FR:First Nos Close

I was going to meet up with a newbie friend of mine who was gonna sarge for the first time. Few hours before leaving for sarging I get call from few wingmen & I meet 3-4 new ppl there. Some of them had sarged before.

We meet at this mall in the food court n when everyone arrives, one of my wings noticed a nice seated two set behind us (both HB 8’s) I decide to open. I go in direct with “hi I noticed u from there and I thought u were cute, I had to come talk to you “within 10sec I took a seat realizing that just standing there would creep her out.at this point no hesitation from her, but she didn’t look particularly interested. She didn’t shake my hand nor told me her name but said she was waiting for her friend. I eject, later just chit chatting with my wings, my wing told me, oh that guy seems to be looking at u, and I see a guy seated with those two girls. Looking back I wave at him and give him a smile, he does the same. I could see the respect he had in his eyes for me just for the fact that I approached

Then we got up, quickly one of my wings noticed a seated 2 set (HB8 and UG) behind meand i go in direct again. I get a quite warm response. We exchange names.

Her: your hands are pretty cold
Me: ya they are, but don’t worry I’m pretty hot from the inside
Her: where do u live??
Me: I live in******.does that really matter (didn’t realize it was a hoop)
Me: so what u do??
Her: Farmer training
Me: what…the …farmer training??So do u like teach how to plough the field??Or something?

At this point I realize that I was ignoring the UG, she wasn’t really an obstacle but still I decided to befriend her and back to the target

Her: actually I’m doing corporate training

Some other convo..Don’t really remember, then went for the close

Me: hey I gotta get back to my friends. Give me u r number, I promise nothing but good conversation and if I like you over the phone, we’ll hang out
She hesitated a bit but then told me lets do this on FB u can find me on Facebook, I was like cool, took her full name and ejected

Did a few direct approaches later on the shopping street we were heading to, got blown off, opened a set twice after she rejected me once

Then decided to open an HB7, I went from behind, slight tap on the shoulder, she removes her headphones

Me:hey I think you are really cute and I had to come talk to you, whats your name?
(We exchange names)
Her: thank you, can I go??
Me:hey wait, I think you are cute and I want to get to know you, I am not gonna eat u or something
Her: ok….
Me: is this your friend right here
Her: no, she is my elder sister
I befriend her and back to target
Me went in with a large hoop) Beauty is common, so what u have going for urself other than your looks??
Her: I donono……
Me: WORST ANSWER EVER, couldn’t u come with something better?
Now she started with comfort questions and all of a sudden seemed pretty relaxed
Her: what do u do?
Me: I am student
Her: oh, I am a student too, I’m studying at ***** college
Me: OH, it was my junior college (at this point I should have kino ’d her with high five)
So what are u studying,arts,commerce??
Her: i m doing BA
Me:You don’t seem to enjoy that much, what u wanna become like an actress or something???
Her: no…
Me: oh so u just want a degree….hahaha..Just like me
Followed it up with some comfort convo…and I realize its time she’ll be leaving; also she said can I go now?
Me:hey u seem to be in a hurry, even I have to go back to my friends
Her: Where are your friends?
Meh they must be in that shop, they had to buy some hair wax,anyways u seem like a cool person to be with, give me your number, I promise nothing but good conversation and If I like u over the phone ,we might hang out
(She looks at her sister almost hesitating)
C’mon u don’t wanna reject a cute guy like me
Her: ok take my number
Boom CLOSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That day owing to ending day of a 9-day festival, there were very few sets
I managed to open around 10 sets totally

LESSON LEARNT : plough the girls a bit more, force for the number 2-3 times.don't walk away like a douchebag the moment she says no.NO means NOT YET. When you walk away at the first instant, it’s like a shit test u failed and the girl is like…another LOSER. Didn’t qualify the girl I FaceBook closed,but corrected this in my next approach

So after around 135 approaches in the last 3 months,I got my first nos close