I've had this friend for a while and she's been into me ever since. She had a few problems over the past few months so I hadn't seen her at all and the other day she calls me and tells me how she's better now and wants to meet. At first I'm trying to brush it off to next week, but then I made an appointment for yesterday. On Monday I postponed it to today.
The point of this whole story is how inner game will take over 80% of your work once you have it. I realized that today. I'm not really into her, but I wanted to see how far I can get.
That girl has known me as a positive and confident person ever since so I had already massive credit with her. When we met today, it didn't take a whole minute until I started getting IOIs and SOIs from her. I was returning the one or another, mostly leaving her to speculation. I did some kino testing (ala push-pull), mostly to get her comfortable to my touch. We went for a cup of tea and talked a bit. Then we went off and walked to a park while talking. There we talked some more and at one point we ended up on the bench. I simply looked into her eyes, did a triangular gaze and k-closed. And that was it. I didn't even talk that much. She probably did 70% of the talking. I just jumped in there when I felt like it. And that was it. It's amazing how powerful pure confidence, lack of neediness and simply being a cool guy is. It was so easy that it actually blew my mind.
Tomorrow I'm meeting her again to bring this to an end. I'll do the classic to let her first check my apartment, then hush her out, go do something with her, later bring her back, watch a movie and f-close. I know it will be another no-brainer. Why? Because of the way she talked to me. She was like "Ah, I see, you want to take it slow, right?" and I replied "Maybe. Maybe not. I'll see." She laughed and giggled. She kept lowering her hand always almost to my ass while we walked around arm-in-arm and she suggested to change the speed 2-3 times (in other words to move faster forward in our "relationship"). I didn't do it today because of bad logistics. That's why I will do it tomorrow.
Point of the story:
Inner game reduces the work you need to do incredibly. It does that in such a quantity that it blew my mind today. But don't forget, get some skill as well. It will serve as a great extension on your inner game.
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