I had a date with a girl I didn't personally met, but she hung out with some of my friends before...
I never talked to her (well, I only saw her a couple of times passing by), and she was asking questions about me so my friend gave her my number. When my friend told me about that I asked her to give me her number as well. She's a HB6.5 (Don't say shit, I have a very different scale standards than you. In every second post I see an HB 9.5 or a 10.)
I texted her, and set up a meeting. (I didn't ask her, I told her to)
So we met. She came directly from her school, and she was really nervous. I was relaxed all the time and expected that she would relax as well.
We were going to an ice-cream parlor. I was talking about anything and everything, just like talking to a friend.
I negged her for "stalking me". She knew lots of stuff about me. I said that I don't usually date stalkers and spies and that I hope she doesn't watch me when I'm in a bathroom, even if it's hard to resist.
I also negged her for torturing her pets in sick ways. Said I hope that she won't treat me the same way... She said she'd treat me good, maybe just a little sick.
She was carrying her school bag cause she came directly from school... should I have carried it for her? I don't know.
I played the 5 question game, if I win --- she owes me an ice cream. (I won of course, there's no losing that game.)
BUT, she didn't have enough money with her so I just bought her the ice cream, what could I've done? We sat down on a nearby bench.
Her body language:
Her legs were crossed but were pointing at me, so that's ok.
A few times she crossed her arms for short periods of time --- bad.
She was looking at her cell phone, bad again.
She was "accidentally" touching my leg with her's --- very good.
I was slightly leaning back and did KINO occasionally.
I told her to give me a massage, negged her about it and showed her how it's done.
We was about to part ways and we got up and walked a little.
NOW she relaxed. I put my arm around her waist.
She asked me if we'll meet again.
I said: "YES, we definitely MUST meet again, you OWE ME money... or ice cream."
As we both were about to go home, I said "kiss godbye" and I pointed to my cheek. She kissed me and turned her head to the side for me to kiss her too. So I did.
She now asked: "Pleaseee... Can I get another???"
She wanted to make out... I didn't. This was a bad day, she was nervous and un-relaxed. If I kissed her it would be just uncomfortable. I did that before as an AFC, and that would bury it. I wanted to keep this one.
So I said: "Ok, sure, If you insist...", and I let her kiss me on the cheek again. She did, but she was confused by this, I just laughed, said bye, and left.
All together, it was about an hour and three quarters.