hows it going guys, ive been meaning to make a journal for a while now just so i can track my progress and now that im earning some money i can finally start to take this stuff a bit more seriously.

anyway i recently got a job in my local bar where i often go ( bizarelly i got the job whilst i was drunk ........ ) and this puts me in the path of some very attractive women.

ive already started to see that most people seem to treat bartenders with a certain amount of respect and as long as you just play around with the customers they usually end up asking you to join them after work.

anyway if any one has any tips on how i could use this to my advantage - routines , logistics etc it would be greatly appreciated. if not thank you in advnace for following this thread

game on

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25/03/2011 my german sweety

not a bad start to be honest , been working there for a week and got a my first number close today. was very very very happy even though to be honest it was weak as fuck lol.

i started work today and it was relatively dead so it gave me a chance to talk to people and build up a bit more rapport with them as its sopmething i need to work on if only so i get more tips lol.

anyway this 3 set came in about 3 hours into my shift - a HB 3 HB 4 ( just awfull lol ) and a HB 8.

too start with i had no intention of gaming the HB8 i just as she was german and needed her friends to help with the more complex translations.

for this reason i just chatted to the HB 4 within the group for most the time but revieving and giving strong eye contact with the HB8 throughout the conversation.

so far not much gaming to be honest , just a little bit of kino - lingered handshake and a high five into a hand hold. standard shit.

this changed when the group was approached by 5 drunk as fuck blokes acting like cunts. massive AFC'S all trying to over compensate for the fact that they have dicks the size of tic tacs lol. they hung around women for ten minutes before the hb 3 went to the toilet and then the hb 4 asked me to help get them away from the men. i hate to say that i did cock block them, although to be honest they were getting no where.

extracting was fuckign easy just went over to the group asked the HB 8 if she wanted something to drink ( i work there remember , would never normally do this ) and then lead her to the bar with an arm round her.

sorry guys lol

anyway she thanked me and then just chatted.

fast froward 30 mins the group leave but the HB 3 comes back in saying the HB 8 wants my number. i gave it to her and she text me the next day.

weak fuckign close , shouldve got some balls and done it myself

still pretty pleased

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Dude, are you crazy?
This #-close is solid as a rock!

SHE gave you the number and you didn't even ask? That's gold men.
That's the dream of number closing!

When you number close like this, she is very unlikely to flake a date!

Congratulations!

P.S. the only thing you should have done better is this: you could have said to HB3: "If she wants my phone number, she should come here herself and ask! She's a grownup, right?".

That would have lead to some funny teasing about her shyness during the number close!

26/03/2011 german k close but twat blocked by her friend

had work again tonight , so fucking busy so not much time for gaming whilst working just general chit chat and bantering. got invited out to a few things after but i already had my plans

anyway whilst i was working my german from the other night came back in and it was her birthday ( hug and a kiss as a " present ") and they were going to a club just round the corner. they had a table and wanted me to come.

i was happy to oblige them lol

finished work went over there with a couple of my colleagues and found my german on the dance floor. this is where it gets kinda weird.

she was so cold towards me , i mean she smiled but it was a half smile. i could tell that there was somethign on her mind.

went to dance with her , spun her and tried to pull her close but she was having none of it.

at this point im wondering what the fucks going on.

remember she spoke very broken english so verbal gaming was gona be difficult.

her HB3 friend took me to the bar and bought me a drink and that when i realized i had attracted the obstacle aswell so i got my drink and got out of there as soon as possible.

by now the night was drawing to a close , i had opended up a couple of people on the dance floor and just generally had a laugh but then i remember to man the fuck up and make something happen.

walked up to the HB8 took her hand and just said " i want to talk and lead her to the table ". i could feel the HB3 staring at me but i didnt care anymore.

we went and sat down , a couple of minuted of small talk whilst getting very close to her - whenever i leant in to talk id put hand on her neck and speak into her ear . just gently rubbing her cheek with mine.

after 5 minutes i went with my kiss close

i wrote a thread on it which ill post in here casue im tired and cant be bothered to right now lol.

anyway it worked even when she doesnt speak english which shocke me too be honest but i guess what you say really doesnt matter as much as how you say it.

got the mkae out but then she told me she had to stop cause her HB3 liked me ( fucking knew it ) and didnt want to piss her off. i told her i understood , gave her another quick kiss and told her id ring her.

left the club went home and ate meat samosas

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cheers man and yeah that wouldve been gold

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02/04/2011 - need to stop drinking !!!!!!

ok so went out for my mates 19th , all in all it was a great night. had an amzing time although not much gaming

i pussied out big time. i fucking hate this shit so much sometimes. since doing this my games improved so much and i feel as though my friends all look to me to " lead the way ". although this is great its now put added pressure on me and its starting to effect me i think.

hell every time i open a set i can feel there eyes on me .

anyway seeing as it was for my mates birthday we all got unbelivably fucked. normally i just stick too 3-4 beers which is perfect. hell i become smoother than fucking will smith but as soon as i cross that road its game over lol.

saw a two set at the bar decided to approach and go direct.

ment to say " hey , i know this is random but i saw you when i was getting a drink and had to tell you youre stunning "

came out as uncomprehensible ball shit. i do know that i said it too fast and slurred my words...... awesome.

she walked away with her friend laughing i think. at least i brightened up her night lol

to be honest guys theres no point going into details about my other sets cause the same theme is going to keep coming up . getting too drunk and acting like a dick.

got work tonight, hopefully have some fun.

o and by the way i feel the need to thank blondguy for his advice on direct day game, you're the man.

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