| First of all I’m still contemplating as to what to do when going out: drinking or no drinking. I’ve read a lot of PUA’s recommending not drinking, and I can see why, I just also feel it’s part of being young and being a student. I don’t go out with the sole purpose of picking up girls, I also go out to bond with the friends I’m going out with, where drinking alcohol together fits in nicely. The downside however is that it gives you fake confidence as it did to me last night…
I went out with a roommate and two Italians I had met that morning. I did not feel energetic last night, so I didn’t feel in the mood to walk around the bars opening set after set, which is what I want to do consistently here. Instead I picked a strategic spot to lean against a wall in every bar, rocked my head with the beat and maintained an honest smile throughout the night. The vibe I was feeling was ‘I’m having a blast chilling right here’.
Not a whole lot of interactions but there was one interesting case. I saw a cute girl out of the corner of my eye conveying interest, not long after that she and her friends moved closer to where I was standing. At that moment things got crowded and her and her friends were pushed in my direction and she stood on my toes. Exagurating I said AU loudly as I pointed both my hands at my feet while looking at her in an overly irritated way which made the joke obvious. As she was about to say sorry I deliberately interrupted her, and used Mytery’s ‘nice-eyes’ line. She digged it and we made some standard small talk, where you from, what’s your name etc. She started grabbing my hands pretty quickly into the conversation and I removed them several times, upon which she asked ‘Are you gay or something’. ‘In fact yes, I am gay, I love guys and do you know the color pink, I love the color pink. If I wasn’t gay you would be mine in just a second’. Keeping up that frame for a couple of minutes and telling her we could be buddies and look for guys together she wanted to pull me out onto the dancefloor.At this point, I forgot the reason, but she wanted a double high five and held her hands ready at shoulder height. I gave her a rejecting look and grabbed her wrists and moved her hands up above her head, as to say ‘look this is how normal people high five’. I gave her a slow double high five, interlocked hands, moved them over my shoulders and we started kissing.
After kissing for a minute or so, she wanted me to come over to where she and her other friends were standing. I didn’t feel like it and told her I’d be standing here in my spot. She left, and I maintained the frame that I couldn’t care less. While I was talking to a Dutch girl a few minutes later she stopped by and this is where, I think, pre-selection kicked in big time. I had only just been talking to the Dutch girl, there wasn’t much game going on, but my target totally tried to claim me by using her body to position herself infront of me. I wasn’t giving her much attention but I noticed she had brought her smaller female friend when they started kissing right infront of my face. I love my frame here, because I pretended I couldn’t be bothered at all at what they were doing, so I kept my eyes focused on stuff behind them. I saw them stop after a while and look for my reaction, which they weren’t getting, even though they were standing right infront of me, upon which they recommenced kissing. When they stopped the second time, I said calmly to her: ‘ok, let’s’ go, and a couple of seconds later we were outside. Thing is, I didn’t hook the girlfriend. I didn’t really think about it, I probably should have kissed the girlfriend as they were both so sexed up, I had a different concern however… I was wearing swim shorts and I was turned on as hell, so I couldn’t really stand on the dance floor let alone make out with two chicks without them and everyone else noticing my huge tent.
Outside we sat down on a bench, kissed some more, felt each other up a bit and I said I wanted to go home. She responded by saying she had to tell her friends (I assume she meant that she was planning on going with me) and that I should wait here for just a moment. So I waited for 2 minutes, at which point I stood up to look for my friends as people were leaving the bar. I stayed close to the bench though. I found my friends and stayed close to the bench but I never saw the girl again. I saw two girls walk away, one which could have been her, but I didn’t persue. So I figure the reason I didn’t end up in bed with her could be one of three things:
1. She was drunk, didn’t see me sitting on the bench and because of my ‘I couldn’t care less’ frame she assumed I had left.
2. She was flaking me and got enough satisfaction out of kissing with me, and rubbing against my dick while I had said I was gay
3. She changed her mind, maybe her friends had a part in it
Either way I was pretty baffled. One thing is for sure though, kino is the way to go at these bars, will do some reading up on that subject.
Tilt signing out.
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