Ever been out on a date and the chick seems completely disinterested? You know she is not talking much, messaging her friend, etc. Then you wonder why she wanted to come out with you in the first place. A good technique is to give yourself a time out and go to the bathroom. Take out your cell phone and set the alarm on your phone so that it will ring 3 or 4 times in the next half hour. When the alarm starts ringing answer it like some one is calling you. Say hi enthusiastically and talk like its a girl on the other line not one of your bros. Play along with it and then say you have made plans this weekend but you'll call her later. Anyway, do this one more time and she will sense that you're a sought man with many options. When it rings the last two times, don't pick up your phone and apologize for the constant phone calls and either turn it off or put it on silent mode. Once you do this, the girl will usually change her attitude towards you and ask herself "Is there something I'm not seeing in this guy?" "Who are these women calling him?" In fact sometimes they'll just come out and ask you who it is that's calling or make a comment about the constant phone calls. Women are very suggestable and if she sees you have approval of other women she will change her mind about you. Also, the fact that you turn your phone off or on silent mode means that you're now giving her your full attention and that you deserve the same from her.