Alright so this was my first real daytime gaming (I did it a couple of times during the day before, but this was the first time I went out with a purpose only of picking-up girls.)

So it all started a week ago ago, when I said, on Thursday I'm going out only to pick-up girls and it was super wierd, when AA started to crushing me a few days before I acually went out, so I was really hyper active all the time, going crazy even my parents thought there was something wrong with me.

But still I didn't chicken out and I went to the mall to do some daygame
(btw when I was drivig to the mall I was so nervous, that I was in the car listening to music [Scooter] max volume and fist pumping like crazy I don't recomend that to any of you, cause I almost crashed.)

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Thursday 10.2.2011

So I arrived at the mall at 11 am and AA was just kicking in like crazy and I was walking around for like an hour, because I was so in my head, that I couldn't even speak, to the people that were selling stuff in stores.

And after that I had one approach that day, when I was at zoo shop I saw 2 girls in bird section, I come in there and they were next to a talking parrot, so I came up and boom I just freeze I even forgot to say Hi and it was funny (well not for me), becuse the mothefuckin parrot talked (yes they had a talking parrot) to the girls more than I did (I eventually said a few words on the birds theme).

So after that I went home, but the day was still a sucess to me, because I got myself out of a house.

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Friday 11.2.2011

I got today at the same mall and it was totally diferent, today I was just in the mood where I was like ''OK I'm just gonna fuck around.'' No big deal. So I was agian walking around like I walked 15 times by the same stores and I opened maybe 4 or 5 girls with the same opener ''Hey do you know where a Samsonite store is ?''

And I discovered, that my mental thinking of I'm just gonna fuck around, I don't give a damn what others think of… yada yada yada… really helped me I didn't believe in any of those stuff before, when someone said: ''Dude just repeat it in your head.'' But it really made me more comfortable.

Oh BTW I opened one girl with a new opener, I had my fluffy bracelet on and it is kinda hard zip it, so I asked her to do it and she did it, but it ended there, so the next time I'll use I'll just throw a story about bracelet out and something funny on it.
Well anyway it was a good day I'm pretty happy and optimistic about the future, I know that if I presist in doing that I'll eventually get better.
I'll keep you posted for my next FR.

See ya

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Saturday 12.2.2011 / Sunday 13.2.2011

So me and my friends, we decided to go out for the entire night and they don't really know about game, but we went out just to party/drink, because it has been a hell of a week for all of us, so it's just a boys night out.

We arrived at the bar and we started drinking really heavy (which happens only once a month I'm not a heavy drinker)
so before the midnight we pass out and I don't remeber anything from that point on, I do however remember, that my buddy's girlfriend came and she brought two other girls with her and I started to game all three of them, which made me feel really grossed for hitting on his girlfriend, because I would never do that to a friend, but no hard fellings, he knows I was joking around.
Anyway the funniest thing happened to me, when we got back home and I would never expect that in a million years. We were in a car and just out of a blue he suddenly sais:

Him: ''Hey K. you know what you should do, you should read The Game.''

Me: ''What where did you heard that?''

Him: ''I was at my girlfriend's party the other night and one of her friends mentioned The Game, I haven't read it, but it supposed to be pretty good…..''

Me: ''Would you think, that I was crazy if I told you, that I'm doing it (or at least I'm trying )

Him: ???

So after that we just started to talk about it for like hours and (PU theory) game isn't so extended in our country, so I was just like stunned when he mentioned it.

Anyway my point is that when you least expect something, that is the most likely moment that it's going to happen

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Wednesday 16.2.2011

Alrgiht so today I didn't do like tons of daygame (I'm focusing on that for the moment), but I did open some sets (3 I think ) in the mall with my Samsonite opener
but it didn't went any further than this (I'm still kinnda strugling with my transition but hey these are my first few days of daygame).

Anyway I can just feel now, that my AA is going down exponentialy, because when I went out doing daygame the first time it was boom boom boom my heart wanted fo fall out of my chest
but if I just use the mentality alright I'm just gonna fuck around, just for having fun there is so much pressure of me and sets open a lot better.

It's like everyone sais you need to fail 50 sets to get your mind right and that's what's happening now.

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Friday 18.2.2011

So I went to the mall today to do some daygame again, suprisingly I didn't feel so much AA today, since I had a really rough morning and I wasn't really in a mood to pick-up girls, but I said to myself fuck it I'm just gonna do it anyway.

I opened a few sets and since today is the last working day for schools in my country (they all have now 1 week brake, except students ) the place was packed from 11 AM to 1 PM (I've been there for like 3-4 hours), I got the usual responses
but today for the first time I've tried direct daygame I did only 1 set (HB and it looked something like this:


Me: ''Hey.'' [pause]
Her: [looks at me]
Me: ''I know this is really random and you probably get this all the time, but I think you're really cute, so…''
Her: ''Yeah, whatever.'' [walks off]


But I still consider this as a full sucess, since I didn't stall out at all and besides this was only my first direct approach, there'll be still plenty of them.

Oh BTW I think I know, what I did wrong at my direct app. I came in with a really big big smile, like she knew it was coming on and I my body language was too nice guy, so I gotta work on that. Or maybe she just had a bad day, anyway I fuck it.

For the record I've noticed, that direct approach can really do a lot for your inner game, since you don't have an opener to hide behind it, you bring out yourself on the line. And I've discovered, that I really do care less about what people think of, before I was just pretending, but now I'm getting more and more ''I don't give a shit mentality.''

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OK so I've been reading AFC Daniel's journal and (I haven't fully read it) the guy is absolute inspiration, but the key thing is, he has very organised journal,
his structure is very useful, he makes list of goals/advantages/mistakes/improvals/... and I figured that that is the best way to see your progress in the game, because you have a quick overview of where you are right now and where you're going, so I decided to also update the structre of my field reports (journals) to a similar model

Keep posting the good stuff Danny

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Tuesday 22.2.2011 / Wednesday 23.2.2011

So today (Tuesday) I met a guy (nicknamed metamorph who is also on the forum) and he's like pretty at the same stage in game as I am right now guy is pretty cool and he knows quite a lot about game and it was very interesting, because this is the first time I accualy talked to someone, that is also doing PUA.

Anyway my friends called me tonight and we went out, I had a wing and altough he was really drunk, he and I did quite well on the field.


Objectives:

- Approach as many women as possible
- Do kino escelation
- Have fun


Field:

When we arrived at the club it wasn't full, so we were just chilling for about an hour and then as just as my friends were going to leave, my wing showed up and we started gaming.
Here the clubs (we call it disco) are really loud and even if you scream in to a girl's ear, she won't hear you, so I tryed gaming as much as possible with body language and the funny thing is that it worked
I just grabbed girls and we went dancing togehter (some of them wouldn't even resist ) and I had like one perfect opportunity (carresing/heavy kino/sexual touching) with this girl named Klementina to k-close and I don't know why but I completley froze and window to k-close was over.
I was gaming a little bit after that and then I went home and woke up this morning with no voice (I was shouting so loud to my friends yesterday, that I lost my voice )


What did I do right:

- Approached women
- Did heavy kino
- Yeah I had fun


What did I do wrong:

- Didn't k-close when I could (Correction: Have balls and just do it)
- Hesitated a little while approaching (Correction: I need to use 3 sec rule)
- Still need to improve my body language
- When I did verbal approaches I got stuck after the opener (Correction: I need something to do the transition to a normal convo)

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Good read!! Keep up the good work man!!

Thanks man

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Nice, just read all of your posts. You improved quick since you started the journal. I personally have AA doing what you did in the last post. Just grabbing girls and dance with them. I can't do that, I can only talk to them first. But you did a great thing and probably you could have kissed her. As you can read in my journal... the kissing point is my sticky point at the moment. I am getting in the situation of being able to kiss a girl a lot, but I don't dare to do it, it takes balls... it's something I have to develop and I want to do it quick... but every time I chicken out on it. CRAZY!!

Keep up the good work bro

Hey guys

So I haven't posted a while in here, simply just, because I'm shortage of time (this studying year is killing me man ) anyway, I have tough written a couple of reports in the meantime, I just haven't upload it yet on the page, so I'm gonna do that right now

Enjoy!

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Tuesday 1.3.2011 / Wednesday 2.3.2011

I went out to do nightgame with some friends, we arrived at the club at 11.30 PM and we just bounced around for a little bit now I really had a mindset of having fun when I went out, like that was my main and only objective, no picking up girls, just having fun, talking dancing…

So my Objectives:

- Have fun (it was a hard study week for me )

Field:

When the clock hit about midnight, the clubs were full and everybody were dancing, drinking, having a good time, everybody except us. I mean don't get me wrong, I was having a good time 100%, but my friends, were just looking sad, waiting for something to happen and that's why also I got into the bad mood.
I really try to be uneffected by other people (I started danced by myself ), but when I see them, bored to death and girls dancing in front of them on stage, those are the moments that I ask myself, WTF dude, why did we came here and it sucks you in.
And then they started to leave one by one till just me and one other stayed (the clock was only 2 AM) and he said, ''dude we gotta pick up some girls, this sucks'' so I went, ''you go first'', he didn't, so I went first, got blown out, came back and then said to him ''It's your turn now.'' But he didn't do it. I don't blame him, I don't judge him (BTW he just got out of a 3 year LTR, so he has mixed feelings about girls right now.), but he was at least that honest, that he admited, that this sucks (The others didn't). So at about 3 AM we went each our sepreate way and just as I was about to go home I ran into some of my old high school mates, which were so drunk that they probably didn't even seen what beer they were drinking, but I said WTF I can at least have something from this noght right (BTW I was completley sober all night, that's something, that I really try to keep up these days and it's working, even if the others are drinking.)
So we were together, talking about the good old days and all of the sudden this two girls, that they're friends with appear, but those are the two girls, that I got into a huge fight the other night (they slapped me, I slapped them back) and I didn't even looked at them and they didn't looked at me, but still I was having a good time and so were they, go figure

What did I do right:

- I had fun big time
- Approached a set

What did I do wrong:

- I could approached more girls (Correction: I think my friends modd was holding me back)
- I let other people affect me, and even tough they were my friends it feels kinda bad. (Correction: I should never let anyone to affect my mood, if they are in bad mood, I'll go talk to some girls and bounced them back.)

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Saturday 5.3.2011 / Sunday 6.3.2011

I've met up with another gamer in my area today (nicknamed janez, posts on this forum). We originally agrred on daygame, but I had some things to do during the day and we met up at about 8 PM at the city mall. He's a cool guy and we talked a little about game, lifestyle… So anyway there is a disco at the mall and we said, hey while we're here, we can game a little right.

Objectives:

- Warm up
- Approach girls and go as far as you can
- Try to implement your wingman into the game
- Close
- Stay sober (Just kidding I was driving anyway )

Field:

So at first we were going up the stairs in front of the disco, were is also the cinema and we tried to encourage each other, to start approaching, but it didn't worked out quite as we thought it would. We were just standing there for like 30 min leaning on to the counter with fear, looking at girls. So after that we said, let's try to get into the club and all the tickets were sold out, so we tried to buy it from a guy at the front, but they were too expensive. When we got back in, we tried to talk to some girls to buy the tickets and one set opened perfectly, we aske dfor the tickets and the girls acually stopped and were so into the conversation that even I was a little spooked out. janez did a good comment on VIP tickets and when she said they know someone, who has tickets, she gave me her number and said, she'd call me (she didn't ) if she gets the tickets, number close, not bad for a warm up set
Anyway, we bounced to another club, which was perfect for gaming the girls are hot (little older than me, but WTF I like milfs too ), the music is just at the right volume to talk and the place is packed on Saturdays + free of charge We got in since it was carnival, everybody was wearing something, so peacocking wasn't really 'stand out' choice. But just as I came in, I noticed 3 girls sitting on a sofa with japaneese costumes, I said, I'll just get my drink and then I'll go talk to them, but I've lost them.
So me and janez were standing, talking and I opened this blonde with tattoo opener, we talked a bit, but she wasn't really that interested, so I released. I had fun, I smiled (very important), I pinched girls by their hats and tails and just as we were about to leave the club I noticed Japaneese girls again and I opened situational

ME: ''Please tell me you guys are from Japan''
HB 8: joking ''Yes we are.''
ME: ''No way I'm crazy about Japan, where did you get your costumes.''

We talked for about 10 minutes or so and if I assess the set it went pretty good, I gained interest, I qualified them (They study radiology) and I got IOIs. And one funny thing happende, I don't know, how I pulled this off, but I accually convinced them that I speak Japanese (which I don't), so it went something like this:

ME: ''Konnichiwa.''
HB 8: ''Konnichiwa.''
ME: ''Ching chong chung.'' (something, that I don't know WTF it was, but to me it was 'japanese')
HB 8: ''What?''
ME: ''I thought you were from Japan, what you don't understand your own language now, her let me try it on Slovene, how do you all know each other?''
HB 8: ''You speak japanese, wow that is so cool, where did you learned that.''
ME: ''I have a japanese course at my university (which I don't and probably never will).''
HB 8: ''Oh god have you ever been to Japan.''
ME: ''No I haven't, but I really want to go there one day (that's true).''
HB 8: …

As soon as I mentoined japanese my value like skyrocketed that is a good thing, but at the same time my conscious was knocing on my soul for lying, I don't really care about that, but still it fuck with your head, no worries
Anyway later on I met her BF, high fived him, said, dude you got the right girl, respect. And that was pretty much it to the japanese girls.

From there on we bounced to like 5 or 6 bars and we ended up in another disco called Casablanca for like 20 minutes, but the music there is so loud, that you can speak to each other, I opened a set (non-verbaly, grabbed a girl dancing by the hips) and he opened a set and then it was like 3 AM so we went home.

What did I do right:

- I approached
- I number closed
- I made the interaction going well

What did I do wrong:

- I hesitated at warm up sets (Correction: Use the fucking 3 sec rule)
- Didn't hold the interaction with other girls, when I could (Correction: Talk & talk until the say it in your face to fuck off, even if it comes off creppy).

What've I learned:

- One of the most important tools when approaching are warm up sets, they make every next interaction so much easy one you're in state.
- If you lie to a girl, make sure you don't hurt anybody.
- When you are interesting staying in convo is easy.
- Most importantly SITUATIONAL openers, work best, beacuse they sound honest.

In the end, the night was excelent

Kupid out.

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