Hello My Brothers,
I would like to a story about my interaction with a girl that i recently met.
The game i've ran might seem pretty old fashioned in the states because im still learning... I am currently vacationing in China right now, and i've been trying to see if i can run game here. Now i went to this spa-like place in guangzhou with my friend. In the spas they offer many different kinds of massages for men and women. After you shower you get to go to a rest area where you get to chill in a unusally large independant sofa, one per person equipped with t.v. There are waiters/waitresses, and managers walking around. Usually when someone wants a massage they speak with the manager. Now there was one particular manager there hb9, beautiful in every speakable way. I knew if i were to call her over here she would have to come and speak to me, but i decided against that cause it would feel more like a business interaction. I didn't want to start off in the wrong foot, so i decided to try an old trick that i learned from a book(i forgot the specific PUA) what i did was write her note which goes something like this:
What's the most corny pick-up line?
A: Hi my name is X, whats yours?
B: Hey whats up can i buy you a drink?
C: Wow, your the most beautiful girl i've ever seen can i get your number?
D: Whats the most corny pick-up line?
Lol, yeah i know this one is over-used in the states.
Well i wrote the note and got one of the waitresses to deliver it to her.
The Hb9 came cheerfully up to me a few minutes later heres our interaction:
Hb9: (in Chinese) Hey did you write this?
Me: Yeah, whats your opinion on it?
Hb9 sit to the side of me.
Hb9: Hmm, I think C is the corniest what do you think?
Me (laugh): Yeah, it seems pretty corny
Hb9: Have you been here before?
Me: No its my first time? Let me introduce myself my name is SeekingNirvana whats yours?
Hb9: My name is HB9
I reach out hands and we exchange handshakes
Me: nice to meet you HB9
Me: Are you busy today?
Hb9: No, It's pretty quiet today
Me: Can you stay for awhile i would really like to get to know you
Hb9: Sure
Me: So what do you like to do for fun?
Hb9: Well on my spare time i like to go out with my friends, go online, and visit beautiful scenic views.
Me: You like to go online? What do you like to do when your online?
Hb9: blah blah blah
Me: Blah blah blah (about the subject) basically im just going deeper into what she likes to do.
hb9: Howabout you what do you like to do?
Me: Well there are many things that i like to do for fun, but i especially like to do things that are highly exciting, like have you ever experienced the how it feels like to be floating 30,000 feet above the ground? The sight the clouds at close range? The sound of the cold wind blowing on your face deafening your ears?.
Hb9: no, but it sounds really exciting
Me: See, but thats not the best part of it, The best part is the feeling of falling 500fps, and once you fall to a certain height you get to see earth at its most beautiful, the trees creating waves of green, the icy mountains, the shimmering pond, Not even the best writers can describe the scene and give it just credit.
Hb9: Wow sounds, really fun.
Me: Yeah, Hey whats your favorite color?
Hb9: Hmm... I don't really have a favorite colour depends on what i want to use the color for.
Me: Well what color personally appeals to you the most?
Hb9: Hmmm... Well i would have to choose blue.
Me: (Colour Analysis on her Personality) + (cold reading)
Hb9: *laughs* wow how did you know all that by just my colour?
Me: Well yeah i study psychology as a hobby.
Hb9: Really? You most read alot of books?
ME: Somewhat, i read when i have time, Anyways the analysis i gave you weren't that detailed, If you have time we can play a game and afterwards i can give you a more detailed analysis...
Hb9: Sure ask away
Me: (Run the cube on her)+ Explain her answers
Me: so on a scale of 1-10 how correct was i?
Hb9: Hmm it would have to be an 8
We Exchange eye contact and i held my eyes with hers until she turned away chuckling.
Me: Hmm... i think your a person with a very unique energy, and i would like to get to know you more, what steps can we take to meet again..
Hb9: Well we can exchange emails, we can exchange numbers, Or we can go out for some coffee sometime?
Me: Hmm... Coffee sounds nice howabout the day after tommorow at 5pm?
Hb9: Hmm... Yeah sure, i should be awake by then (She works night shifts)
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Day 2:
So we meet up at a cafe the next day at 5, And basically i got to know her a little better played a few games with her,Did some negging, Made a bet and did the 5question lie game with her. Did some kino, basically when we left the cafe we were holding hands, Now outside the cafe there were two shops that sold pretty expensive purses, She said she wanted to take a look, and started picking up purses and asked my opinion, basically i had a feeling like she wanted me to buy her a purse, and i was like yeah it looks good on you, So she turns and asks the sales how much the purse cost and when the sales tell her the price, she turns to me and asks me if that was a good price. I replied with yeah, its your choice... She looks at me for a moment longer as and puts the purse back. She then tells me to go and say they aren't that good looking, So we leave the store and she takes me to the next store, and checks out the purses there and asks for my opinion and basically did the same thing of the first store, ask for the price and looks at me. This time the price was really high and it was a fake, so i was like if you were going to pay that price you might as well buy a real one... So she was like yeah thats true and we walk out. We get to the front of the street it was almost time for her to go to work so she had to get a taxi, when we got the taxi, i opened the back door for her and she sits to the other side expecting me to sit next to her and take the taxi with her to work and pay for her taxi.. But i was like the place you work at is at the opposite of where i need to go so are you okay by yourself? She was like yeah okay, and i told her i would call her later. And left it that
Day 2 Close
The next day i sent her a txt message stating, hey i really had fun with you yesterday, i hope the next time we meet it would be more fun, are you free the day after tomrow?
She hasn't responded to my txt message yet any opinions? or suggestions?

i dont want to be mean but here's my analysis on the situation. remember though only you know exactly what happened and how it went, so take advice but try to make up your own advice on the situation, that's the only way you'll ever get better.

so it does seem like you're being a little needy. you're too interested. i mean the reason why you got her was because you DHV'd all over the place and fluffed. AFCs dont do cold readings, psychology tricks or games... so analysis in general is intruging to women...

you need to NEG!! that's what i'm seeing. act a little more cocky funny and alpha. just take out the polite words from your conversation... don't ask for things and don't be too nice. the main thing though was you needed more negs.

simple things such as

PUA: "wow you get impressed easily, i could probably cough and you'll start laughing at how hilarious i am"

PUA: "you're not being really professional by socializing at work" *smile*

PUA: "oh you've never been skydiving, you definetely need to get out more" *smile*

some examples of the cocky/funny would be:

PUA: "I don't know if I can see you tomorrow, maybe you should try harder to impress me =)"

etc...

women lose interest if you're not mysterious or if they feel like they have you all figured out. they feel like they don't know why they lost interest but PUAs have figured it out after a while. they want excitement and while your DHVs were exciting not to mention meeting someone new... eventually you seem too nice for them..

hope this helps...

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by Casual (Age 20, Upcoming PUA)

Hey man thanks for your advice
Yeah i know i need to work on my negging any good books you guys recommend me getting?

if you haven't read "The Game by Neil Strauss" or "Mystery Method" yet, you should really read those.... quite inspirational. there are tons more but i'd say you can find a lot of crap here on these forums. There are other forums as well... or websites. uhmmmm the basic idea is to give a "backhanded compliment" be sincere when you give it to them.

negs can be misinterpreted with insults and with being cocky/funny sometimes... but they are all good. try not to insult though... you'll catch on after a while.

here's the canned negs that i don't recommend using because you might get caught, but a variation on them will be fine

PUA: "hey, nice nails... are they real?" "well... they look nice anyway"

PUA: "is she always like that? I guess you can dress them up but you can't take them out..."

PUA: "where's her off button?"

PUA: "you and me wouldn't get along, we're too similar" *smile*

negs are playful or sincere and should be used to drop her bitch shield and focus on her minor insecurities. don't go overboard though... you'll feel it out... don't come off looking like a jerk.

if you're being cocky/funny in general you'll accidentally do negs that will work and you'll stray away from insulting her... so just stick with that for now.

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by Casual (Age 20, Upcoming PUA)