Hello PUA Community. This is my first FR, and I wanted to share it with you because I'm in quite the predicament now.

I've been a student of the game for quite sometime. About two months ago, I went to a club and I successfully number closed an HB9 or HB10. The next day, I texted her, "what's up (name) from the club who's tryin to go to med school?" She said, "omg i'm impressed you remembered blah blah blah."

I took her out the next day. We went for drinks and I sat really close to her and Kino-escalated until we were leaving the club holding hands. That night, I almost fclosed but as soon as she said no, I stopped.

The next day, she came by and I finally fclosed her. We started "seeing" each other after that for a good month. It was fantastic... she called all the time, etc. Very relationshippy.

About a month ago, she became distant. I kind of got upset cuz she would leave me hanging with communication consistently. Needless to say, I reverted back to my afc ways cuz I caught that oneitis from her.

On Monday, she LJBFd me. It was an interesting LJBF because she said she just wanted to be friends for now. I respond, "alright ttyl... i'm out right now." I was out with an HB7 at this time.

Fast forward to right now. She seems annoyed whenever I tell her about how I'm gonna start moving on and all that. I'm already seeing girls (sleeping with one already). It's hard to not want THIS specific girl though. So I'm having a difficult time with my situation now. For those who say GFTOW, I gotta say that I can fclose one or two other women right now. The problem is: it's not working to get my mind off this one girl.

How do I re-attract her? How do I seduce her when our communication is just fckd up?

I'd say this one is over. You say she's a 10, so what is your number? If you are shooting high it may just be too much work to keep her.

My guess is you played it good enough to reel her in but as she got to know you she realized some of it's just a show. She probably sees you as a nice guy, and she loved how good you treated her which is why she stayed around this long, but it also made you a Beta.

Find an 8 that isn't so hard to keep and you'll have a happier life. This one is gonna string you along while she finds herself a serious Alpha.