So I'm very new to PUA but I'm picking it up pretty quickly. I've read The Game and am working my way through The Mystery Method. So far I've been testing out different routines and gambits on random friends and ppl to try to gauge reactions and get a feel for reading ppl. I'm still working on getting past my approach anxiety but it's not a huge problem for me.

So today I decided to put what I've learned to the test and work some game on this girl I've been seeing around at my campus. she's an hb 8 with the attitude of an 10... didn't realize at the time though. So I'm not going to get too much into details of the conversation cause frankly I don't remember. I'll just stick to what really matters.

So I approach and start chatting her up. I use an opener I made up myself about girl that found out her b/f has another g/f blah blah blah. She introduces herself and I bring her over to my group of friends. I start to take control of the conversation in the group but then something totally unexpected happens. My target is AMOGing. She has an extremely powerful personality and is very very domineering. I try to recover from this by throwing out some dhv's but she's totally unimpressed and outdoes me at every turn. So I start throwing some negs at her... now I start getting a reaction. Her body language showed her attention became fixated on me. So now we get into some fluff talk... in the middle of it she starts using me as a foot rest! I gave her the whole "don't touch the merchendise" "this shit aint free" stuff and pushed her legs off me but it only made her more aggressive. As you can tell she's the type thats used to getting her way... so now I use the opportunity to use it to kino escalate. It works... She starts flirting heavily with me and I right back. Some IOIs are thrown my way and I throw them back. I just kept up the pace of negging or taking my attention away when she was trying to amog me and when she was responding in the way I wanted I'd throw some IOIs at her. Now there is one last hurdle... she's mentioned twice that she has a b/f. I have no idea how to get past that. Any help would be appreciated.

For my first real target I think I did a good job. I didn't # close though I think I could of. I'm gonna go for it next time I see her. I was utterly shocked to see that she had such a powerful personality though. To be honest that fact they she was very very alpha and even managed to amog me a couple times was a bit of a turn on. More so that it just makes me was to tame her even more. Have any of you guys run into women like this before? Agressive, dominant, etc. etc. If you have some advice on working past that would be great as well.

Almost forgot... at certain points she was negging me. Almost worked too but I knew better.

good post man. For a first sarge you handled it very well. congrats.

As far as females w/ the aggro attitude and "girl power" confidence, its a good thing you're dealing w/ this early on. Alot of people who has that domenering(i dont think i spel that rite) personality will usually welcome someone that can stand up and match their personality. For the most part girls like that are used to plowing through AFCs & when they come across someone that can hold their own and not be intimidated, you'll get their respect ( total DHV).

As far as the BF, it maybe another shit test. I say dont change your game too much. Just read and feel her out. If she dosen't mention the BF by name a lot , then it may just be a guard or shield or test. If she does have a BF and shes willing to get picked up by you then he probably wasnt that big of a deal to her.

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Thanks man... before I got into pua I was a very shy person... especially in groups. But for whatever reason I've just opened up to it really well. I think it has a lot to do with the fact that I'm a naturally optimistic person so when I put my mind to something I get it done.

Oh and another detail i left out... we were talking about this bakery we both knew and loved and she threw out an invite for me and her to go there sometime. Nothing solid but I see it as a very good sign.

nice ...thats a definite IOI. Just make sure you dont stay in the comfort stage too long. You might end up in the friend zone.

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So turn it up a bit? Kino Escalate, turn the flirting up a notch and feel out the opportunity to make a move?

yes. That would be the plan. You got the idea!

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Just to update a bit... I've really turned things up. A lot more kino, built more attraction and comfort. There seems to be a lot of sexual tension built up now. She's still extremely aggressive and her attraction to me is becoming apparent due to her nature and the tension between us. I'm thinking I could seal the deal on this one.

good job.
When you close this one, write up a field report on it. Alot of the other newbies will appriciate it.

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any news on the BF???

or are you past that already?

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So I went out with this girl today. We went to this bakery/sub shop in boston then to this kind of hangout spot/park. Things went well at first... lots of flirting kino and teasing. We got to know each other a bit better and the mood overall we good. On the way back though the mood changed. We started playing pedidle. Well long story short I ended up butt ass naked. It didn't really affect me at all. I could care less I'm very comfortable with my body. But she seemed to change. She started talking about her b/f A LOT more. I would change the topic but she kept cutting my threads and bringing up her own about her b/f. By the end of the night all see would talk about was how she wanted to get home and have sex with her b/f. At that point I was just like w/e and laughed it off. I'm just looking back now trying to figure out if I did something wrong or if she's just been toying with me all along. Trying to win herself an orbiter.

Oh and BTW she hadn't mentioned her b/f at all earlier or even at all during the last few times we've hung out.

I'm thinkin right now I should freeze her out and stop giving her so much attention.