So I'm starting to really learn what a solid set feels like. Been lurking here for a while, but looking to start posting a bit more because I could do with some feedback and advice on a few things. So far I've had two sets that go way beyond what I used to think 'solid' meant. I went out thursdsay 29/7 with Seven [from the Manchester Lair]. Started off in the 5th Ave smoking area. I wasn't really gaming properly. We did some dancefloor game in the gay village, I did my usual thing i.e., doing well then not pushing it or getting frustrated when it doesn't go down totally smoothly and eject.

The only real set was Leah and her friend outside Baa Bar. I opened with something stupid, we got chatting for a bit. I could tell she was into me so I got off with her. So yeah, just fluked attraction, I've got a load of cool stuff I do for attraction, but no harm in letting things happen when it falls into my lap. Fizzled out and she went off, then bumped into her in New York New York (the bar not the city). I isolated her and did this cool thing for qualification. I said "I have a rule against kissing girls that I don't really know, so let's make a pact not to kiss each other again until we know each other better." I then teased her with the kiss, building sexual tension, kissing her everywhere except her lips and pulling back when she went for the kiss. I was trying to hold off on giving her the validation of getting off with her until she gave me a reason to kiss her. I'm starting to that the only real purpose of qualification is to make the SOI genuine, that's all it is. and I think if the attraction is there, coaxing the emotional investment out of a girl isn't really necessary, it just happens naturally, then you can just tell her what it is about her you like. I've noticed that a key phrase to look out for is "But why me?", which indicates that I've got loads of attraction but no qualification. I told her "There are a lot of girls in here that I could be talking to, but for some reason, but for some reason I want to know more about you." She said I'm not like most guys, which is definitely a good sign.

This whole qualification thing is like learning attraction all over again. First I learnt how to imply that I didn't value the girl, now I'm learning how to tell her that I do like her. It feels odd, chode method. At some point she went off and made me chase her. I danced with one of her mates. Now it feels weird to chase because I've learnt to do all this shit to make her think I'm disinterested, but at some point, you just have to supplicate. I think that the real test of whether a set is solid or not is whether the contact details are important. If you can arrange a date and fuck her without needing to exchange numbers, that's a solid set.

I caught up with her, Seven was awesome, SOId her for me, cheers dude. I chased her twice, at some point, the power games need to stop and you just have to chase. I finally got off with her properly, throwing her up against the kebab shop window and stuff. At this point she was so wet she could have thrown her knickers at the window and they would have stuck. That's true romance fellas. I M-closed some girl and pimped out her boobs for 50p for some other bloke to motorboat then went home.

Was meant to meet up with her a few days later, but she straight up forgot because I didn't know how to text her to keep it warm. I got really pissed off with her, and she told me she liked me and was sorry she forgot. At this point I was tempted to tell her to fuck off for the sake of my ego, but I realised I was just scared that I didn't have the stones to take it to the end and get my power back. I've sort of realised that I need to put my ego on the line and just accept that sometimes it won't work out. So I put my ego on the line and did what it took to set up the meet for the next day.

She came over, we watched Beauty and the Beast. PRO-TIP: Red wine is like viagra for girls. Took her into the bedroom, turns out she has an STD so I didn't fuck her. It was torture, she was telling me she squirts (I love girls who squirt), telling me how much of a slut she is (I love sluts), telling me how much she wanted me to fuck her (I love girls who let me put my penis inside them).

So yeah, I've got problem here. I hate using condoms. It doesn't even feel like I've had sex if I use a condom, I want the full experience. However, if I get laid as much as I plan to, I'm bound to catch something at some point, especially since I love sexually experienced girls (nice way of saying I love sluts).

I think I'm really getting to grips with what qualification is now, and learning what it really means for a set to be solid.

A question for the more sexually experience guys, I'm frustrated that some girls seem to have a really easy time coming, and some girls find it really difficult, even though I'm doing mostly the same thing. Does anyone know if it's possible to open up the girls who find it difficult? I.e., has anyone actually turned an unresponsive girl into a squirting nympho? Don't get me wrong, even the somewhat unresponsive girls really enjoy sex, but I just want to see them writhing about and moaning and stuff.





Feedback appreciated, thanks.