Yesterday at the gym I decided to take David Deangelo's direct approach of asking her if she was single. There was this blonde that kept looking at me and smiling. I decided to approach her because I thought that chances were high that she would no reject me.

I did not follow his line exactly and mixed it in with some thing I had learned from Neil Strauss were you say you are going to get going soon but just wanted to quickly ask some thing

I told her I needed to get going and wanted to ask her some thing before I go. I was very calm and relaxed and showed no signs that I was stressed. However when I was about to ask her if she was single, the thought crossed my mind What the hell am I doing. Maybe I was setting myself up for failure with such an approach. A few seconds of silents past and I then told her it was nothing important

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I think you did the most difficult thing already and you already knew the chances of rejection were low ... try again next day u see her ... tell her the last day you wanted to see her behaviour before talking to her ... and now you think she already has passed that test, bla bla ... then ask her the question ...

... keep gaming!