooters girls
HB9.5: well we're going to oceana tonight after we finish, you guys should come along
Slick (with smile on my face): Oceana?! thought hooters girls went to classy places? Thanks but I think we'll pass, we're heading off to Gatecrasher tonight
HB9.5 (looks me in the eye): Are you sure?
Slick: yeah
HB9.5: ok
Slick: see ya around

HB9.5 walks off making puppy dog eyes at me (OMG THIS GIRL WAS TOO HOT)

not sure whether she was giving IOIs or just doing her job. she wasn't trying to sell us anything and she did invite us out with them. Can't remember if i gave any kino either. but i'm going there next weekend with a couple mates to see how i do

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Bar 3

Drinking at the bar with mates, notice a 2-set HB6, UB3. Thought it would be good practise and a good way of trying out my new X-Factor line. Told my PIC to give it a couple mins then join us. Walk on over, then see a better option, HB8 and HB9 2set. Walk over, pull out the chair infront of HB9

Slick: hey, noone's sitting here right? cool.
HB9: no you're ok.
her eyes showed me she was interested. she was now my target

HB8 (obstacle): well actually our boyfriends are sitting here...

Slick: woah is you're mate forgetful or just stupid (with a grin on my face)

both laugh

Slick: anyways, i need a female opinion on something, don't worry I won't be long, I wanna get some drinks in. Me and my mate Mark (point over to PIC) are gonna go on X-Factor next year as a duo (like American Idol) but we're torn on which song to sing. I wanted to do something rocking like Black Betty, but with a twist on it, whilst he wants to do Take That's Relight My Fire, surely that's to corny though?

HB9: What's Black Betty?

Slick: OMG you don't know Black Betty, what kinda music do you listen to then?!

HB9: I like soul music

Slick: Puh-lease! what do you know about Soul? I bet you're idea of Soul is Amy Winehouse! (nice neg there i thought, now she has to qualify herself to me)

HB9: no i like Marvin Gaye, Ray Charles, Aretha Frankin *blah blah blah*

Slick: hm not bad, i guess. What about you? (to HB8)

(at this point my PIC comes over)

Slick: hey, guys this is Mark, the guy I'm going on X Factor With. Mark, I think Take That is a bad idea dude

(then the boyfriends come over, one sits in the chair opposite the HB8, where Mark shouldve been, the other stands next to HB9, his girlfriend
. i could tell they felt threatened)

HB9: hey, these guys are going on X Factor next year, do you think they should sing Take That?

BFs: yeah defintiely *blah blah blah*

(the whole time he's talking I'm eyeing up his woman)

Slick (whilst looking at the HB9): I'm not in anyone's seat am I, cos I can move if I am? (AMOG test - if the guy says yes, i'm not gonna move anyways, if he says no then I'm the alpha male of the table)

BF: nah you're fine there mate

got bored after another couple minutes of nonversation, so got up, said my byes, BFs extended their hands, I shook them, then gave them both a pat on the back to reafirm my AMOG status, then softly touched the hands of the HBs (so I can get used to using more kino)

pretty confident i couldve closed here if it wasn't for the BFs

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In the club...

not much to say here in terms of dialogue, my PIC had his sights set on a 2-set with a Brazilian HB9.5 and a dutch HB7, so I decided to wing the HB7 for him, was hard to talk on the dancefloor, negged her a bit on her accent, she was wearing an open back top so opted to kino her lower back A LOT, some guy tried to interject between us, i just turned my back to it all and she just tapped me on th shoulder to get back my attention. she was new in town, potential for day2 but we lost them eventually. wasn't too interested in looking for them again as my PIC was too drunk.

on the way home a random girl came up to me and complimented me on my physique, i in turn complimented on hers whilst deliberatley focusing my eyes on her breasts. she thought that was pretty funny, stupidly though i didnt try to run game on her, she was about an HB8.5 and looked so fuckable.

oh well, lots for me to take away and learn from on this night and didn't think about my oneitis once!

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went out last night, all hyped up to sarge my tits off, went to go get some cash from the SPAM but spotted to some girl mates so chatted with them, then all of a sudden my oneitis Roxy came behind me and tickled me in the back, turned around gave her a hug, bit of nonversation and then turned to chat to a mate. My oneitis then kept apologising for being off with me recently and kept tryin to hug me and shit which i let her obviously, thought i'd go cold on her so just left her 2 go about her business while i went to get drunk. This put a massive downer on my night though just wasn't in the mood to sarge.

instead i was just experimenting on kino techniques and using other girls to display higher value to your target. The more girls i was chatting to the more looks i was getting from other girls and the more touchy feely i got with the girls, the more my value raised.

Today i bought myself a peacock accessory for tonight, just a pair of shades. Gonna see how it goes down tonight

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nice job on most of those, never hurts to number close though

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I'd rather go out swinging than strike out looking.
A lifestyle is a terrible thing to waste.
What I say when I see her is what I'll say.

cheers bro, I'm just testing the waters at the moment, seeing what works for me. Thin i might try the camera opener tonight

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everything sounds fine so far, but it just seems like you're getting getting over your AA (approach anxiety). You seem passed that, you should try moving on to higher levels, staying in sets as long as you can and definitely getting away from canned material.

Here's my 2 cents:
You leave your sets too early, try stacking routines to make conversations longer. You're fine getting from A1 - A2 (attraction phase 1 to 2)... you need to move onto comfort. Make them feel like your best friend, talk about other things... fluff even. It's not against the pua rules to talk about what they do for a living, where they're from or how they know each other. Try to be original though, so you can think of things on the spot.

great start, keep it up. you're definitely on your way to being alpha and that is key.

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by Casual (Age 20, Upcoming PUA)

I would have gone with the Hooters girls. Two cures for one-itis. One, get the girl. Two, get a bunch of different girls. I would opt for option two.

thanks for the tips guys, will definitely take on board! Had planned to go to Hooters on Friday with some mates, using them as a decoy to go sarge on the girl I had spoken to the week before, there were easy openers there, and IMHO, them asking us out with them is an IOI.

Went out last night, experimented with shades for peacocking, some girls loved it, great conversation starter, some thought it was odd, one even accused me of using it to perve haha. Didn't try much out last night, was jsut having a laugh with mates.

Was chatting to a girl i know, about an HB7, nonversation was boring me, she was moaning about some guy she's falled out with blah blah blah which led me 2 call her a slag in cockyfunny mode of course...didnt go down to well apparently. Saw her outside the club, she blanked me, I then reverted into AFC mode, rang her, she told me i had upset her, so i ran after her, cheered her up a bit then walked her home. Was watching tv with her, just chilling out, no IOIs or anything, I got bored and decided to go home. Gave her a hug goodbye then she started feeling my arms and my chest. I was lie "hey this isn't a free service, I'm gonna have to do it back", so pinched her on the ass, groped her tits a bit as well as any other kino i could get. Then hugged her again at her doorstep, she started to feel my freshly shaved head. As she did so i thought i'd try some triangular gazing and it WORKED! she kissed me and wouldnt stop kissing me for a while. But sadly i had to go, her parents were visiting in the morning and i had mates staying round my flat, but possible day 2 here though

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damn...it's been that long since I've sarged!

Had a few k-closes recently, but due mostly to being drunk than running game. oh well, out tonight, lets see how that goes

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ok so i went out and got wasted again... hmm

got a number close i forgot about though. Gonna send her a fishing txt on Friday i think, any suggestions?

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Nice stuff goin on. I would agree with the earlier comment that someone made, "you leave your sets too early". Man I have the same issue sometimes when I go out. I read SOO much of this PUA material, I feel like if i'm not DHVing all the time, or being C&F, or doing a routine I failed. It's probably the wrong way to look at it. Cuz my buddy who has less game than me manages to stick around the chicks and talk for a while. I don't know if he bores them or entertains, but he's there doing it. If I fail, I usually try to do more routines, but there is a limit, so fluffing (or talking about normal crap) is a good filler.

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