My mate (BruvaGrimm) introduced me to this HB8 at a wedding i was at a couple of weekends ago. I had had a few to drink so I cant really remember details (not so much to drink that I was an ass!) but basically we got on really well and built up quite a rapport. Unfortunately, she was with a friend (who had been chatting to other people at this point) and had to leave fairly promptly. I saw HB8 as she was leaving and we said our goodbyes, both went for different side cheek kisses so i paused smiled a little, and kissed her on the lips. She was obviously suprised (to be honest I hadnt been gaming her a lot, it was my first time out with the idea of actually putting all the reading ive done into practise. Despite plenty of kino from her, mine in return was pitiful!) but she was pleasently suprised and looked back smiling again as she walked away.
I sent her a playful message on facebook and she added me straight away and replied and we had a few banter messages to each other.

I introduced the idea of ice skating and possible dates on facebook chat and she seemed really up for it, so i said that i would let her know when i knew when me and my mates were going...to show that I didnt need her to go with me, I was inviting her along because I thought SHE would enjoy it.

Just before I went I said 'oh im really busy next week, so probably wont be on facebook, better text me so I have your number' and sent her my number and then logged off chat.
She sent me her number and a few kisses within about 10 minutes... all good up to here!

I then texted her on Monday and said 'Hey 'HB8', were you back working today? Skating and bowling leaving about 7 on thursday, am giving 'Bruva Grimm' a lift so can be your chauffeur too if you like?! xx' ...addmittely, probably not the best text i've ever written

She replied 'Nah not working toay, sorry im afraid i cant make it this thursday, have fun tho, and tell 'Bruva Grimm' i deffo remember who he is lol xx' (i had been reminding her who 'Bruva Grimm' was as she had said she didnt know him..despite him introducing her to me at the wedding..!!!)

I dont think at all that she was trying to make excuses to not go but I do not know what to do now. I cant keep suggesting days as I have done in my AFC past cause then it makes it look like I needed her to go and dont have a life of my own...
I've found that the girls i go for tend to have nice exciting lives so often find myself unsure of what to do in situations such as this!!

Any advice much appreciated!

cheers guys!

Since you said you wanted any advice,
just as well might try something creative from an AFC

send her a Doodle-link for your event
http://www.doodle.com/main.html?locale=en

Make sure to bring across that you're really busy too, so you think this tool is the way to find a common gap in your agenda's.

I usually use that for University, so in my area it makes an event more casual to doodle it

god..i find it hard enough to discipline myself to write stuff up on my calendar on my wall! i will have to check it out