Hi all,

I am new to this whole PUA thing. I had my first #-close tonight. I took the habit to open at least three sets a day, no matter who it is just to practice. It can be even a man, it is just to get confident with the opening thing.

Tonight, I was going home and I saw a very nice girl in the street waiting a bit. I don't really know what she was waiting for.
I walk and look at her, approached her facing her and smiling and here is the conversation:

CM: You have.... the most beautiful... bag ! ever !
HB: smiles... oh the bag ! Where are you from ?
CM: yes the bag ! Did you get paid to wear it ? smile. Am from France you ?
HB: Am from Moscow. You from Paris ?
CM: yes.

Then, I put a false time constraint, watched the time. And followed with:
Actually, I need a female's opinion on something and I'd like to make up my mind tonight. I have been dating a girl for a week. We met in a bar and we exchange numbers. Then we met again, twice. And now she sent me this text message this morning.
I show her a fake message on my mobile:
So we are in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship ?

Her: Oh, it is quite quick. Am not good at giving advices. Now I have a boyfriend, but I used to change often.
Me: Me neither am not good at advices... I think I should call her. But I don't want to say yes, cause am not a liar, and I don't want to say no, cause she will be hurt.
Her: Do you like her ?
Me: Well clearly there is no magic, but yes maybe in the future.
Her: You should tell her.
Me: Thanks
Her: Am going to France next (I don't remember when)
Actually, it is good she said that cause I was about to excuse myself politely.
Can you give me advices ?
Me: Depends, how do you go there ? You go alone ?
HEr: Yes.
Me: No, I know nice places if you go with someone.
Her: But I have friends there.
Me: I know some place but I don't remember the name, maybe you can give me your phone number and I'll tell you.
{By the way, How do should I ask the phone number of a girl ?}
Her: Yes definitely.
Me: Do you believe in spells ?
Her: Hmmm. It depends. What do you mean.
Me: mind reading.
HEr: Yes.
Me: You wanna try ?
Her: Yes. But am in a hurry.
Me: Yes me too, I have to go, but it is 5min.

I put a bit of pressure and did the Denmark Kangoroo Orange thing. It worked like a charm and then #-close.

Maybe she was easy to talk but she was definitely hot and the good thing about the method is:
1. even when you don't close, you don't get a frank no. You leave and you got the attention. So, eventually, you are always the winner. Am not afraid of being rejected anymore.
2. Being a PUA is creating the opportunity. Sometimes you will be lucky and she will be interested. Sometimes, it will be more difficult but still you tried.

Tell me what you think about it. I definitely have to practice more but I loved to game her.

Good Job Man! The journey of 1000 miles begins with one step... Conrats! Just remember to not get discouraged when things go wrong. I have a problem with that myself.

Thanks man...I was gonna call her today but was at the gym way too long...

I think I am going to call her during work time, ask her out to lunch

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Res firma mitescera nescit

No don't take her to lunch thats AFC

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Perception is Reality

Yes, this is nice...

I wouldn't go with the bag opener, though.

And what's the "Denmark Kangaroo Orange Thing"???

Thumbs up!

(And no lunch!!!)

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Think about it what is every other guy going to do?

Do something that you were going to do without her but since you met her she might as well come along.

But if you really want to do lunch then talk on the phone about this great place that you go to lunch almost everyday but don't invite her then talk to her for 5 more min than say I'm going to that place and your welcome to join. So basically your making it seem as if your not doing anything out of the norm for her.

Just if you go to lunch for a second meeting its hard to not pay and not look like a cheap skate in my opinion

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Perception is Reality

The Denmark Kangoroo Orange thing is as follows:
Think of a country that begins with the letter D.
Take the last letter of this country and think of an animal that begins with this letter.
Take the last letter of this animal and think of a color that begins with this letter.
99% of the people think of Denmark - Kangoroo - Orange.

Once I got: Dominica instead of Denmark...

Thanks man, but... I don't speak english so it's no good to me.
I will make some research and make my own version.

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Good creative stuff. U say u gonna try do 3 sets a day.

b good if u can list ur winning conversations here. We all can learn from ur creativity:)