this will be my first field report i will actual be posting.Im not to good with lingo and My story telling suck so please try to understand. Lets get down to it. I was at Provindence R.I the girls over there are ON POINT. so i entered a club with me and my boy. we were meeting my friend and he had 2 guys friends and 7 girls {friends}.I could of dance with a couple of them but i choose not to or even get to know them reason why i hate that shit i was to get a girl on my own not by intro. so lets begin in the club The ratio and people in the club was good more girls then guys sets of 4,5, even 6 all girls so i took one drink and said game on i approach my first set of 4 girls and one guy in it. So haha it seen like this guy and this girl was dancing but they were in a distance so i put my arm around them and said HAVE FUN DANCE. and pull them closer but before that i ask them HOW DO YOU GUYS KNOW EACH OTHER ?{wbAFC my first time using a material that i didnt came up with} so she answer and i didnt even know what the hell she said so i just nodded my head yea haha now i got two people iso. and 3 left. now two girls was dancing with each other and 1 girl alone so D.A {Dance Approach a term me and my friends came up with} the 2 set and my head was like once i show my dancing skill my target { the one alone} will be attracted to me on her own. when i got between the 2 set and dancing THE TARGET LOOKED PISSED i was like what the fuck just happen. Fucking bitch! all 3 girls left with her{ so i guess the guy wasnt with them}. And RIGHT THERE was my first time experience a CB. i REALLY WAS ENJOY DANCING with one the girls in the 2 set and i made her my target but that fucking cb fuck it up. Later after that i was like theyre nothing so i approach more and more set and crash and burn. My head was like dude im one of the, if any thing the hottest guy in there. I WAS DRESS with a blazer and no one did. i GET the eyes from girls but when i approach they just burn me. {NEED HELP SOMEBODY} SO I WAS LIKE FUCK THIS SHIT me and my boy started buggin out when soulja boi came on and i was dancing to it. Now i knew GAME WAS REALLY ON. because me and my boy was getting alot of attention these one set that rejected us DIDNT when we tryed agian. Them girls of 4 with the cb was showing me good body language and i felt that energy they were sending. well at least 2 of them im sure. So i relize this while it was happening. GIRLS LOVE GUYS WHO HAVE FUN...I LOVE GIRLS WHO ALSO like to HAVE FUN i hate them boring ass girls all they do is stand there and try to act cute. haha so yea for all the GUYS that at least even a little bit of dancing skill can D.A. a set PERFECTLY without crashing and burning once you get the attention from the floor like damn these dude know how to dance and bug out. me and my boy do the walk it out. 2 step. its a wrap haha then raeggae start playing and BOOM finally a girl i could dance with the whole song. i give her a 6 haha fuck it. ok and the other i forgot to mention that had another cb in it i D.A. a set of 3{girls} and i was doing it with one girl and moving to the next and the cb fucking came up and push me away. I was like why did you have to do that she said she had a man and i was like obviously she was have a good time tho. Then the CB was like NOT HER NOT HER AND NOT ME NEVER. i felt like smacking this bitch but i dont hit girls and they were 5 and 6s. Alright get back to the girl i was dancing she was koo so i saw this girl on stage you know the place where you could walk up to and got its own little dance floor for { a dancer working for the club} so i put my boy aside and said check her out and he was like i be back i need to take a PISS. After that he said yo lets go find out homeboy. We wasted probally 15 mins. finally we saw him and he was doing his thing. i was like alright man lets go back and go to our spot from them last and my AFC RUIN my night because he was, I dont fucking know what when thru his head but just stood there and looking at my homeboy and his friends dance.i felt like a AFC with him because i stood there but fuck it i was looking at one of the dancer and DAMN SHES HOT haha i made not to club with him agian only if he know about the game.{ which i bitch at him later on that night} i think in his head he wanted to approach my home boy home girls but he didnt and he wanted me to go to their hotel that they was staying at after the club{ HILTON HOTEL} 3 GUYS and 7 GIRLS but i didnt wanted to go because to me they were 6 and one 6.5 and we didnt built shit with them girls. Also if we were to go we would of slept there at the hotel and PAID A ROOM or chip in and sleep on the FLOOR i was like dude THEY SHOW NO INTEREST in us at all after the club so i knew my night got fuck over by my AFC FRIEND my wing man. BUT IT WASNT OVER NOT YET


now to my CAR GAME and damn let me tell you i FUCKING NEVER EXPRIENCE THIS SHIT EVER. tHIS IS my 3rd time Sarging also, just needed that point that out. so these 2 sets was walking to their car and damn a HB 8.5 and HB 8 and i ask them my OPENER and BOOM they was going in their car but then stop and turn around, my boy car was park by the side of theirs and one car separted us. SO imaging 3 cars was park side by side now take the middle one out. WELL yea i got them to stop and listen and i NEG THEM haha and the HB 8.5 tryed to neg me but i just when back at her. while this was happening my AFC started to fuck agian he was like you know i need to step out the car and get your name. i quickly turn to him and gave him the look DONT DO IT. then turn back to the set and started to DHV and use one of my routine that MAKE GIRLS MAD and apply kino on me to prove their validation to me. When i DHV the set my boy walked out of the car and introduce him and me. {i couldnt believe it AFC never fuckin introduce yourself FIRST} so i fucking said Dude dont worry you dont need to introduce me i will do that myself and look at the girls and smile and giggle. SO did they. now was i ran my rountine i got them hook and had my target lock and my boy said some stupid shit i dont know he tryed to sweet talk to them and then rather then neg he disrespected them I and got my target pissed so i was like dude lets get out of her and i NEG HER and all he did was stood there i repeated my self dude lets leave but this time i fucking dis her because she was liking dissing on my boy by her body language and so they turn to their car and started to talk shit to me but NO BITCH can talk shit to me unless i make them feel like shit first. I WILL TELL YOU A REAL HATEFUL WORD ok Tell anyone Your a LOSER. and walk away leaving them pissed and think about their loser way. They will visualize it and want to talk shit back to you but your already walking way.





Now ABOUT THE CAR GAME i think i could of # closed or f closed.shit i got to point out, i was in the car the whole time while the set was outside standing there. One of the girls show MAJOR MAJOR IOI's she played with her hair CRAZY and i have never seen that before but my target i had to neg the shit out of her and DHv To finally made her play with her hair and walk to my boy car and touch my arm to validate herself. Also they were standing UP and Sat DOWN on the floor {concrete} because i was building comfort and got them interested in me. I never once step out of the car and when them girls was arguing {PROBALLY MY FAULT} I WAS like hey the attention was over here and tell them to LISTEN {i was running my routine}. and so they did. I have never experince this before this is the second time i talked to a hb 8 + AND trust me my standard for girls are pretty high. to my friends their 10s but i see it then how about a super model a VERY HOT famous person{celebrity}? I was really into my target to, she neg me and she was a challenge haha but the other girl i knew i had her after the opener and when i DHV. Lesson to be learn need help i still consider myself a AFC big time but im doing good right now i had a chance with this hb9 the last time i sarge but i was so shock that i have the ability to even talk to this beauty and Kino escalate. But i didnt # close her or anything. LEARN FROM YOUR EXPRIENCE. Now what am im suppost to do to my wbAFC friend. he fucked up twices. Damn and give me some advice what could i do better. I hope you enjoy my FAILURE STORY but i need to let this out. Thanks


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I think you need a better wingman, or teach your wingman some of the inside tricks. The main thing I do in club settings is not act anxious/ but social and always remember that You are the prize....one of the hardest things for me to grasp personally before I got in on the game. Make them work for your attention.
You are doing well in spreading your attention to various girls, social proof is key....and your gaining that interacting with multiple girls and showing off dancing.. a good wingman would of defused the CB and you should of been in...same thing with the parking lot situation. A good wingman will compliment you as well as help raise some of the sexual tension with the other ladies....you need to get your friend in on the game.

Hope this helps.

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Yeah, you need a better wing. Your reactions probably didn't help, but your learning. In a sense I am too. You've obviously realized your mistakes. Really it seemed to me like you just need a better wing. Your wing isn't supposed to CB. Leave that to the FCs. It sounds like you did well, don't get so angry. Just move on. All in all though, it sounds like you were "on", but situations beyond your control weren't.

First, about your wingman. Don't just drop him. He is your friend, just explain things to him and then SHOW him. Once you show him one time then he will probably go along with it. If he doesn't and won't listen to your "advice" ... THEN you drop him.

As for your club game. You may not have noticed this but you did mention that the set with the CBer in it was checking you out before you went up to them. So picture it this way. 4 set of girls. One got pulled away, and they were left with a 3 set and one of the girls dancing with a guy. Then the remaining girls notice you. CBer splits off to dance on her own (She WAS your target.) Now... here is how it looked to her.

1. You went to her friend who was dancing with a random guy.
2. Then you went to her two friends.
3. Then since that didn't work out you went to her.

You did two things that I would say were mistakes here. You didn't make her friends laugh enough. It seemed to me like the CBer may have thought you went up to first group (girl and guy). Lost. Then second group (2girls). Lost. Then came to her after 2 losses. She will be all "Fuck that, Loser!" Oh and she is hurt because she was the last of her friends to even be talked to.

SO she is angry because she separated herself for you (major IoI) and you still chose her last (Even though you were working your way to her). Then you proceeded to try the rest of the room and she was still angry. Maybe she was really interested in you bro. That is the only reason I can see her being such a CB.

Hmm.. now that I think about it... Could she have still been interested in you and this was her way of telling you? I dunno, I wasn't there.

As a separate note, as soon as she came into a Random set that you had opened and DLV'ed you.... The next set you opened should have been with a "Dear god, there is this girl who is sooo pissed that I wasn't into her and now she is going around messing with me. She is freakin nuts.." ect. Use her CBing to your advantage.

Remember, this CB is wasting her fun night going around making it hard for you. This means she is either really pissed or really attracted. You can use both. Don't hesitate.

As for your car game... it seems alright. You had them at your window and interested. Your friend shouldn't have gotten to far in... buy you knew that anyway. Also, your car game may have been better because of the end of the night. Women tend to have higher buying temperatures because of all the guys working them up and it doesn't matter who takes advantage of it. Test your car game early in the night some time and see if you get the same result. If you do.. well... give us a bit more detailed account so others can learn from it.

Hope this helps.

EvoJ