I didn't expect last night to turn out this way, but I'm not complaining either. Ok, I'll try to summarize this here as clearly as I can, but if it's not clear, forgive me and let me know what's not clear. I'll SEE if I can make it clearer, no promises, lol.
Alright, I went to this club that I'm a regular at now. I have been thinking that it is to my disadvantage that I'm such a regular at this club and have not yet gained the social value I want to have there, but last night kind of broke some barriers.
I had a girl that I've picked up before and am progressing things with getting ready and driving to meet me at the club. She brought a girl friend of hers with her, and I was at the club already, on my own, sarging and just having fun while they were on their way.
Ok, in the meantime, I make my "pass through" of the club to see who all's there, say what's up a couple of times, get some eye contact, things like that. Credit that to some guy that David D interviewed, lol.
After that I hit the dance floor and start loosing up.
Ok, now, at one point I had a group of I think 4 or 5 girls dancing together and they asked me to take a pic. Now, that's a pretty straightforward AFC thing to do if I just flat out accept and take their pic, so I said:
me: only if I get one of me and one of you guys in return
one of the hb's: sure, I'll take one with you
So, I take their cam, snap the pic, pull out my cell phone, turn the cam on, give it to one of the other hb's, and she takes our pic. Nice. Now I have a pic to use as an "ex" for a routine.
P.S. I also, on Friday night, went up to a 2 set and just straight out asked if they could do me a favor and take my pic with the one that would have been my target had I been gaming. so they agreed and the lesser hb took my pic with the hotter hb. Very, very cool. Then I told the one that shared the pic with me that I had to cause she was cute, and left them as quick as I approached, lol. You get interesting looks when you do something like that.
Ok, back to last night.
Got the pic, went on and walked around the club again, on the way to go outside to use my phone to text someone. On the way out, more EC from hb's. One in particular maintained the EC and smiled, so when I came back by her, I tried to open, but she was talking to her friend and ignored me at that point. Oh well. We all make mistakes.
Anyway, I made a few different trips completely outside of the bar, especailly as the line grew longer and longer to get in. I watched several HB's walk in with their girl groups and would time my reentry so that they would see me just walk right in. Of course, that's not that big of a deal, since you can reenter once you've been in easily, BUT it still at least drew some attention. So, on one of these trips back in, another HB locked eyes with me (she had by this time gotten into the club) and then she looked away after a minute. SHE looked away. I tapped her shoulder and said:
me: you look familiar (she honestly did)
HB: SO DO YOU! Where have I seen you? Did I see you in here last night?
me: where you in here last night?
HB: yes!
me: maybe, who knows.
From that point she stands there with me for about 30 seconds and we chat and then she starts walking behind me as I walk further into the club, still taking to me about this girl that was behind her while we were talking.
HB: I almost got into a fight with her.
me: really. ok.
HB: Yes! that girl that was standing behind me back there. Complaining about blah blah blah (couldn't understand her, lol. and no, she wasn't drunk, just not talking to legibly at that moment)
So I keep walking, and everytime I turn my head away from her she starts talking again. After a minute I turn and look at her again and tell her I'm gonna head to another part of the club. She's heading to the bar anyway. Sure, I could have probably progressed things with her, but I'm SURE I will see her again, and on this night, I was mainly using her as a DHV anyway.
So, later I'm dancing NEXT to some other girls, who at the moment are basically ignoring me, UNTIL I start a couple of dance moves and the lady on the OTHER side of me literally grabs my shirt as she steps in front of me and starts dirty dancing with me. There weren't any other guys getting into the dancing, so she jumped "on" me. She WAS dancing WITH another guy before she "hopped" onto me. I THOUGHT they were a couple. I didn't say a word. Just looked at her like she was crazy, lol, PURPOSELY.
She leaned forward, to my ear, and said:
hb: my name is . . . whatever the fuck it was, and my partner is over there on the other side of the dance floor busy.
me: ok, my name is Toney.
hb: (pointing to the guy she JUST left) he's not my partner.
me: ok (like I didn't care, because really I didn't. it was all about the SV last night at that point, for me)
so we start dancing, me and her, then . . . voila! that other group of girls that had ignored me SUDDENLY took notice, lol.
They weren't my targets either, but it was nice to see the effect on them. And yes, I could have probably opened them at that point, but didn't.
Had a couple of other small things happen, then finally "my girl" that I had picked up a week earlier arrived with her friend. I met them in line, said hi, talked a minute, then left them and went back inside, WHILE the girls in the line watched. Upon re-entering, of course that worked a LITTLE more magic for my social value.
When "my girl" finally got in there, we pretty much stayed together for the rest of the night and of course her friend stayed with us too, which meant more DHV for me.
At the end of the night, obviously things were heated with me and "my girl" to the f-close, but I won't go into further details on this forum
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