Okay so I've been seeing this girl for a while now and she was always worried about getting fingered (we did through her panties but thats it).

Anyways I was with her today laying on her bed, and I realized that every time that I bite her lip and give her tongue while kissing her, her back arches and she gets really turned on. So I start doing and then start fingering her through her underwear. She goes along with it, then stops me after she starts to come.

I have tried to freeze out with this girl before. Does not work* I have tried talking to her about it. Does not work. So this is what I did.

In my head I while I was kissing her I was thinking about how I could escalade her into doing it. Before I said 'want me to...?' and touch right above. She would shake her head no and say she's scared. So I whispered in her ear and said 'want us to go a bit further?' Using 'us' and words like 'we' so she would know its not for me. She kinda hesitates and then shakes her head no while kissing me.

Most guys would freeze out here, but like I said, it doesn't work with her. SO. I said to her 'We will do a bit and if you want to stop just tell me and we will stop' She didn't say anything just kissed me harder. So I put my hand down her pants and fingerbombed her for like 10 minutes. She was convulsing like an epileptic at a strobelight convention. It was awesome.

I have put in time with this girl (who I actually like) and finally have some forward progress. Too bad I'm moving away next week and probably won't talk to her for a long time. Shit happens. Got some progress before leaving which feels pretty good. She was my one-it-is and it feels good to get a small conquest in... even if it isn't a lay.

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