Hello, guys.

Initially settling down with a girl friend was never my intention when I started PU journey. However, Now, I'm in a relationship with a HB7 girl I picked up 3weeks ago and haven't made any effort to my pu skill. I feel like I'm going back to AFC and losing my alpha male power. What shall I do? I have to say this is my sticking point at the moment. Tell me anything plz.
Thanks.

Chopin.

If this HB7 is your ideal girl then stick with her.

You should make a list of all the qualities, both physical and otherwise, of the girl you want and then don't settle until you get it.

Since you're having second thoughts you clearly don't feel this way about the girl. Best strategy is not to leave this too long, or it will become more difficult. Be as honest as possible and don't tell white lies that may lead her on. Equally avoid the cold harsh truth that will make her hate you: "You aren't hot or cool enough"

My wing Justin, does a hell of a lot of online dating and after F-closing tends to pick any tiny little things he can justify a break up on and then blows it out of proportion. A girl once texted him three times in an evening and he told her he was afraid she was getting dependant on him and that the pressure meant they wouldn't last.

Good luck.

I'd say tell your gf that you feel you are losing your alpha male power. Think of this as an opportunity to take it a step above pick up stuff and learn how to be in a relationship. Really, relationships can be very satisfying (or miserable). So this is a chance for you to explore something that pick up cannot provide. But I'd say read the book by Gary Karp called Disability and the Art of Kissing. It talks about how your gf should be someone you can trust, someone open minded, and someone who is willing to experiment. I say have fun with it.