hey people i were on a cruise last night and we all know what that means today, im hungover like never before so i'll take this opportunity to write about what happened.

Ill start with introducing my friends, two of them got a girlfriend and the other one is single and me, obviously a single since im writing here.

we also met alot of random friends there so we ended up being around 20 people.

i didn't prepare much to be honest i were just there to have fun with my friends
and that i accomplished for sure more about that soon.

we started with buying some jäger, beer cigarilles and girl drinks for me(na) the girls
and went to the cabin and started palying some games, we had a couple of single girls in our cabin and i was jsut messing around with everybody and didn't really care much but to have alot of fun.

this ment that i was pretty appealing to everyone and everybody wanted my attention and i always get this far, but here comes my problem frankly i suck at escalating after that.

I build alot of attraction by not needing anyone and giving the people who deserves it my attention and having a good time.

Proof that it worked for me was that when we had been partying for 6 hours we got pretty hungry and met some of the girls we had at our cabin eariler and she was stuck on my like glue, she wanted to hold my hand and show me around, she was drunk ofcourse and in my opinion behaving really weird so i told her to calm down and try to act normal and let her show me to the pizza place where she bought me a pizza.

there i met some random ladies that was just sitting being bored and since the girl i was with was behaving weird i started interacting with them trying to have some fun and get their mood up.

I asked them if they came here to be bored just to show them that i could see that this night wasnt going as they had planned and i dont remember much but that one of them started picking in my food haha, another weird chick great.

to sum it up my single friend ended up sleeping with her because i wasn't going to do this and i ended up running into the room in the middle of the sex act for more drinks haha

what i learned from this unplanned event was that every time i go out i blow my chances of getting laid because i can never seem to escalate after i've built attraction- naturally by being cocky-funny for me.

what i should've done after collecting ten times as many signs of intrest as i needed i think i should've escalated further, doing a kino test and see how things would go, i feel like i had this is my pocket and i blew it because of my ego.

what you guys can learn from this is that there is no need to overthink any situation, it's definately not worth your time to be hesitating in your goal for perfection, just have fun and take your time to learn when you get home:)

What do you guys think i could've done different? how do you think i would've ended up sleeping with one of these fine ladies?